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How to Use Sex Toys | Full Instructions with Video

How to Use Sex Toys | Full Instructions with Video

Last Updated on October 12, 2021

Knowing how to use sex toys initially seems self explanatory, but after you shop and once you open your new package and give it a spin in bed, you may be wondering about the exact way to use it. Within this extensive tutorial library, you'll discover tips, advice and instructions that you won't see anywhere else.

These techniques are derived from over a decade of experience working in adult sex toy shops and counselling men, women and couples who want to make sex more fun and exciting. It's my pleasure to share this wealth of knowledge with you!

Common questions beginners ask:

  • Are there any new & trending tips I should know?
  • What are some positions & handling techniques to make the orgasm feel stronger?
  • Are these full step by step instructions any different from what I do myself?
  • Any insider secrets on using sex toys with my partner properly?
  • How can women use male sex toys - and vice versa?

My complete informational section has step by step detailed written instructions and classy adult toy video demos to teach men, women & couples proper ways to enjoy personal products for amazing erotic pleasure in the bedroom. You'll also discover new & upcoming trends.

Discover adult toy techniques to improve foreplay with your partner, couples play and most importantly, better orgasms. My videos & articles are applicable to both solo masturbation, or intimate romps with your lover.

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How to Use Sex Toys Videos

If you want a quick overview on using the most popular styles of sex toys without needing to read full details, these video clips are perfect for you! It's simply not enough to say “use your imagination”, to properly use a sex toy, there are important tips all beginners should know. Watch these video demonstrations with your partner to get you started on how to properly use adult toys for the utmost comfort and superior sexual enjoyment.


This demo is for gals who have never inserted a vaginal vibrator before. What Is the Difference Between a Dildo & Vibrator? Once you know, it's easy to narrow down the ideal type to purchase. This article also features the most basic way to enjoy a vibrator, and offers a few tips to make your first time experience more enjoyable.

Most notably, lubricating the shaft is the most important tip you'll take away from these instructions, followed by techniques to handle it in a smooth flowing rhythmic motion. I also jiggle it around in a rotating, gyrating motion.

This adds pressure inside the vagina and increases the massaging sensation that makes a climax feel oh-so wonderful. This is why vibrators are also known as “personal massagers”!


It seems so simple, yet the secret to enjoying sex with a dildo is a rhythmic motion that imitates sexual intercourse. How to use a dildo? Contrary to what you may have seen in adult films, fast forceful movements are not a proper technique for female sexual pleasure! Secret tip: Learn how to use a suction cup dildo, it comes with a built-in handle!

I show that you must also lubricate the labia and spread the labia apart before inserting the dildos head. Even with a small beginners dildo such as this one, it's important to ease it into the body gradually with slower thrusting motion.

You're distributing the lube and making it slippery from end to end. Jiggle it around and stimulate, rub or press the clitoris at the same time to enhance pleasure and even reach a great orgasm!

Anal Beads

The "thumping" sensation of beads being pulled at the onset of orgasm is a secret tip for those in the know. Well, actually that's not entirely true. Anal beads have been around for centuries, so literally millions of people have discovered the joy of shoving stringed balls in the butt. This guide covers tips and advice on ways to make it cleaner, safer and more enjoyable.

Learn How to Use Anal Beads complete with full tutorial and step by step instructions. When you time the removal of anal beads with the muscle pulsing clenches of your orgasm, the rhythmic sensation catapults your pleasure into orbit. Learn the skills to unleash this amazing joy for yourself.

Rabbit Vibrators

There are more steps and secret techniques here than with any other type of vibrator. Learn How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator.In this video I quickly cycle through the 5 steps in order, but you don't need to follow them one by one to reach an orgasm.

Experience 5 ways to increase your pleasure and discover exactly why the bunny stimulator produces the most powerful female orgasms of all adult toys for her.

I published a comprehensive article with step by step instructions and more videos & close up pictures explaining exactly how the rabbit should be situated next to the body for maximum impact. In this video demo, you can plainly see how the spinning beads gyrate and rotate under full throttle.

Now imagine how good this feels while you're in the throes of a powerful orgasm. This is the complete explanation of why the rabbit is the best sex toy for women of all time. It's totally heavenly, that's for sure (and yes, I have my own large personal stash of rabbit sex toys!)

Bullet Vibrators

The most comprehensive adult toy guide with instructions on using those amazing tiny egg and bullet shaped clit vibrators that provide limitless orgasmic enjoyment for her.

