Your Guide to Choosing the Best 7 Inch Dildo
Last Updated on May 12, 2025
Some say a 7 inch dildo is the perfect size. Sure some women may want a huge sex toy for fantasy sexual pleasure, but most customers simply want a good, naturally sized realistic penis dildo to experience the feel of penetrative sex.
Today we'll explore what features to look for when considering a dildo of this size along with some of our top staff picks that you can try now.
How Popular are 7” Dildos?
Our most popular dildos are between 6 and 7 inches long. The 7” dildo is considered the perfect “medium size dildo” since it closely resembles the length and girth of a human penis to provide a realistic experience of penetrative sex.
Some sex toy manufacturers are completely out of touch with what penis size a lady really wants. There are so many 10 or even 12 inch dildos available out there, but the reality is our best sellers are those that look and feel just like a real penis with anatomically correct features and soft skin-like materials such as silicone, TPE and TPE
Why 7 Inches is the Perfect Size
The 6 inch dildo can be too small or thin, an 8 inch life like dildo often has too much girth, but the 7 inch dildo is like the middle bowl of soup in the Goldilocks fairy tale: just right!
There is a simple explanation for this: The overall length & circumference the 7” realistic dildo is slightly larger than the average penis size. This indicates that women are looking for a slightly larger-than-life replica, but nothing overly massive.
A bit of a vaginal stretch and the sensation of fullness during sex feels enticing to some. One of the main reasons women purchase penetrative toys is to enjoy a sexual fantasy, and often this includes sex with a a well-endowed man.
Basic Realistic Dildo with Balls - $22
Quintessential dildo with a mushroom head, perfect for beginners!
How we Measure our Dildos
Here are The Adult Toy Shop, when we measure our toys, we'll list both the total length and the insertable length.
Product packaging is often incorrect, or it lists the measurements of the shaft and balls omitting the length of the suction cup base. This is why sometimes there can be confusion about the measurements of what the packaging states compared to what is listed on a sex toy website.
- Total Length: This is the measurement from end to end. A 7 inch dildo may be 9 inches long in total length because the balls & suction cup base add about 2 inches onto the length of the realistic penis shaft.
- Insertable Length: This is the measurements of the shaft. This measurement is the length that can be inserted into the vagina or anus, hence the term “insertable length”. If you want a full 7 inches penetrable, then your dildo may be 9 inches total length.
- Diameter: This is the measurement from side to side directly across the shaft. Normally, you'll find measurements ranging from 1 1/4 inches for a slim dildo to 1 3/4 inches for a thick dildo. 1 1/2 inches across is the typical diameter of a 7 inch sex toy.
Our Top Picks
Without further adieu, here are our favorite products for your consideration. Some of these are purchased by men too, the slim tapered dildos are ideal for anal play and the small head make anal insertion easy. Typically however, women purchase these sex toys for vaginal use, partner play or strap on fun.
7 Inch Sensual Pro
7 Inch Sensual Pro is the quintessential and classic medium sized and average girthy realistic silicone dildo with balls and a suction cup base. The over-hanging mushroom penis head provides that thrilling “pop” and the sturdy structure delivers a memorable punchy feel.
Sure the pictures might make it look tame and ordinary, but this durable sex toy is capable of vicious thrusting and hardcore pleasure. All this in a reasonable size for women who want to explore intense sexual fantasies without having to resort to purchasing some massive silicone dildo. Big fantasy, medium size!
Key Features:
- Cheap price for a silicone dildo
- Stays erect but the shaft can bend with pressure
- Extra wide suction cup good for strap on sex
- Includes 3 piece silicone cock rings for him
Specifications:
| Dildo Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable Length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | Slightly under 1 1/2 inches |
| Material | Silicone |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Tan (Light Brown), Caramel (Brown) |
Dr. Skin 7 Inch Vibrating Dildo
Dr. Skin 7 Inch Vibrating Dildo has a very powerful yet super quiet motor. This is one of the most silent vibrators we've seen so if discretion matters, this is the best vibrating dildo you'll find anywhere. The small tapered head is great for beginners and also popular for men seeking an anal dildo that vibrates.
Rubbery feeling material is very high quality and certainly not like the old PVC materials, this one is lab certified body safe. Soft and pliable penis with realistic veins add the perfect sensual texture to this premium vibrating sex toy. Sticky suction base is harness compatible.
