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8 Inch Dildos: Our Top Picks for Your Pleasure

8 Inch Dildos: Our Top Picks for Your Pleasure

Last Updated on December 9, 2025

Dildos come in all shapes, sizes and colors. If you don't know your length preference, scanning through an online catalog is fun because it's like peeking through in a rummage bin. All sorts of neat things to discover.

If you specifically want an 8 inch dildo however, it can be tricky to find that ideal length with a girth that suits your preferences and comfort level. Some are thick, others are thin so girth matters when choosing the right lifelike lover to fulfill your fantasy of penetrative sex.

Are 8 Inch Dildos the Perfect Size?

The typical 8 inch dildo has the perfect thickness, according to most women. It is about 1.75 inches across in diameter (from one side of the shaft to the other side). If we compare it to other women's toys on a size scale, this lands in “upper medium” thickness. It is slightly over average, but still not classified as large.

Contrary to what most men believe, women do not always crave sex with a huge cock. It can be too uncomfortable or even painful. The reality is most women DO have a sexual fantasy about a slightly thicker, slightly bigger dick, so this is where the 8 inch toy comes into the picture: It's big without being "too big". Voila - the perfect size!

In fact when considering all size options, the top-favored choices in this category range between 7 and 8 inches long, sized just right for vaginal stimulation but not overly thick where it stretches too much. If you're hoping to find an 8 inch pecker that looks & feels like the real thing, this size should be your top pick. The average erect penis size is around the 7 inch mark, but why not add a tad more girth and a bit more to the height to your dildo and enjoy a thick and succulent sexual fantasy?

How We Measure our Dildos

When shopping for a specific size, there are 2 different points of measurements to consider:

  • Total length: The measurement from bottom to top including the suction cup base and/or balls.
  • Insertable length: The measurement of the insertable part of the toy, so just the penis shaft itself.

In the case of a dildo that has a total length of 8 inches, the insertable portion will range between 6 and 7 inches long. So technically, a dildo that measures 7 inches could actually be 8 inches total length because the balls at the base add the extra inch that is not vaginally penetrable.

Top Picks From our Collection


King Cock Realistic

1. King Cock Realistic - $49

King Cock Realistic is a stocky and bulky premium rubber women's dildo with a similar texture to silicone, but made of ultra-modern rubber which is much less expensive. It is perfect to use with strap ons.

In fact, this is one of the best strap on dildo compatible attachments available for sale anywhere in the sex toy world. It looks like a bulging horny erection, a lusty stud waiting for hot and heavy sex. Isn't that what you really want?

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 7 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 to 1 3/4 inches
  • Material: PVC
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Tan (Light Brown), Chocolate (Dark), Black

Blush Large Realistic

2. Blush Large Realistic - $33

Blush Large Realistic is the largest in a series of 3, but we hesitate to call it a true large dildo. It is a good size that makes the perfect dildo sex toy for someone looking to slightly upgrade their size for better sexual stimulation.

It's a challenge to try since the girth is generous, but for the average person it's nothing freaky. As a result, this is one of the finest realistic dildos that replicates penetrative sex with a talented lifelike lover. Silky smooth lab certified body safe PVC sets a high standard of premium sex toys for women in the future.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 6 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
  • Material: PVC
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Tan (Light Brown)

Medium Realrock

3. Medium Realrock - $37

Medium Realrock is a squishy, gummy soft long dildo best for those who need comfortable sex toys. It truly has the most gentle touch of them all, but it's not TOO soft (as compared to a flaccid dildo) so it's perfectly usable and functional for its purpose of sexual pleasure.

The total length is 9 inches including the suction cup base but the shaft is the exact length of the topic here today. Perfect for soothing sexual pleasure for gals who like a romantic, gentle touch under the covers and a fun addition to couples kinky foreplay.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 9 inches
  • Insertable Length: 8 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/4 to 1 3/4 inches
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Tan (Light Brown)

Real Cock Dual Density

4. Real Cock Dual Density - $58

Real Cock Dual Density is one in a line of super soft, highly sensual flexible realistic dual layer dildos for women who want a good quality dildo at a budget price. The subsequent sizes are perfect for vaginal training. This ultra realistic dildo is available for sale in white, brown and black.

