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How To Use a Bullet Vibrator | Step by Step Instructions

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator | Step by Step Instructions

Last Updated on June 28, 2022

Nothing comes close to the intensity & pleasure potential of the amazing bullet vibrator for clitoral stimulation and perineum stimulation. They are a prized possession for ladies everywhere and a go-to magic adult sex toy for women who have high standards of sexual pleasure.

Enjoy today's sex toys tutorial and learn exactly how to use a bullet vibrator with full instructions, tips and ideas to make it better during solo masturbation, foreplay and sexual intercourse with your partner. Silver bullet vibrators are the strongest small vibrator. What is a vibrating bullet? Check out this quick guide if you're totally new to this style and have never seen one before.

They don't name the best ones “magic” for nothing! We won't stop short of calling it the best sexual toy for women either. View the step-by-step how to use a bullet vibrator video instructions and demonstration so you know exactly how to hold & move it on your clitoris & perineum.

This tutorial covers bullet style sex toys only. Egg shaped vibrators have a slight variation in tips & techniques. Full instructions on how to use egg vibrator are published here. A vibrating egg is spherical and shaped like an egg, hence it's namesake. The wide structure follows the curvature and profile of the outer labia covering the entry and clitoral gland at the same time.

Bullet Vibrator Instructions

How to Use A Bullet Vibrator

The exact instructions will vary according to the reason you're using a bullet vibrator in the first place. It depends on if you're masturbating alone, using it on your nipples, for G spot stimulation, or with enjoying sex with your lover.

To make sure I cover all the bases, I'll divide the guide into two parts for solo play and sex toys play. Make sure to load the batteries if it is battery operated and remove them after use.

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator for Masturbation:

  1. Turn the motor on the lowest setting.
  2. Place the tip directly over the clitoris.
  3. Press the tip on the clitoris.
  4. Once sexual arousal increases, increase power to “moderate”.
  5. Circle the clitoris with the rounded tip.
  6. Push the top under the clitoral hood and add pressure.
  7. If the toy has multiple vibrating patterns, cycle through and select a different setting.
  8. Lay it down within the inner labia and increase power again to the highest setting.
  9. Push it lower and cover the vagina entrance, but do not insert.
  10. Slowly move it up towards the clitoris, but keep it laying down between your inner labia.
  11. Tilt it perpendicular to your body and press the rounded tip firmly over the clitoris.
  12. Hold it there until onset of orgasm.
Pro Tip: Do not lubricate bullet vibes before use. When wet, they will slide off the clitoris and “miss the mark”. Keeping them dry allows the skin to maintain friction with the surface of the toy and allows you to hold it over the clit without it slipping sideways off the target. ~ Mayla Green

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator for Sexual Intercourse:

Using a vibrating bullet during penetrative sex is the best way to reduce pain and irritation caused by vaginal dryness. Why? The concentrated vibration and intense stimulation over the clitoris and erogenous zones are all that's required to induce a sexual response from your body. It's one of the namesakes behind the "Magic Bullet Vibrator", truly the best bullet vibrator of them all.

You don't need to go through complex steps to experience this either, all you need to do is press the bullet directly over the clitoris, pure and simple. It doesn't take long for the vaginal walls & interior tissue to soften, the mind to relax (also the perfect remedy for this who have sexual anxiety), and the body to produce it's own natural vaginal lubrication.

Clitoral stimulation will make you feel wet on your own. This is our best sex tip for seniors and menopausal women who experience pain during intercourse. Stimulating erogenous zones does wonders for arousal. All sex positions benefit from this, the sex tips of the pros!

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The following are steps on how to use this tiny clitoral sex toy to make sex feel more comfortable, and to ultimately enjoy a timed climax with your partner:

  1. Activate the motor and set to “medium” strength.
  2. Press the end over the clitoris, just the tip.
  3. Do not move the bullet, but slowly increase the power.
  4. Optional step: As you feel the vagina soften, engage in foreplay or mutual masturbation with your partner and/or use a small or thin dildo.
  5. As the body nears orgasm, ask your partner to insert their penis into your vagina.
  6. The penis should not move much at this time, and you may need to re-maneuver the bullet to locate the clitoris.
  7. Turn up the motor to the strongest speed wile your partner thrusts in & out slowly.
  8. Press the bullet firmly on the clitoris and as the intensity of your climax starts to build, ask them to move faster.
  9. Hold the bullet firmly in place, enjoy your orgasm, and let them keep thrusting until they climax too!