How to Use A Bullet Vibrator; the most important device for female sexual pleasure, the bullet is capable of producing an orgasm in seconds. No other sex toy is capable of such a feat.

There are several different techniques that feel amazing such as lifting the clitoral hood and pushing the device underneath for direct forceful contact, spreading the labia and laying it over the vagina entrance (what a fabulous tease!)

Tone down the strength and use it with your partner to warm up the body by laying down the device over the labia majora and letting the buzz spread throughput the pubis. Even though some bullets are small, others wide and large, the techniques are all similar. Oh and also try it on the nipples too!


Instructions on How to Use Satisfyer Pro 2. What is Satisfyer? It is one of the world's most popular sex toys for women. It is an air pulse stimulator. In the video tutorial here, I show you the drum that's hidden deep inside the clitoral cup. This pulses at supersonic speeds to create a concentrated pressure wave.

When you place this over the clitoris, the burst of air imitates the sensation of suction. It is a highly powerful orgasmic experience and a highly recommended female sex toy for the clit. You'll see full instructions on how to position the device on the body. How to use sex toys? This one is super easy, discreet and the most friendly of all stimulators for her.

Clit Suckers

Click to learn How to Use a Clit Pump! Vibrating clitoral suction pumps are a great tool for intimate arousal to combat vaginal dryness and are one of the most exotic personal pleasure toys a lady can have.

One of the less common adult toys for women, the clit sucker is a prime choice for those who enjoy powerful clit suction, stimulation and massage. If you love powerful sexual stimulation, the pump is the best toy for you!

They are not a device that produces an orgasm on its own, rather they are incorporated into foreplay to help get the body in the mood for sexual intercourse.

Couples use them together to help the woman produce natural lubrication on her own, and exotic dancers use them to “puff” up the clitoris before going on stage. If you already have a big collection of adult toys, adding a clit pump is a logical next step!

Finger Vibrators

Improve your erotic handiwork with the fun & discreet finger stimulators. Learn different ways to use it during foreplay with your lover and enjoy personal intimate moments alone. Learn How to Use a Finger Vibrator.

Men and women often ask me how to use sex toys together to make foreplay more fun. Finger vibrators are the remedy for a boring sex life. In a long, loving and established marriage, sex becomes routine.

These tiny personal massagers are useful for incorporating a more playful attitude in the bedroom. The position of my hand in this video cycles through several options that rely on using your fingers and thumb to massage all her erogenous zones including clitoris, vagina, perineum and the anus.

It's literally a wholesome sexual experience and a fun way to explore each others bodies. Couples also use the finger sex toy on the nipples too, so add on a blindfold to your purchase and make your erotic night one to remember.

Prostate Massagers

When guys think of male sex toys, often a masturbator comes to find, you know, something for the cock. The little known secret (that is actually not a little secret anymore - the word is out) is that prostate stimulation unlocks an entire new realm of intense sexual pleasure. This guide teaches how to insert a prostate massager safely and comfortably.

Once upon a time, prostate massagers were for gay men only, but fast forward to the modern era and heterosexual men have adopted the concept and fully embrace the prostate massage. In fact, it is a popular way for couples to enjoy foreplay - for him to experience a prostate ,massage while receiving oral sex is one of the hottest and horniest things for men.

P-Spot massagers are used during sex and/or masturbation to amplify the strength of ejaculations. This beginners tutorial features tips, instructions and advice for beginners interested in trying out a prostate sex toy for the first time.

Cock Rings

One of the most common myths is that penis rings fit too tight and are uncomfortable for the partner to wear. While true that some constrict tightly to maintain an erection for men with erectile dysfunction, most are stretchy enough to fit all men's penis sizes.

What is a Cock Ring? Check out the largest penis ring guide with 12 types of rings, 5 ways to use them, new ideas and suggestions you may not have considered before to improve sex & masturbation.

The dual style penis ring demonstrated here is a discreet sexual aid for men. If you're wondering if the ring you want to buy is stretchy or stiff, read the product description because I mention this feature in each one.

The slight squeeze feels great, it lifts up his scrotum making the package look bigger and having loop around the testicles is a powerful sexual enhancer for him. It makes ejaculations feel stronger. Want a secret pleasure tip? I suggest men wear a penis ring during solo masturbation, they're not just for sex!

Penis Sleeves

Couples who contact me and ask advice on ways to spice up the sex life often end up with a penis sleeve in their shopping cart. It makes lovemaking feel different. Both partners will experience a soft, unique feeling padding during intercourse.