Key Features:
- Tapered dildo head for easy vaginal or anal penetration
- Realistically veined texture feels like the real thing
- Long corded battery controller stays out of the way
- Silent multi speed vibrations to enhance sexual pleasure
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 1/2 inches |
| Insertable Length | 7 inches |
| Diameter | 1 1/4 inches near the top, 1 1/2 inches near the base |
| Material | PVC |
| Batteries | 2 AA, not included |
| Motor | Multi Speed |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Caramel (Mocha Brown), Chocolate (Dark) |
Small Real Cocks
Small Real Cocks is a super soft and malleable dual density dildo that is a gentle and perfect sex toy for seniors or mature women who need a soft sex toy for comfort and pleasure. If you're not familiar with realistic dual density dildos, they are made of 2 separate layers to imitate the density and feel of an erection. It is the most anatomically correct dildo that feels like a real penis.
This version is of course a perfect 7 inches long but the shaft is much shorter so if you specifically want a short dildo, this is one of the finest there is out there right now. There is a spine inside the core to help support the soft layers on top and to help maneuver it inside the body so it won't fold over during vaginal penetration.
Key Features:
- Bendable interior spine to add stability to the soft outer layers
- Dual density build feels like a real penis
- Short shaft better suits petite women
- Cheap price for a dual density dildo
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable Length | 5 1/2 inches |
| Diameter | 1 1/2 inches |
| Material | TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark) |
Ballsy Soft Flexible Dildo
Ballsy Soft Flexible Dildo is like memory foam for the vagina! Well, it's not actually memory foam, but it feels quite close. It is a pillow soft sex toy with a spine inside the penis shaped shaft. This slim dildo won't actually hold a curved angle during insertion, but it'd there just to keep it erect so it won't bend too much during use.
Compatible with your favorite water based lube, we suggest warming lube to enhance the sensual experience even more. Silky smooth surface and warm TPR is a touch of luxury to your adult toy collection. This is a popular choice for women with a low libido to help warm up before penetrative sex with their partner.
Key Features:
- One of the softest small dildos for sale
- Flexible spine inside the shaft helps to maintain its shape
- Small and slim shaft is best for beginners and petite women
- Small balls at the base are a good handle to hold
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable Length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | Ranges between 1 1/4 - 1 1/2 inches |
| Material | TPR - Thermoplastic Rubber |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark) |
King Cock 7 Inch Dildo
King Cock 7 Inch Dildo is one of the best harness compatible realistic dildo attachments. The extra wide suction base fits in any size strap on O ring. It also is super sticky so if you want a wall dildo or hands-free play, this is the best choice. The gradually curved shaft also makes it perfect for using in the shower because you'll be able to ride it or squat over it thanks to the ergonomic shape.
A popular sex toy for fantasy couples play, but also a popular dildo for men who want a firm anal dildo. The small head inserts easily while the sturdy shaft is firm enough not to bend or buckle upon insertion. Body-safe PVC material will stay erect and at attention for eternity. Fun for everyone!
Key Features:
- The best 7 inch anal dildo for men
- Harness compatible extra wide suction base
- Natural curve can stimulate the G-spot or prostate
- Heavily tapered dildo is the best trainer sex toy
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 3/4 inches |
| Insertable Length | 7 inches |
| Diameter | 1 inch across the tip, 1 1/2 inches across the lower shaft |
| Material | PVC |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Tan (Light Brown), Chocolate (Dark), Black |
Whopper Suction Dildo Vibrator
Whopper Suction Dildo Vibrator is the most powerful vibrator for women. Powered by 3 batteries instead of the usual 2 batteries, there is a full 1/3 more power than before. The remote control is connected by a 2 foot log cord to make sure it stays out of your way during erotic playtime. Strap on compatible base and super sticky suction cup adds versatility to solo or partnered play.
The mushroom head is a pure delight during insertion and the stocky, long dildo shaft plunges deep into the vagina as it carries the powerful vibrations along with it. One of our favorite vibrating dildos of all time, this fantastic sex toy is not to be missed! Heavily veined shaft adds realistic texture.