This is the medium size option in the series of three size choices for sale. It has a bendable spine in the center of the shaft to keep it erect and upright while providing realistic feeling sexual penetration. It is one of the nicest real feel dildos for sale.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/2 inches near the tip, increases to 1 5/8 inches mid shaft
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

Sensual Pro 8 Inch

5. Sensual Pro 8 Inch - $45

Sensual Pro 8 Inch is our best realistic dildo with an exaggerated and overhanging firm mushroom tip. This sex toy is on the cusp of being large. We think it's slightly above the typical girth of a “medium” sized dildo. If you are thinking about buying a big dildo but don't want anything overly massive, this one is a great “step up” in size.

The shaft is bendable, but the overall structure is quite sturdy making it the best choice for hot and hardcore sex. Also makes a superb strap on dildo attachment and features a strong suction cup base. Available for sale in white, brown and black.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 7 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
  • Material: Silicone
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Tan (Light Brown), Caramel (Brown)

Medium Ultra Real Skin

6. Medium Ultra Real Skin - $55

Medium Ultra Real Skin is our absolute favorite medium sized ultra realistic dildo for women. It is also one of the most anatomically correct so if you want to feel the gentle touch of a real man's penis, this will let you drift away into the perfect sexual fantasy.

The shaft can bend as needed, it has a dual density layer which means the top layer moves independently from the core to imitate the skin on a real life erection. The best sex toy if you want to experience what sex feels like!

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Latin (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

Basic Natural Lifelike Dildo

7. Basic Natural Lifelike Dildo - $28

Basic Natural Lifelike Dildo is one of the best quality discount dildos you'll find anywhere. Sure the price is cheap, but the most important feature is the good quality, body safe build that you'll actually enjoy for years to come.

The head is really narrow, and the girth slowly increases towards the base. The deeper its penetrated, into the vagina, the wider it gets. We consider this like a training tool to help you get used to longer shafts & thicker girths someday in the future.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Latin (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

Knight Realistic Dildo

8. Knight Realistic Dildo

Knight Realistic Dildo has the most luscious mushroom head on any lifelike dildo ever made. There is no other female sex toy quite like it. Not only the mushroom tip will leave a lasting impression of sexual satisfaction, but the heavily veined cock shaft and sturdy balls enhance visual appeal.

The suction cup base is good for bathtub or shower play and also is harness compatible. The Knight in shining armor is one of the more intense long and lusty realistic dildo sex toys for sale. Available in three color shades of real skin tones.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 1/2 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
  • Material: PVC
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

Silicone Rainbow Dildo

9. Silicone Rainbow Dildo - $66

Silicone Rainbow Dildo adds a vivid splash of color to your sex life. This rainbow dildo for your strap on is made of gummy soft silicone. You can squeeze and squish it easily, but it's not TOO soft so you're easily able to insert it into the body and thrust to your little hearts content.

This colorful choice for pride has a stocky girthy erect shaft under a slightly flared penis head. The smooth striped rainbow shaft narrows as it approaches the sloped balls which just happen to make a great cushion to sit on. Suction cup base fits into any harness O ring.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
  • Material: Silicone

Pop Peckers G Spot Dildo

10. Pop Peckers G Spot Dildo - $27

Pop Peckers G Spot Dildo is one of the world's most colorful G spot dildos available for sale in brilliant neon shades of pink, purple and blue. If you live your life vividly, why are your sex toys so boring? Enjoy a realistic feel without the realistic look.

The shaft is straight, until the last 3 inches or so. After that. It tilts backwards. This makes it easy to find the G Spot when playing alone. Simply grab it by the balls, insert the shaft a few inches and voila – instantaneous internal orgasmic massage! The visual detailing is exceptional making it a superb adult toy gift.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 1/2 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/2 inches across the top, increases to 1 3/4 inches near the base
  • Material: PVC
  • Color Options: Pink, Blue, Purple

Our Favorite Vibrating Options

A vibrating motor simply makes any sex toy more fun. Some are wireless, others are corded. The best part about vibrating dildos is that you have the option to turn on the power – or leave it silent for discretion. At least the option is there for nights when you want that extra boost of intense stimulation.


