Best Thrusting Vibrators & How to Choose One
There's a wide offer of thrusting vibrators out there, and while they're still considered “niche sex toys”, more and more adult toy manufacturers are joining the hype train creating a plethora of sex toy designs that move up & down for vaginal penetration.
With so many thrusters available, the question is how to pick the best one? In today's guide, you'll learn about the key features and their differences, then we'll help you select a product that has the right qualities to suit your preferences. Let's go!
What is a Thrusting Vibrator?
The self thrusting vibrator is a modification of a current style of vibrator or dildo, where the top third of the shaft thrusts up & down on a vertical axis providing a sensation of movement to mimic the penetrative feel of sex.
Most are visually obvious with folds that look like an accordion mid-shaft that extends and retracts and inch or two, while others have a weighted ball with that moves by magnetic force inside a hollow interior that simulates thumping instead of the actual shaft moving up and down.
Key Features
To experience the most pleasure, you'll need to consider your needs and pick the toy accordingly. To help you with that, I've listed some of the most significant factors to look for when choosing a thrusting vibrator:
Size
Bigger is always better? Not in the case of thrusting vibrators. Size matters here a lot, but not in the way you might think. Your vibe has one job, to give you the most pleasure possible. However, if it can't fit in the right places, it won't be able to perform properly, leaving you disappointed.
What size is the best, then? Well, it depends on your needs and experience. If you are a greedy girl, a larger vibe is probably your preferable choice, and it's nothing wrong with that. However, if you're only beginning your journey with sex toys, bigger toys can make it more painful than pleasurable.
With all that in mind, I'd suggest going for small or medium-sized vibrators. Such toys certainly feel less intimidating and therefore comfortable for less experienced women. The right shaft size is key to finding that sweet G-spot and having a blast when playing with yourself.
Shape
Thrusting vibrators come in various shapes. As covered, you can opt for a butterfly shape, rabbit style, or a realistic looking option. The choice here is entirely subjective, as there's no one-size-fits-all toy. Like the size of your toy, its shape will depend on your personal preferences. However, the shape will also impact a few other things.
For instance, straight vibes tend to perform better under pressure. Such vibrators are also easier to clean, as curved shafts may create pockets that collect bacteria. On the other hand, curved vibrators can maximize pleasure, providing you with a unique experience.
It can also backfire, though, as curves can feel uncomfortable when pushing up inside your vagina or anus. If you've never used a sex toy before, a straight shaft is probably the safest choice. You can add a suction cup to help with handling, however.
Dual Stimulation
Most products have a second motor on the side of the shaft for external clitoral stimulation, you'll notice the thrusting rabbit vibrator as the typical design. Internal & external motion options enhance your pleasure by providing external stimulation via rabbit stimulator while the shaft of the toy moves up and down internally in your vagina. It's a powerful sensation capable of producing a blended orgasm. Definitely one of our favorite features!
Vibrating Functions
As covered, thrusting vibrators are complex devices, and there are many different types of thrusting vibes that all come with their unique specifications. Of course, the primary two features of clit and vaginal stimulators remain the same, but there are numerous other features that manufacturers include in their devices that may enhance your experience.
Among the typical features the best modern thrusting vibrators accommodate, we can include:
- Several thrust and vibe settings
- Clitoris and perineum stimulators
- Wireless remote control
- Ergonomic handles and buttons
- Pre-programmable interfaces
- Rechargeable battery
Finding a toy with multiple vibrating modes should be your priority. It make your self-pleasuring more enjoyable as you can ride the toy from initial arousal to thrilling orgasm.
Material
The material used should play a significant role in your final choice, especially if you have sensitive skin or allergies. For example, latex sex toys tend to cause a rash, which is probably something you'd like to avoid after having a great time pleasuring yourself.
Generally speaking, it's best to stick to such materials as non porous silicone, or body safe TPE (which we have plenty of here at TheAdultToyShop). These are the safest materials that should prevent allergies and other conditions from ruining your experience.
The material will also impact the type of lube you use. Suppose you opt for a silicone vibe. In this case, you should choose only a water-based lubricant because silicone-based lube can react with a silicone vibrator.