Key Features:
- The most powerful realistic vibrating dildo for sale
- Realistic detail feels just like a real penis
- Extra sticky suction cup base is harness compatible
- 3 speeds powered by corded remote control
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable Length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | Ranges between 1 3/8 – 1 1/2 inches |
| Material | TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer |
| Batteries | 3 AA, not included |
| Motor | 3 speeds |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark) |
B Yours Small Gel Dildo
B Yours Small Gel Dildo is a realistic dildo available in several fun colors. It's the best product for those who want a sex toy that feels real but doesn't necessarily look real. Pink, purple blue and clear color choices add a splash of vibrancy to your bedroom.
Pink, purple or clear dildos are popular for partnered play so that the man doesn't feel awkward using a life like looking dildo on her. Also colorful toys are good for people who are inhibited about using a dildo, so subconsciously, a bright shade is more approachable and friendly. This slippery gel bends easily and is compatible with any type of personal lubricant.
Key Features:
- Flat base fits any size strap on O ring
- Slim dildo shaft is good for beginners, seniors and men
- Narrow tapered head inserts comfortably
- Gel material is body safe and gets extra slippery when wet
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 1/2 inches |
| Insertable Length | 7 inches |
| Diameter | 1 1/4 inches |
| Material | PVC |
| Color Options | Blue, Clear, Pink, Purple |
Au Naturel Real Feel Thick
Au Naturel Real Feel Thick is a best selling ultra realistic dual density dildo that is short yet thick. Typically a girthy dildo like this would be much bigger, but not everyone wants a large dildo that is super long, so this is the best compromise between short lengths and wide girths. Barrel or stovepipe diameter is even along the entire shaft.
It feels just like real skin and the budget friendly price tag is appealing to pretty much everybody. It is really soft and squishy for a comfortable sexual experience so if you are thinking about trying a thick or fat dildo for the first time, here is an excellent choice to consider.
Key Features:
- The thickest 7 inch dildo for sale
- Dual density build feels incredibly realistic
- Very soft structure makes the best first big dildo
- Cheap price for a large ultra realistic dildo
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 inches |
| Insertable Length | 5 inches |
| Diameter | Ranges between 1 1/2 – 2 inches |
| Material | TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Latin (Brown), Chocolate (Dark) |
Realrock Soft Dildo
Realrock Soft Dildo is a squishy soft toy with a gentle touch perfect for beginners, seniors and petite women. It also makes the best first timer 7 inch dildo because the flattened shape of the shaft doesn't not make it so challenging to insert. It also packs all the features of the bigger dildo but in a more compact size so even though it's small, the pleasure is big!
The circumcised head peeks into the vagina for a real treat. The sticky suction cup stays on a wall or the edge of your bathtub or shower just make sure the tiles are clean on the shower so it will stick and you can back your body right up for some kinky hands-free action by yourself. Your naughty little secret!
Key Features:
- One of the softest dildos for sale
- Unique low profile shape is friendly for beginners
- Intense yet small mushroom head for amazing sensations
- Budget friendly price yet high quality
Specifications:
| Total Length | 8 inches |
| Insertable Length | 7 inches |
| Diameter | Ranges between 1 1/4 – 1 1/2 inches |
| Material | TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer |
| Color Options | Vanilla (White), Tan (Light Brown) |
Tips & Techniques for Pleasure
Dildos are awesome because you can be creative and really explore in anyway you please. It's all about fulfilling sexual fantasies, after all! Beginners might feel a little lost though, so if you're a first timer, here are a few ways to increase pleasure when using your new toy at home.
- Lube, Lube Lube!
Lubricant is absolutely essential. Dual density materials are delicate and if you try to stuff it into your vagina dry, the friction between your skin and the material will eventually cause it to tear. The best lubes for dildos are water based, warming and silicone. We give the advantage to water based and warming however as they are compatible with all dildo materials including silicone and are super easy to wash and clean off after use. - Need more help to relax? Stimulate your clitoris.
Hold a bullet vibrator or any other small clitoral stimulator on the clitoris before inserting the dildo. This will help the tissue & muscles inside the vagina to relax. Your experience will feel even better if you rub your clit or use a small vibrator to stimulate it before penetration. - Get your partner in on the action.
Contrary to popular belief, dildos are not just for single women used as a substitute for a man. Dildos are super popular couples sex toys as they allow partners to prolong the joys of foreplay and give you something fun to experiment with together. Sex TOYS are for FUN, after all!