Dr. Skin 8.5 Inch Vibrating Dildo

Dr. Skin 8.5 Inch Vibrating Dildo

Dr. Skin 8.5 Inch Vibrating Dildo is brand new for 2023 and is quickly becoming one of the best vibrators for women and men. Gals love it because it provides a slick and slippery sexual experience with a perfectly crafted realistic penis detail.

Men love it because it's a perfect large anal dildo vibrator for men. Everybody loves it because it works with a strap on harness, the flat suction cup base makes the perfect harness compatible attachment. All while the motor vibrators with tingling force from the middle of the vibrator shaft.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 1/2 inches
  • Insertable Length: 8 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/2 inches near the top, 1 3/4 inches near the base
  • Material: PVC
  • Batteries: 2 AA, not included
  • Motor: Multi speed
  • Waterproof: Dildo only
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Caramel (Mocha Brown)

Gyrating Dildo Vibrator

Gyrating Dildo Vibrator - $68

Gyrating Dildo Vibrator is a luscious dark chocolate brown colored stud with a rotating or gyrating shaft. It is totally different from a typical vibrator, so if you already have a good stash of sex toys, this one one that will stand out of probably the most unique black dildo vibrator in your collection.

What does gyrating mean? The top half of the shaft rotates in a 360 degree circle while the base stays stable. Click above to load the product page and watch the video demo to see the black dildo with rotating motion in action before your eyes.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 5/8 inches
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Batteries: 2 AA, not included
  • Motor: Multi speed gyrating
  • Waterproof: Dildo only

Loverboy Realistic Vibrating

Loverboy Realistic Vibrating - $45

Loverboy Realistic Vibrating is a fantastic rubbery feeling lifelike looking vibrator for women with the most luscious mushroom head and a stocky medium sized shaft. It's not too big, but with a maximum girth of 1 3/4 inches across, he has enough girth to fulfill your erotic desires... pun certainly intended, of course!

This will be too stocky for a beginner, but for a lady seeking the next step up in vibrator size, it is the best choice we have for sale in our online adult toy shop. The motor is very quiet. In fact this is one of the most silent vibrators we've seen.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 1 3/4 inches
  • Material: PVC
  • Batteries: 2 AA, not included
  • Motor: Multi speed
  • Waterproof: Dildo only

Shower Stud

Shower Stud - $60

Shower Stud is a fun treat for any horny gal to bring in the shower for the perfect morning wake up call! We appreciate the short stature, heavily veined surface and silky feeling surface. The interior has a solid core, so the shaft cannot bend.

Squeeze it however and you'll notice a thick, padded layer of real skin material (that oh-so ingenious TPE) that feels like real skin. You can use the extra powerful suction cup base to stick it to any flat surface. Twist the cap closed to activate the motor.

Product Specifications

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 5 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
  • Material: TPR (Pure Skin)
  • Batteries: 2 AA, not included
  • Motor: Multi speed
  • Waterproof: Yes
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Chocolate (Dark)

Frequently Asked Questions:

Does an 8" Toy Feel Like a Real Penis?

It depends on what material it is made of. TPE is a softer material and has a skin lie feeling surface. People looking for a realistic feeling sex toy will often choose a penis dildo based off the material, not so much the size.

An 8 inch penis is a bit longer than usual, a typical dick is only about 6 inches long. If you seek a large dildo that's not massive, this size is a wise choice.

How Long is an 8” Dildo with Balls?

There are 2 separate measurements listed. The first is the “Total Length” and the second measurement is “Insertable length”. Total indicates the measurement from tip to base.

The insertable measurement denotes the length of the shaft only, or the section that inserts into the body for penetrative sex. An 8 inch dildo with balls can be 9 inches total length if it also has a suction cup on the base too.

How is a Curved Shaft Measured?

When we measure the length of a curved sex toy, we will pull the shaft straight and list how long it is when the straightened. When curved, the natural angle of the dildo will reduce the measurement a few inches, so it needs to be held straight up to be measured properly.


Loadz Realistic Squirting Dildo

Loadz Realistic Squirting Dildo - $66

Squirting 8 inch realistic available in 2 skin tones to enhance your kink factor.

8 Inch Natural Realistic Dildo

8 Inch Natural Realistic Dildo - $49

Stocky dual density dildo available in 3 skin tones adds a dose of luxury.


Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog.

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