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How To Use a Bullet Vibrator | Step by Step Instructions

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator | Step by Step Instructions

Nothing comes close to the intensity & pleasure potential of the amazing bullet vibrator; they are a prized possession for ladies everywhere and a go-to magic adult sex toy for women who have a high standard of sexual pleasure.

Read on to discover what is a bullet vibrator and how to use a bullet vibrator with full tips and ideas to make it better during solo masturbation and sexual intercourse with your partner.

Silver bullet vibrators are one of the most powerful vibrators. They don't name the best ones “magic” for nothing! We won't stop short of calling it the best sexual toy for women either. I've added step-by-step how to use a bullet vibrator video instructions and demonstration so you know exactly how to hold & move it on your clitoris, perineum & vagina.

What is a Bullet Vibrator?

It is a small, discreet vibrating sex toy for the clitoris that traditionally has a slim, elongated shape and resembles ammunition similar to a firearms bullet, hence it's namesake. There are now several different shapes that are available for sale, not just the slimline silver vibrating bullet that your grandma used to love. The opposite shape is called an egg vibrator.

In these modern times, we see a vast array of trendy shapes and new textures that complete the range of tiny female sex toys, and each style has it's own purpose and separate ways to use. Some have sleeves, and they are not always silver anymore either. Some are coated in soft silicone or gel, but most are still solid plastic.

Some vibrating bullets are battery operated with a corded controller, others are wireless. The newest styles have USB rechargeable motors and can feature remote control operation with a wireless controller with up to a 10 foot range. Some are super mini, extra small to target the clit with accurate precision.

Certain toys have a wide or fat egg shape that covers the entire vagina and labia. In fact, egg vibrators are so different they are actually a separate niche within this category. We'll detail specifically how to use an egg vibrator later on. They used to be all colored in a silver hue, but now we see a multitude of colors including gold, pink, purple adorned with sparkling gems and shiny jewels to make them look extra petty!

Most are super powerful, some have multi function vibrating patterns and flashing lights in tune with the thumping and pulsing functions. Many are waterproof for use in the shower. (Insider tip: We like waterproof ones because they are easier to clean!)

Not all are single either, double vibrating bullets are quite common allowing them to be used as vibrating anal stimulators in conjunction with clit stimulation. Anal egg vibrators are also a popular item purchased for use for anal enjoyment during masturbation.

This was along exhaustive list to simply answer the question “What is a Magic Bullet Vibrator?”, but as said above these adult toys for women come in a vast array of types that require their own instructions. To clarify how to use a particular style, we'll break down this how-to instructional guide by design.


How to Use A Bullet Vibrator

How to Use A Bullet Vibrator

The exact instructions will vary according to the reason you're using a bullet vibrator in the first place. It depends on if you're masturbating alone or with enjoying sex with your lover.

To make sure I cover all the bases, I'll divide the guide into two parts:

For Masturbation:

  1. Turn the motor on the lowest setting.
  2. Place the tip directly over the clitoris.
  3. Press the tip on the clitoris.
  4. Once sexual arousal increases, increase power to “moderate”.
  5. Circle the clitoris with the rounded tip.
  6. Push the top under the clitoral hood and add pressure.
  7. If the toy has multiple vibrating patterns, cycle through and select a different setting.
  8. Lay it down within the inner labia and increase power again to the highest setting.
  9. Push it lower and cover the vagina entrance, but do not insert.
  10. Slowly move it up towards the clitoris, but keep it laying down between your inner labia.
  11. Tilt it perpendicular to your body and press the rounded tip firmly over the clitoris.
  12. Hold it there until onset of orgasm.

Product shown in video demonstration: Colt Bullet


Pro Tip: Do not lubricate the bullet before use. When wet, it will slide off the clitoris and “miss the mark”. Keeping it dry allows the skin to maintain friction with the surface of the toy and allows you to hold it over the clit without it slipping sideways off the target. This is also why we do not suggest that the bullet be inserted vaginally, because by the time you slide it down there, you'll be wet!

For Sexual Intercourse:

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Experience comfortable & enjoyable sex at any age!

Using a vibrating bullet during sexual intercourse is the best way to reduce pain and irritation caused by vaginal dryness. Why? The concentrated vibration and intense stimulation over the clitoris are all that's required to induce a sexual response from your body. It's one of the namesakes behind the "Magic Bullet Vibrator".