Pro Tip: If sex normally feels uncomfortable or painful, follow the top guide on masturbation before following the lovemaking steps above. After a woman experiences an orgasm, her tissue is at it's softest and an erection feels most welcome inside the body.

If she climaxes first, vaginal penetration from her partner's penis is a highly desirable, highly erotic sensation. Furthermore, her partner does not have to worry about hurting her and both lovers are guaranteed a mutual orgasm in the end.

Pearl Mini Bullet Vibrator

Mayla's Favorite Bullet to Use During Sex

Pearl Mini Bullet Vibrator is excellent for use during sex. The small low profile shape snuggles between your bodies during missionary position. Hold it on the clitoris with your index finger and let the weight of your partner's body press it down for direct clitoral stimulation. This amazing little sex toy is sure to help a lady reach orgasm during lovemaking. This is one of my personal favorites I use at home too!


These instructions may be quite specific, but approach the steps as if you're learning a new chili recipe in the kitchen. You learn the base ingredients that mix together to create a wonderful concoction, then after you've mastered that recipe it's time to start modifying the instructions based of your personal preferences to make it even better.

Do what you like to satisfy your personal sexual urges, anything goes, even nipple stimulation! Not one single set of instructions will work for very lady, so begin with these 12 steps and after you've experienced your first silver bullet vibrator orgasm, you can shake up the recipe and try different things next time!

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator with a Dildo

Many women double up on their clitoral orgasm enjoyment by using a dildo at the same time. In this case, the steps would vary slightly from what's listed above, but when reading my guide remember to approach it as primarily a generalization where a woman can modify the set of instructions and tailor it to their own personal desires.

using a bullet vibrator with a dildo
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  1. Lubricate the head of the dildo. (Do not lubricate the bullet vibe!)
  2. Insert the first 2 inches of the dildo into the vagina.
  3. Activate the motor to the highest setting.
  4. Spread the clitoral hood and touch the clitoris lightly with the bullet.
  5. Thrust the dildo in and out slowly, but don't move the bullet vibe.
  6. As your arousal increases, move the dildo deeper & faster.
  7. As your arousal increases, press it more firmly into the clitoris.
  8. Move the bullet vibe up and down the inner labia in rhythm with the thrusting of the dildo.
  9. “Jiggle” the dildo while fully inserted while moving the bullet up and down inside the labia.
  10. At the onset of orgasm, either jiggle the dildo, or thrust it in & out harder.
  11. At the onset of orgasm, stand the bullet perpendicular to your clitoris and press the tip down hard.
Pro Tip: Use a dildo that vibrates instead. The addition of internal buzzing is an awesome compliment to the external buzzing. When you feel vibration inside your body, pleasure connects with the external vibration and creates a wonderful harmony of female orgasmic enjoyment. Think of it like sexual Feng Shui. It's also the main concept behind the ever-popular rabbit vibrator.

Once of the main differences between how to use the vibrating bullet with & without a dildo is that with a dildo in hand, you'll start off by using the most powerful speed setting right at the start as opposed to gradually increasing intensity when being used alone. The reason we start this way is because it takes more mental concentration to handle both a dildo and a bullet at the same time. (Think of it like the old coordination game of “rubbing your belly while patting your head”).

You're simply trying to minimize distraction while building your orgasm, and manually selecting a new speed or pattern is a distraction you don't need when one hand is already holding a dildo. Of course you can start on a lower speed, but for first timers use, it's nice not to bombard your hands with too many things to do when you're inventing your own luscious sex fantasy in your mind!

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Mayla's Favorite Vibrating Bullet

Turbo Accelerator Vibrating Bullet is by far the most powerful vibrator for the clitoris. The strength is incomparable to anything else. This my my go-to sex toy for a quick orgasm, it works in seconds! The spiky sleeve is a funky contrast to the smooth silver vibrating bullet underneath. The spiky texture grips the skin and adds a layer of warmth and softness over the silver vibe.


Mini Bullet Vibrator Techniques

The extra tiny, mini bullet vibrator is even smaller and thinner than pinky finger. These are the most discreet womens sex toy and are a popular choice for beginners and commonly received as adult sex toy gifts since they are nondescript, discreet and simple.

Since they are so small, full erotic pleasure can be limited, but you can still follow the steps listed at the very top of this guide. My top reason for adding one of these tiny gems into your adult sex toy collection is that they are small enough to be fully tucked inside the clitoral hood and make full contact with the gland, even the part that's not exposed.

