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Sex Harnesses

Looking for a harness for your dildo? These sex harnesses are dildo holders that include only the strapon and the ring. Add a harness compatible dildo along with your favorite strap on harness below to create a personalized custom dildo harness kit. There are hundreds of possible combinations available to buy; this is the best way to let your erotic imagination discover new joys of sex toys!

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Create a Custom Strap on Harness Sex Kit

If you want to create your own custom strap on harness kit, this is the place to start! These sex harnesses do not include a dildo. They come without any attachments or compatible dildos. They do however include the belt and the rubber or metal O rings that attach to the front.

Most sex harnesses include 3 sizes of O rings that way each customer can select a larger variety of attachments that will fit. When you shop to create your own custom dildo harness kit, you don't need to mind the girth of the toy, you can pick whatever you like and attach it to the belt!

Alternatively, if the included ring does not support your ideal dildo size, then our secret is to visit a hardware store and purchase a rubber O ring from the plumbing department. Voila – now you've customized it even further!

Please note that not all strapon harnesses have rings, others have a hole that is cut and hemmed directly into the fabric These cannot accommodate as big a range of girths, but the advantage of purchasing this style of dildo holder is that it looks far sexier, it's more discreet and less bulky. The slimline design looks more attractive when worn than the type with metal holders, so there is give and take of each style.

Read the product description for each dildo harness to determine which style best suits your sexual needs. The strap on harnesses are all adjustable either worth Velcro or a nylon waistband that adjusts from petite extra small waist sizes up to large plus size waists. Again be sure to note the maximum measurement when shopping for a harness sex toy to be sure it will fit your body.

Finalizing Your Dildo Harness

After you've chosen a strap on harness, visit the harness compatible dildo category to choose an attachment to fit your dildo harness. Many customers go this route and create a training kit for anal pegging by adding on a variety of small or thinner compatible pieces. You can also experience fetish fantasy ultra kinky sex and get a dildo bigger than a guys dick for those true erotic lovemaking sessions with your partner. Anything goes and your kinky imagination is the limits!



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