You don't need to go through complex steps to experience this either, all you need to do is press the bullet directly over the clitoris, pure and simple. It doesn't take long for the vaginal walls & interior tissue to soften, the mind to relax (also the perfect remedy for this who have sexual anxiety), and the body to produce it's own natural vaginal lubrication. You'll feel wet on your own. This is our best sex tip for seniors and menopausal women who experience pain during intercourse.

The following are steps on how to use this tiny clitoral sex toy to make sex feel more comfortable, and to ultimately enjoy a timed climax with your partner:

  1. Activate the motor and set to “medium” strength.
  2. Press the end over the clitoris.
  3. Do not move the bullet, but slowly increase the power.
  4. Optional step: As you feel the vagina soften, engage in foreplay or mutual masturbation with your partner and/or use a small or thin dildo.
  5. As the body nears orgasm, ask your partner to insert his penis into your vagina.
  6. The penis should not move much at this time, and you may nee dot re-maneuver the bullet to locate the clitoris.
  7. Turn up the motor to the strongest speed wile your partner thrusts in & out slowly.
  8. Press the bullet firmly on the clitoris and as the intensity of your climax starts to build, ask them to move faster.
  9. Hold the bullet firmly in place, enjoy your orgasm, and let them keep thrusting until they orgasm too!
Pro Tip: If sex normally feels uncomfortable or painful, follow the top guide on masturbation before following the lovemaking steps above. After a woman experiences an orgasm, her vagina is at it's softest and an erection feels most welcome inside the body. If she climaxes first, vaginal penetration from her partner's penis is a highly desirable, highly erotic sensation. Furthermore, her partner does not have to worry about hurting her and both lovers are guaranteed a mutual orgasm in the end.

These instructions may be quite specific, but approach the steps as if you're learning a new chili recipe in the kitchen. You learn the base ingredients that mix together to create a wonderful concoction, then after you've mastered that recipe it's time to start modifying the instructions based of your personal preferences to make it even better.

Using adult sex toys follows the exact same concept! You can read a pre-set list of steps from a bullet vibrator guide such as this one; but in your bedroom, you may discover different ways to hold the device and a different set of steps that rev up your sexual urges and generate a stronger orgasmic response.

Do what you like to satisfy your personal sexual urges, anything goes! Not one single set of instructions will work for very lady, so begin with these 12 steps and after you've experienced your first silver bullet vibrator orgasm, you can shake up the recipe and try different things next time!


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Using a Bullet Vibrator with a Dildo

Many women double up on their clitoral orgasm enjoyment by using a dildo at the same time. In this case, the steps would vary slightly from what's listed above, but when reading my guide remember to approach it as primarily a generalization where a woman can modify the set of instructions and tailor it to their own personal desires.

  1. Lubricate the head of the dildo. (Do not lubricate the bullet!)
  2. Insert the first 2 inches of the dildo into the vagina.
  3. Activate the motor to the highest setting.
  4. Spread the clitoral hood and touch the clitoris lightly with the bullet.
  5. Thrust the dildo in and out slowly, but don't move the bullet.
  6. As your arousal increases, move the dildo deeper & faster.
  7. As your arousal increases, press it more firmly into the clitoris.
  8. Move the bullet up and down the inner labia in rhythm with the thrusting of the dildo.
  9. “Jiggle” the dildo while fully inserted while moving the bullet up and down inside the labia.
  10. At the onset of orgasm, either jiggle the dildo, or thrust it in & out harder.
  11. At the onset of orgasm, stand the bullet perpendicular to your clitoris and press the tip down hard.
Pro Tip: Use a vibrating dildo instead. The addition of internal buzzing is an awesome compliment to the external buzzing. When you feel vibration inside your body, pleasure connects with the external vibration and creates a wonderful harmony of female orgasmic enjoyment. Think of it like sexual Feng Shui. It's also the main concept behind the ever-popular rabbit vibrator.

Once of the main differences between how to use the vibrating bullet with & without a dildo is that with a dildo in hand, you'll start off by using the most powerful speed setting right at the start as opposed to gradually increasing intensity when being used alone. The reason we start this way is because it takes more mental concentration to handle both a dildo and a bullet at the same time. (Think of it like the old coordination game of “rubbing your belly while patting your head”).