Here's some ways to enjoy the best pleasure from your super small vibrating bullet:

  1. Tuck the bullet inside the top of the clitoral hood as far as it will go.
  2. Activate the motor to the speed you like best.
  3. Wiggle the mini bullet side to side, but do not pull it out of the hood.
  4. Turn the motor up to the most powerful speed.
  5. Push it upwards as high as it will go into the clitoral hood.
  6. Hold your finger on top of the hood and press down.
  7. At the onset of orgasm, press harder and wiggle your finger back and forth on top of the hood.

Wireless Bullet Vibrator Tutorial

We don't recommend inserting a corded vibrating bullet into the vagina because it is possible for the cord to detach when you try to pull it out of the tight sphincter-like opening. Don't worry, this will never result in a visit to your hospitals emergency room, because just like a Ben Wa Ball, you'll be able to “pick” it out of your body with your fingers. (FYI - It's impossible for it to get “lost” in your body.)

The main reason we advise women not to insert the toy into the body is because if your cord detaches from the toy, it simply won't vibrate anymore! It will be broken and irreparable. Money wasted and a good sex toy thrown in the trash, what a shame!

How to Use a Wireless Bullet Vibrator

This is where a wireless bullet vibrator comes into play – (pun intended, of course!) Here are the steps to enjoy extreme pleasure from a wireless vibrating bullet:

  1. Press the button on the end of the wireless vibrator to select a speed.
  2. Hold the rounded end on the clitoris until you feel more aroused.
  3. Move it up and down inside the labia minora vestibule and circle the vagina entrance.
  4. As your body responds, select a stronger speed setting.
  5. Press it firmly over the clitoris for several seconds.
  6. Move it downwards and insert only the first inch into the vagina, hold for several seconds.
  7. If needed, repeat steps 5 & 6 a few more times.
  8. At the onset of orgasm, insert the wireless vibrator ¾ of the way in and rub your clitoris with your fingers.

Once climax begins, other variants to try include:

  • Thrust the wireless toy in & out like a tiny vibrator.
  • Leave it in place to vibrate the vagina opening.
  • Insert it all the way into the vagina.
  • Remove it from the labia and press it directly over the clitoris.

Double Bullet Vibrator Tips

Double bullet vibrators are corded multi speed sex toys with 2 devices simultaneously activated by the same controller used for simultaneous perineum stimulation and external stimulation on the clitoris.

The top reason a lady would try one of these is to enjoy both anal AND external stimulation at the same time. It can also be used for massaging the inner thighs, penis shaft and other erogenous zones for better sex.

The only disadvantage of the double bullet vibrators is they tend to be weaker than a single motor. Why? The same battery energy must be divided between two motors instead of just one motor.

How to Use a Double Bullet Vibrator
Combine clitoral / vaginal / perineal stimulation for a strong climax.

With that being said however, the strongest womens adult toy of all time, the Turbo Accelerator DOES come in double form. Despite it having 2 motors to power up, there is enough fancy engineering distributing enormous battery energy output to create a super powerful toy. The Double Turbo Accelerator is the best (and only) one to buy if you want a strong double vibrator.

How to Use Bullet Vibrators for Anal (Option A):

  1. Spread your butt cheeks with one hand.
  2. Lay one of the vibrators down inside the cheeks and place the center of the device over the anus sphincter.
  3. Let go of your butt cheeks and the bullet will stay in place.
  4. Use the other vibrator on the clitoris by following any of the previous steps.

How to Use Bullet Vibrators for Anal (Option B):

  1. Lubricate the tip of one of the bullets.
  2. Insert the first half into the anus.
  3. Use the other bullet on the clitoris by following any of the previous steps.

It's important to note that I do not recommend the bullet be inserted fully into the anus for internal stimulation. If the cord should detach while you pull it out, it may require medical intervention to remove it from the anus. We only recommend you insert it half way, or if it's a vibrating anal egg, follow the steps from Option A.

Pro Tip: It's essential to note that a sex toy should never be shared between the anus and vagina. If one of the bullets is for anal use, mark it with a permanent marker so you don't accidentally insert it into the front half. Keep the marked vibrator for external clit stimulation only.

The other option is to use both “up front”. Insert one into the vagina while the other is used on the clitoris. You can also tuck one between the labia vestibule and tease the nipples opening while the other buzzes the clit from above.



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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog and Mayla Green's Pressfolio to follow her newest & trending content published online.

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