Our Favorite Thrusting Vibrators
We've hand-picked some our favorite choices from all of our extending & retracting options for those who would like a quick recommendation.
As we've learned so far, the sensations are different, so really, the list cannot be in exact order because some women prefer the true to life experience of a soft realistic dildo, others want to be bombarded with stimuli from external and internal vibration, rotating or spinning beads and twirling heads. You want it – we've got it!
1. Firefly Thrusting Vibrator
Firefly Thrusting Vibrator shaft extends and retracts almost 1 inch while carrying a spinning stack with 3 layers of tiny beads up and down that thrusts forward inside your vagina. Like a fun factory at your fingertips. The firm nub you can see sticking out of the front of the shaft is a G Spot stimulator that literally massages your G Spot and it thrusts up and down. The small girth makes it suitable for everyone.
- Total Length: 9 1/2 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/4 inches
- Batteries: 4 AAA, not included
- Motor: 3 speeds & 5 thrusting patterns, Rabbit stimulator has 3 speed vibration & 5 vibrating patterns
2. Stroker Thrusting Rabbit
Stroker Thrusting Rabbit has a stiffer build compared to other toys of this style to deliver firmer pressure, a more noticeable thrust and stronger vibrations. In the meantime, the neat row of beads in the tip jiggle in response to the movement in the head which gyrates in a circular motion. If you want maximum movement, this over-the-top gyrating clit and rabbit vibe is one of the most hardcore and strongest we've seen.
- Total Length: 10 3/4 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 3/4 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
- Batteries: 3 AA, not included
- Motor: 5 speeds of rotation, thrusting & vibration
3. Sexy Things
Sexy Things is a soft and sensual thrusting butterfly vibrator perfect for a first timer. We love the extra soft shaft, even the head feels like jelly. There are multiple speeds of penetrative motion and the fastest setting is the quickest up and down motion on any female sex toy. The flexible butterfly stimulator touches the clitoris gently like a tingling kiss.
- Total Length: 10 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/4 inches
- Batteries: 4 AAA, not included
- Motor: 6 speeds & 1 patterns of thrusting, 3 speeds & 7 vibrating patterns of external stimulation
4. Firefly Butterfly
Firefly Butterfly features a firm nub specially designed for direct G Spot contact that literally massages your G Spot as it thrusts in and out with rotating beads in the background. The fun butterfly stimulator has its own set of controls and is perfectly designed to caress the clit. Place the clit on the butterfly head while the fluttering wings tickle the labia. It's waterproof too so splash away during solo play!
- Total Length: 9 1/2 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/4 inches
- Batteries: 4 AAA, not included
- Motor: 3 speeds & 5 thrusting patterns, Rabbit stimulator has 3 speed vibration & 5 vibrating patterns
5. Remote Control Thruster
Remote Control Thruster features wireless remote operation that allows you to easily change speeds and functions without reaching down trying to find a button somewhere on the base. The medium sized option is made of silicone. Extra strong suction cup base and firm realistically dimpled balls add to the versatility and make it more fun! The piston works with incredible force and reaches into the depths of your body, a great choice to replicate the sensation of sexual intercourse.
- Total Length: 7 inches
- Insertable Length: 6 inches
- Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/4 – 1 3/8 inches
- Batteries: Rechargeable via USB cable (included), Remote requires 1 CR2032 cell battery (included & installed)
- Motor: 5 thrusting speeds, 10 vibrating patterns
6. King Cock Warming
King Cock Warming is a brand new super fun rechargeable vibrator that includes the USB cord. It takes about 3 hours of charging time for 40 minutes of run time with all 3 features in simultaneous action. Bring your experience to the next level of realism with a warming heated motor that warms up to body temperature within a minute, the best thrusting vibrator that looks and feels realistic.
- Total Length: 10 1/12 inches
- Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
- Diameter: Ranges between 1 3/8 – 1 1/2 inches
- Batteries: None, rechargeable with USB cable (included)
- Motor: 3 Thrusting speeds, 1 Warming setting, 3 Vibrating speeds & 4 Vibrating patterns
7. Natural Motion Rabbit
Natural Motion Rabbit is a fun factory in your pants that features a one of a kind thrusting movement reminiscent of a jackhammer. The shaft itself does not move; inside the solid shaft lies a hollow tube with heavy weighted ball. When the motor is activated, this ball gets thrust up and down resulting in a powerful jackhammer type of motion. It's strong, thumping and supremely powerful.