You're simply trying to minimize distraction while building your orgasm, and manually selecting a new speed or pattern is a distraction you don't need when one hand is already holding a dildo in the vagina. If course you can start on a lower speed, but for first timers use, it's nice not to bombard your hands with too many things to do when you're inventing your own luscious sex fantasy in your mind!


How to Use an Egg Vibrator

How to Use an Egg Vibrator

Egg vibrators are a variant of the bullet except they have a different shape. A vibrating egg is spherical and shaped like an egg, hence it's namesake. The wide structure follows the curvature and profile of the outer labia covering the vagina entrance and clitoral gland at the same time.

As opposed to pinpoint clit stimulation, it covers a vast area and is used more for general sexual arousal as opposed to producing a powerful clit-only orgasm. Bullets tend to be more powerful than eggs simply because eggs have a wider area for the vibration waves to travel, and strength dissipates at it has more surface area to cover.

Women like the egg vibrator because it stimulates more of the erogenous zones at once and has a more “full on” type of feel compared to any other adult toy. Egg vibrators tend to have a more “low thumping” type of feel as opposed to the bullet vibrator which as a “high pitch” type of feel. It is just as possible to have an orgasm with a bullet as it is with an egg, but the avenues they take to reach the final climax feels different from each other.

This is why many women who own a bullet also own an egg because even though they are semantic sex toys (meaning closely related), they both bring to the bedroom a different experience and a unique feel.

Steps for enjoying a female orgasm with this type of vibrator are simpler, and are as follows:

  1. Activate the motor to a low setting.
  2. Spread the labia majora and nestle the egg into the vestibule.
  3. Rock the egg slowly back & forth and up & down in a rhythmic flow.
  4. As you rock it upwards, press the end harder on the clitoris and hold for several seconds.
  5. As you rock it downwards, press it into the vaginal opening as if you were going to insert it fully, and hold for several seconds.
  6. As the egg gets wet from the vaginal lubrication, slide it further down to the perineum.
  7. Rub it in a circular motion from clit to perineum, but keep it tucked inside the labia majora at all times.
  8. Option A: At the onset of orgasm, quickly remove it from the labia vestibule, spread the clitoral hood with your fingers and press it directly over the clitoris.
  9. Option B: At the onset or orgasm, press it into the vagina half way and hold it there. Rub your clitoris with your other hand.

Product shown in video demonstration: Jelly Egg Vibrator


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How to Use a Mini Bullet Vibrator

The extra tiny, super mini bullet vibrator is even smaller and thinner than pinky finger. These are the most discreet womens sex toy and are a popular choice for beginners and commonly received as adult sex toy gifts since they are nondescript, discreet and simple.

Since they are so small, full erotic pleasure can be limited, but you can still follow the steps listed at the very top of this guide. My top reason for adding one of these tiny gems into your adult sex toy collection is that they are small enough to be fully tucked inside the clitoral hood and make full contact with the gland, even the part that's not exposed.

Here's some ways to enjoy the best pleasure from your super small vibrating bullet:

  1. Tuck the bullet inside the top of the clitoral hood as far as it will go.
  2. Activate the motor to the speed you like best.
  3. Wiggle the mini bullet side to side, but do not pull it out of the hood.
  4. Turn the motor up to the most powerful speed.
  5. Push it upwards as high as it will go into the clitoral hood.
  6. Hold your finger on top of the hood and press down.
  7. At the onset of orgasm, press harder and wiggle your finger back and forth on top of the hood.

Product shown in video demonstration: Micro Bullet


How to Use a Wireless Bullet Vibrator

How to Use a Wireless Bullet Vibrator

We don't recommend inserting a corded vibrating bullet into the vagina because it is possible for the cord to detach when you try to pull it out of the vagina's tight sphincter-like opening. Don't worry, this will never result in a visit to your hospitals emergency room, because just like a Ben Wa Ball, you'll be able to “pick” it out of your vagina with your fingers. (FYI - It's impossible for it to get “lost” in your body.)

The main reason we advise women not to insert the toy into the vagina is because if your cord detaches from the toy, it simply won't vibrate anymore! It will be broken and irreparable. Money wasted and a good sex toy thrown in the trash, what a shame!

