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Strap On Harnesses

Looking for a strap on harness for your dildo? We have the best strapon harness toys from leather to plus size and even boxer shorts. Purchase a dildo harness with an O ring to mount a strapon compatible dildo or sex toy. From sexy to kinky, there are hundreds of combinations to spice up the sex life!

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How to Create a Custom Strap on Harness Kit:

  1. Select a strap on harness from this category.
  2. Read the maximum waist size to make sure it will fit your body.
  3. Note the diameter of the harness O-ring to determine the maximum dildo girth that will fit.
  4. Choose a harness compatible dildo. Compare its diameter to the harness O-ring size.

If you want to create your own custom sexy strap on harness kit for women or men or get creative with a thigh strap on combo, this is the place to start! These harness strapons do not include an attachment. They do however include the dildo belt and the rubber or metal O rings that attach or mount the penis to the front of the strap on harness.

A leather strap on harness adds serious kink factor. More to love? Pick a plus size strap on harness to adjust to XXL body size. Boxer shorts are a new trend especially for men.

The typical male or female dildo harness includes 3 sizes of O rings that way each customer can select a larger variety of attachments that will fit. When you shop to create your own custom dildo harness kit, you don't need to mind the girth of the toy, you can pick whatever you like and attach it to the belt!

How to Find the Best Strapon Harness for You

If the included ring does not support your ideal penis dildo size, then our secret is to visit a hardware store and purchase a rubber O ring from the plumbing department. Voila – now you've customized it even further! Does your strapless dildo fall out of the vagina? Pick up a strap on harness and hold it in place on your body.

Not all strapon harnesses have O-rings for mounting a dick. Some have a hole that is cut and hemmed directly into the fabric. These are good for a pegging harness since the attachment for anal penetration is often really small and does not require additional support like a heavy or big dildo for vaginal penetrative sex does.

This type of anal sex harness cannot accommodate as big a range of girths, but the advantage of purchasing this style of dildo holder is that it looks far sexier, it's more discreet and less bulky. The slimline design looks more attractive when worn than the type with metal dildo holders, so there is give and take of each sex harness style.

Selecting Attachments for Your Dildo Harness

After you've chosen a strap on harness, visit the harness compatible dildo category to choose an attachment to fit your dildo harness. Many couples go this route and create a training kit for anal pegging by adding on a variety of small or thinner compatible pieces.

You can also experience fetish fantasy ultra kinky sex and get a strap on dildo bigger than a realistic cock for those true erotic lovemaking sessions with your partner. Anything goes and your kinky imagination is the limits with your very own strap on harness sex toy set.

Read the description of each dildo harness strap on to determine which style best suits your sexual needs. Usually a strap on harness is fully adjustable, either worth Velcro or a nylon waistband that adjusts from petite extra small waist sizes up to large plus size waists. Again be sure to note the maximum measurement when shopping for a harness sex toy to be sure it will fit your body.



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