How To Use a Bullet Vibrator: Sexpert Tips & Tutorial

Last Updated on October 24, 2023

Nothing comes close to the intensity & pleasure potential of the amazing bullet vibrator for clitoral stimulation and perineum stimulation. They are a prized possession for ladies everywhere and a go-to magic adult sex toy for women who have high standards of sexual pleasure.

Enjoy today's sex toys tutorial and learn exactly how to use a bullet vibrator with full instructions, tips and ideas to make it better during solo masturbation, foreplay and sexual intercourse with your partner. Silver bullet vibrators are the strongest small vibrator.

They don't name the best ones “magic” for nothing! We won't stop short of calling it the best sexual toy for women either. View the step-by-step how to use a bullet vibrator video instructions and demonstration so you know exactly how to hold & move it on your clitoris & perineum.

This tutorial covers bullet style sex toys only. Egg shaped vibrators have a slight variation in tips & techniques. Full instructions on how to use egg vibrator are published here. A vibrating egg is spherical and shaped like an egg, hence it's namesake. The wide structure follows the curvature and profile of the outer labia covering the entry and clitoral gland at the same time.

The exact instructions will vary according to the reason you're using a bullet vibrator in the first place. It depends on if you're masturbating alone, using it on your nipples, for G spot stimulation, or with enjoying sex with your lover.

To make sure I cover all the bases, I'll divide the guide into two parts for solo play and sex toys play. Make sure to load the batteries if it is battery operated and remove them after use.

Bullet Vibrator Instructions

1. Turn the motor on the lowest setting.
2. Place the tip directly over the clitoris.
3. Press the tip on the clitoris.
4. Once sexual arousal increases, increase power to “moderate”.
5. Circle the clitoris with the rounded tip.
6. Push the top under the clitoral hood and add pressure.
7. If the toy has multiple vibrating patterns, cycle through and select a different setting.
8. Lay it down within the inner labia and increase power again to the highest setting.
9. Push it lower and cover the vagina entrance, but do not insert.
10. Slowly move it up towards the clitoris, but keep it laying down between your inner labia.
11. Tilt it perpendicular to your body and press the rounded tip firmly over the clitoris.
12. Hold it there until onset of orgasm.

Pro Tip: Do not lubricate bullet vibes before use. When wet, they will slide off the clitoris and “miss the mark”. Keeping them dry allows the skin to maintain friction with the surface of the toy and allows you to hold it over the clit without it slipping sideways off the target. ~ Mayla Green

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator for Penetrative Sex

Using a vibrating bullet during penetrative sex is the best way to reduce pain and irritation caused by vaginal dryness. Why? The concentrated vibration and intense stimulation over the clitoris and erogenous zones are all that's required to induce a sexual response from your body. It's one of the namesakes behind the "Magic Bullet Vibrator", truly the best bullet vibrator of them all.

You don't need to go through complex steps to experience this either, all you need to do is press the bullet directly over the clitoris, pure and simple. It doesn't take long for the vaginal walls & interior tissue to soften, the mind to relax (also the perfect remedy for this who have sexual anxiety), and the body to produce it's own natural vaginal lubrication.

Clitoral stimulation will make you feel wet on your own. This is our best sex tip for seniors and menopausal women who experience pain during intercourse. Stimulating erogenous zones does wonders for arousal. All sex positions benefit from this, the sex tips of the pros!

The following are steps on how to use this tiny clitoral sex toy to make sex feel more comfortable, and to ultimately enjoy a timed climax with your partner:

1. Activate the motor and set to “medium” strength.
2. Press the end over the clitoris, just the tip.
3. Do not move the bullet, but slowly increase the power.
4. Optional step: As you feel the vagina soften, engage in foreplay or mutual masturbation with your partner and/or use a small or thin dildo.
5. As the body nears orgasm, ask your partner to insert their penis into your vagina.
6. The penis should not move much at this time, and you may need to re-maneuver the bullet to locate the clitoris.
7. Turn up the motor to the strongest speed wile your partner thrusts in & out slowly.
8. Press the bullet firmly on the clitoris and as the intensity of your climax starts to build, ask them to move faster.
9. Hold the bullet firmly in place, enjoy your orgasm, and let them keep thrusting until they climax too!

These instructions may be quite specific, but approach the steps as if you're learning a new chili recipe in the kitchen. You learn the base ingredients that mix together to create a wonderful concoction, then after you've mastered that recipe it's time to start modifying the instructions based of your personal preferences to make it even better.

Do what you like to satisfy your personal sexual urges, anything goes, even nipple stimulation! Not one single set of instructions will work for very lady, so begin with these 12 steps and after you've experienced your first silver bullet vibrator orgasm, you can shake up the recipe and try different things next time!

Using Bullet Sex Toys for Clitoral Stimulation

Many women double up on their clitoral orgasm enjoyment by using a dildo at the same time. In this case, the steps would vary slightly from what's listed above, but when reading my guide remember to approach it as primarily a generalization where a woman can modify the set of instructions and tailor it to their own personal desires.

1. Lubricate the head of the dildo. (Do not lubricate the bullet vibe!)
2. Insert the first 2 inches of the dildo into the vagina.
3. Activate the motor to the highest setting.
4. Spread the clitoral hood and touch the clitoris lightly with the bullet.
5. Thrust the dildo in and out slowly, but don't move the bullet vibe.
6. As your arousal increases, move the dildo deeper & faster.
7. As your arousal increases, press it more firmly into the clitoris.
8. Move the bullet vibe up and down the inner labia in rhythm with the thrusting of the dildo.
9. “Jiggle” the dildo while fully inserted while moving the bullet up and down inside the labia.
10. At the onset of orgasm, either jiggle the dildo, or thrust it in & out harder.
11. At the onset of orgasm, stand the bullet perpendicular to your clitoris and press the tip down hard.

Once of the main differences between how to use the vibrating bullet with & without a dildo is that with a dildo in hand, you'll start off by using the most powerful speed setting right at the start as opposed to gradually increasing intensity when being used alone. The reason we start this way is because it takes more mental concentration to handle both a dildo and a bullet at the same time. (Think of it like the old coordination game of “rubbing your belly while patting your head”).

You're simply trying to minimize distraction while building your orgasm, and manually selecting a new speed or pattern is a distraction you don't need when one hand is already holding a dildo. Of course you can start on a lower speed, but for first timers use, it's nice not to bombard your hands with too many things to do when you're inventing your own luscious sex fantasy in your mind!