What is a Penis Sleeve? A popular type of adult toy for lovers looking enhance sexual intercourse, it makes ordinary sex feel different and super amazing! Learn how to use penile sleeves here first.

Not all penis sleeves are designed to make his dick bigger or longer, they are also for erotic enhancement in the bedroom. This sleeve is the best example of how sleeves are for intimate enhancement, not just penis enlargement.

They stretch to fit any size, but a little drop of lube inside will help it to slide on (with a helping hand as shown in the video demo) – but be careful not to add to much lube or the sleeve can fall off. You mist keep it mostly dry and it will stay on during sex.

Pocket Pussy

Click to learn How to Use a Pocket Pussy! Full step by step instructions for men who want to know how to properly use a pocket pussy. Includes care tips and suggestions that improve sexual enjoyment.

The most popular of all sex toys for men, yet still so taboo. If men only knew how many pocket pussies we sell, they wouldn't feel so shamed of buying one of their own. I demonstrate a basic pocket pussy here, it's not even a high end expensive style.

This is one of the cheapest ones we sell. Notice how soft it looks, and now realistic the lips move when the dildo is thrust in and out. For guys thinking about trying a masturbator for the first time, the pocket pussy is best style that recreates the feeling of sex with a woman.

Men also worry about their cock poking out of the open end, but the you can clearly see in my video demo how the surface stretches over the length of the erection and maintains full coverage the entire time.

Nipple Suckers

Never underestimate the orgasmic potential of nipple play! Learn how to use nipple suckers in my recent blog post that features a close up photo of all different types of suckers and pumps that we have available for sale online. Nipple suckers and pumps harness the power of vacuum suction and stick to the nipples providing the wearer with consistent suction.

They stay in place hands free allowing you to enjoy masturbation, foreplay or sex with your lover. You'll feel a tingle as the blood rushes into the areola which in turn heightens sexual stimulation and enhances your erotic response.

There's a reason why nipples are a powerful erogenous area for him & her. Nipple stimulators are common erotic accessory for both guys and gals, in this hands on demonstration I show two different types of suckers and show how well they stick once the vacuum suction is placed over the areola.

How to Use Sex Toys - Step by Step Tutorial & Instructions

This expertise comes with years of experience playing with adult products and being creative when trying new things with my man in bed. Save yourself some time and read through my instruction manuals and step by step guides to learn the best way to truly enjoy your new adult toy.

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  • How to Use a G Spot Vibrator - There are 12 steps required to have an orgasm with a G spot stimulator, it's like a precise recipe with explosive results! Also discover our 10 top rated and best G Spot toys for women.
  • How to Use a Clit Stimulator - The top choice for instantaneous sexual arousal! Discover secret techniques in the complete tutorial on everything you've ever wanted to know about clit stimulators.
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  • How to Use a Hollow Strap on - Answers to frequently asked questions and instructions on how to use a hollow strap on dildo for men with ED, one of the most misunderstood types of sex toys for couples.
  • How to Use the Butterfly Vibrator - The lesser known butterfly lives in the shadow of its more popular rabbit counterpart. We'll explore exactly why the butterfly just happens to have a superb design for sexual pleasure.
  • How to Mount & Remove Vac-U-Lock - The Vac U Lock is a complete strap on harness system for couples and commonly used by seniors in the bedroom. Learn tips on using these strap on toys to determine if its a good choice for you!
  • How to Use Kegel Balls - Kegel weights, trainers & balls have been used by females for centuries to help with incontinence after childbirth, but also perfect for hands free sexual arousal when you're feeling frisky.
  • How to Use a Vibrating Cock Ring - A little known sex accessory for couples, but my goal as a sex educator is to spread the word about these cheap, hands free devices with the hopes that one day you'll try one too!
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Now that you've learned how to use sex toys and know how we measure every sex toy, you're ready to pick your new favorite intimate bedroom accessory! So now the question arises where to buy sex toys? In each article you can view my personal listing of “10 best sex toys” and have confidence knowing that you've selected a good one.

Why buy sex toys with us? As you can see from the informational content, we have more experience & expertise than anyone else and know what works, and what does not. We have a warranty to back up every purchase and have all the accessories needed to properly clean & store your new purchase to keep it in tip-top shape for future kinky encounters anytime you're feeling frisky.

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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog and Mayla Green's Pressfolio to follow her newest & trending content published online.

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