- Total Length: 8 inches
- Insertable Length: 4 3/4 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/4 inches
- Batteries: None, rechargeable with USB cable (included)
- Motor: 3 speeds & 4 vibrating patterns of both thrusting and clitoral stimulation
8. Skinsations Warming Thruster
Skinsations Warming Thruster has a heavy solid ball that jumps in between 2 magnets inside a hollow tube resulting in a powerful jackhammer like motion. Press and hold the top button for 3 seconds to activate the warming mechanism inside the vibrator. It only takes a few minutes for the heater to spread warmth throughout the whole shaft. Never get that unpleasant, unsexy chill from your vibrator ever again!
- Total Length: 9 3/4 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
- Batteries: None, rechargeable with USB cable (included)
- Motor: 3 speeds of thrusting, 3 speeds & 7 vibrating patterns of stimulation
9. Orgasm Thrusting Vibrator
Orgasm Thrusting Vibrator has double rows of large metal beads just underneath the tip that twirl in the top giving a deeper massage than most vibrators with rotating pearls. For exterior fun, the longer flattened rabbit ears caress the clit with a light flapping teasing feel. The entire shaft is ooey-gooey like jelly, by for the softest vibe of all the best thrusting vibrators on the list here today.
- Total Length: 11 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/4 inches at the tip, 1 1/2 inches mid-shaft
- Batteries: 3 AA, not included
- Motor: 8 speed rotation / thrusting & 8 speed vibration, 3 vibrating patterns
10. Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit
Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit is more firm in comparison to all the others. When it extends inside the vagina, you'll feel it push through your tissue while the loosely packed white plastic beads rub in a circular motion the entire time. The rabbit stimulator also shares this same stiff structure blasting your clitoris with a firm vibrating punch. Separate wireless operation adds a kinky touch to couples sex play.
- Total Length: 10 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
- Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
- Batteries: 4 AA, not included & 1 N, included
- Motor: 7 speeds & 7 vibrating patterns
Frequently Asked Questions
Now that we have the most important things out of the way, I want to address some of the frequently asked questions many people have regarding thrusting vibrators.
Does a thrusting sex toy feel realistic?
Thrusting toys can provide exquisite and intense sensations. The hands-free play feature is amazing, and the number of different settings ensures every woman gets exactly what she wants from the toy. However, despite all these amazing features, it doesn't feel a hundred percent real. Don't get me wrong, it gets close, but nothing can compare to actual sex.
What is the best position for use?
It works great no matter the position. Whether you feel best when pleasuring yourself doggy style, missionary, or cowgirl, you can rest assured your vibrator will do its job. You can experiment with more positions if your vibrator comes with a suction cup.
Can I use it during sex?
Of course, you can. Moreover, it's something I dearly recommend if you're looking to spice things up in bed. Ask your partner whether they're okay with experimenting with sex toys. They work great when it comes to foreplay, enhancing the entire experience and making it even more intense between you two.
How to maintain my thrusting toy?
If you want your vibrator to serve you for a long time, you need to take proper care of it. First of all, cleaning the entire thing after usage is a must. Not only from the vibrator's lifespan perspective but for hygienic reasons as well. Use antibacterial soap and war, water and clean in between the folds on the part of the toy that extends & retracts.
Other than that, be careful with lubricants. For instance, if you have a silicone vibrator, avoid using a silicone lube as it may harm the toy. Water-based lubricants are the safest option when it comes to that.
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Take Your Sexual Experience to a Whole New Level
If you want to spice things up and make your sensations even more intense, investing in a top-quality thrusting vibrator will help you with that. Designed to provide a more intense and pleasurable experience during use, thrusting vibrators utilize a piston to provide up & down movement inside the body.
Trust me on this one. Once you get your hands on one of our thrusting vibrators, it will soon become your favorite toy. These exciting sexual aids come with both clitoral and internal stimulation features, providing hands-free play that will satisfy every woman who seeks pleasure. Browse through our diverse offer and take your sexual experience to a whole new level.
