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Fun Lesbian Sex Toys for the Curious

Fun Lesbian Sex Toys for the Curious

When it comes to finding the perfect sex toys, sexual preference is an important consideration. Your choice in sex toys can enhance your experience during couples or solo play.

The best sex toys will allow you and your partner to engage in a variety of sex acts, and increase your pleasure exponentially.

So, what are the best lesbian sex toys? We think that all lesbian couples should have a treasure chest full of toys that help them to make oral sex and clitoral stimulation even better, and open them up to the world of penetrative sex as well.

Throw in some products from TheAdultToyShop that allow them to explore some fun kinks, and that can certainly help to complete a lesbian sex toy collection!

What do You Mean Lesbian Sex Toys?

In this case, we are generally referring to women. However, we do have some strap on toys, and other items that trans women and non-binary folks may enjoy as well. We think that sex toys should be fun and inclusive. Keep reading to find the sex toys that will create the best lesbian sex experience no matter what!

Toys For Clitoral Stimulation And Finger Play

Let's face it, if you don't have magical hands, you may as well turn in your designation as a card-carrying lesbian. Why not solidify your reputation by adding some toys that are made for clit stimulation and fingering?

Choose a sex toy from the list below, and you will 'single-handedly' bring your partner to orgasm over and over again.

50 Shades of Grey Finger Sex Vibrator

Imagine kissing and caressing your partner. Slowly, you move one hand between her legs, stroking her clitoris and fingering her. You do an amazing job with just your fingers. Now, imagine doing the same thing with a fabulous vibrator that fits right on the tip of your finger!

The 50 Shades of Grey finger vibrator offers quiet, gentle vibration. There are small bumps across the face of the toy to help you bring your special friend to orgasm in just moments.

Kissing Climaxer Vibrator

You know that amazing sensation when your partner catches your clitoris between your lips? Maybe you've given that experience to someone else?

Some say this is one of the best parts of oral sex. The Kissing Climaxer Vibrator allows you to enjoy this gold-standard technique when your mouth is busy with other things.

Finger Anal Pleaser

There's just not enough respect paid to anal play during lesbian sex. That's a shame, because anal penetration is fun on its own. It's also a great way to explore unexplored territory with your partner.

To get started, we love the Finger Anal Pleaser. This anal sex toy is small enough that even beginners won't be intimidated by it. The textured surface ensures that the experience is memorable.

Strap on Dildos And Other Penetrative Toys

There's absolutely no reason for lesbian couples to miss out on the pleasurable experience of penetration. Fortunately, there is no shortage of strap-ons, dildos, and other toys for pleasuring your partner.

Whether you prefer missionary, doggy style, or reverse cowgirl, pick a sex toy from below and prepare to strap your girlfriend until she screams.

Vedo Rechargeable Remote Strapon

The Vedo Rechargeable Remote Strapon offers everything a lesbian couple might want. The wearer enjoys a great view from above, and amazing clit stimulation.

The one being penetrated enjoys being fucked hard, fast, slow, gentle, however she likes it! Of course, we can't forget the vibrating action that moves this strap on dildo to the top of our list.

Universal Strap on Harness

If you're interested in adding a strap-on to your lesbian sex repertoire, you should probably shop for a strap on harness with your partner. To start with, pair your strap on dildo with a Universal Strap On Harness.

This one should fit most strap ons, just change into the right o ring. It also features an adjustable harness for maximum comfort for the person who is wearing it. Remember, the more comfortable you are donning a strap on, the better you'll get at that coveted g spot stimulation.

Basix Double Dildo

What collection of lesbian sex toys is complete without a double dildo? If you're going to have just one double ended dildo in your collection, may we suggest one that's flexible?

With a flexible double dildo like the Basix Double Dildo, you can try penetrating one another at the same time, you can also try your hand at a double penetration experience if you are open to anal play. Pair it with great oral sex for more intensive orgasms.

woman enjoying self-pleasure

Sex Toys For Action Without a Partner

What's the best way to learn how to find the g spot quickly, practice new techniques, learn more about your body, and enjoy amazing orgasms?

Solo play isn't just fun, think of it as field research for better lesbian sex. You could explore your body with your hands, but why not add in a few sex toys to help increase your pleasure.

Miracle Massager

Every woman should have a powerful, vibrator for enjoying long, relaxing solo play sessions that end in intense, breathless orgasms. The Miracle Massager is perfect for this. Start by massaging your nipples, inner thighs, even your perineal zone.

Then, when it's time for the main event, focus on your clitoris. If you've ever wanted to give yourself multiple orgasms, this will change your sex life for the better.

Pro Nipple Suckers

Yes, we know the clitoris and g spot are the stars of the show, but it's a sin to leave your nipples out of it! The Pro Nipple Suckers are the ideal choice for use during masturbation.

All you have to do is create the suction to hold them in place, and continue with the rest of your self-pleasure routine. The suction cup action will keep perfectly intense pressure on your nipples.

Sensual Pro Dildo

The Sensual Pro Dildo is an absolute workhorse. First, it looks and feels just like the real thing. It's great for deep penetration, and g spot massaging. It's also equipped with a suction cup that makes it ideal for one person play.

Try attaching it to a chair, wall, or table for a secure fit that allows you to experience penetration play for hours on end.

Fun And Kinky Toys for Two

Some toys just defy category. Sometimes they are meant to be paired with the best lesbian sex toys. In other cases, they simply create amazing experiences for you both that lead to the best lesbian sex. In any case, lesbian couples we know have loved many of the following.

Basic Curve Glass Toy

The Basic Curve Glass Toy has a pretty simple design as far as dildos go. It's smooth, not too wide, and has a slight bend that's great for reaching your g spot. You may be wondering what makes this toy so fun and kinky.

That's easy! Glass dildos are for more than basic penetration. If you are into temperature play, your collection of sex toys must include a glass dildo. Try soaking it in warm or iced water for an experience you won't forget.  Even better, you can use this sex toy with your hand, or fit it into your favorite strap on harness.

Silk Rope

What better way to explore your limits with your partner than with 35 feet of sensuous silk rope. We think you'll agree that no collection of the best lesbian sex toys is complete without at least some nod towards BDSM.

Use this silk work to explore the Japanese art of kinbaku. With some practice, you'll be able to create beautiful knots that will make your partner both sexy and vulnerable.

Fantasy Rubber Whip

Okay, this one is a bit intense, but if you're ready to enjoy impact play, you will love the Fantasy Rubber whip. This flogger is perfect for creating intense but controlled pain. Try using it to spank your partner's ass, thighs, and breasts. She will scream in pain and pleasure. When you're done, reward her with some amazing oral sex.

Pussy Licker Oral Sex Gel

Yes, we know your girlfriend tastes amazing. Still, there's something about a flavored, oral sex gel that really motivates you to go down with gusto. What a great way to get her lubed up, and give her a few orgasms before you bring out your collection of the best lesbian sex toys.

Advice on Best Lesbian Sex Toys

So, how do you pick out the best lesbian sex toys? Start by talking with your partner. Learn one another's deepest fantasies, and the sensations you each prefer. Keep in mind that there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to lesbian sex toys.

It's all about making lesbian sex work for both of you. Maybe that means bringing a new strap on dildo into the bedroom. Maybe you prefer your sex toys to focus on the clitoris, or helping your partner explore their love of spanking.




Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog and follow me on Instagram.

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