This is where a wireless bullet vibrator comes into play – (pun intended, of course!) Here are the steps to enjoy extreme pleasure from a wireless vibrating bullet:

  1. Press the button on the end of the wireless vibrator to select a speed.
  2. Hold the rounded end on the clitoris until you feel more aroused.
  3. Move it up and down inside the labia minora vestibule and circle the vagina entrance.
  4. As your body responds, select a stronger speed setting.
  5. Press it firmly over the clitoris for several seconds.
  6. Move it downwards and insert only the first inch into the vagina, hold for several seconds.
  7. If needed, repeat steps 5 & 6 a few more times.
  8. At the onset of orgasm, insert the wireless vibrator ¾ of the way into the vagina and rub your clitoris with your fingers.

Once climax begins, there are a other few variants to try:

  • Thrust the wireless toy in & out like a tiny vibrator.
  • Leave it in place to vibrate the vagina opening.
  • Insert it all the way into the vagina.
  • Remove it from the labia and press it directly over the clitoris.

Product shown in video demonstration: Crystal Bullet


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How to Use a Remote Control Bullet Vibrator

Couples often purchase these to use in public. There's some serious kink factor here, and it is a naughty secret that couples share that ignites a strong spark of sexual passion.

The woman inserts the vibrator into her vagina while the partner carries the remote control in their pocket. At any moment, unbeknownst to her, a massive surge of pleasure rattles her body when her lover chooses the moment.

The reality is that even the most whisper quiet remote control bullet vibrators still make some noise, so using it in public is not as discreet as you think it may be. If you want to try one in public, we suggest that you attend a concert or street party or something where the ambient noise level is high enough to drown out the sound of the motor.

When the toy is inside the vagina, the body's density naturally muffles the sound but if you're in say a movie theater or shopping mall, you'll still hear some sound. Using one outdoors, however, is not the only reason to try a remote controlled vibrator.

Women enjoy remote control vibrators is because they can easily modify the speed or functions by keeping the remote close at hand. Instead of reaching down to touch the dial or press the button(s), you can hold the remote in your hand to instantly change its action. There is a high level of convenience in purchasing remote control sex toys for women, so in the end, they have more uses than simply a couples vibrator.

Instructions on how to use a remote control vibrator are identical to the bullet & egg instructions as seen above, so follow the instructions according to the shape of your device. In our experience, the remote control toys for sale are most often larger egg shaped vibrators because the remote and motor components require more space than simply a slim and small device that vibrates only.


Product shown in video demonstration: Power Touch Remote


How to Use a Double Bullet Vibrator

How to Use a Double Bullet Vibrator
Enjoy double the orgasmic fun!

A double bullet vibrator is a corded multi speed sex toy with 2 devices simultaneously activated by the same controller. The top reason a lady would try one of these is to enjoy both anal AND clitoral/vaginal stimulation at the same time.

The only disadvantage of the double bullet is they tend to be weaker than a single motor. Why? The same battery energy must be divided between two motors instead of just one motor.

With that being said however, the strongest womens adult toy of all time, the Turbo Accelerator DOES come in double form. Despite it having 2 motors to power up, there is enough fancy engineering distributing enormous battery energy output to create a super powerful toy. The Double Turbo Accelerator is the best (and only) one to buy if you want a strong double vibrator.

How to use the anal bullet vibrator (Option A):

  1. Spread your butt cheeks with one hand.
  2. Lay one of the vibrators down inside the cheeks and place the center of the device over the anus sphincter.
  3. Let go of your butt cheeks and the bullet will stay in place.
  4. Use the other vibrator on the clitoris by following any of the previous steps.

How to use the anal bullet vibrator (Option B):

  1. Lubricate the tip of one of the bullets.
  2. Insert the first half into the anus.
  3. Use the other bullet on the clitoris by following any of the previous steps.

Product shown in video demonstration: Double Turbo Accelerator


It's important to note that we do not recommend the bullet be inserted fully into the anus. If the cord should detach while you pull it out, it may require medical intervention to remove it from the anus. We only recommend you insert it half way, or if it's a vibrating anal egg, follow the steps from Option A.

Pro Tip: It's essential to note that a sex toy should never be shared between the anus and vagina. If one of the bullets is for anal use, mark it with a permanent marker so you don't accidentally insert it into the vagina. Keep the marked vibrator for external clit stimulation only.

The other option is to use both “up front”. Insert one into the vagina while the other is used on the clitoris. You can also tuck one between the labia vestibule and tease the vagina opening while the other buzzes the clit from above.



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