World's Most Realistic Dildos: The REAL Feel You Want

Last Updated on September 11, 2023

Sex toys come in all shapes and sizes, but the most popular of them all is the ultra realistic dildo made to look and feel exactly like a real penis.

The most realistic dildo with a lifelike shape, realistic veins and a firm inner core is the top dildo pick of women everywhere.

Forget fancy functions and funky features, hyper realistic dildos are meant to fulfill a sexual fantasy so it makes perfect sense that something that imitates the sensations of lovemaking will become the prized possession for personal erotic playtime. The ideal lifelike lover.

Today we'll discover the world's most realistic dildo and discuss some of the features to look for when shopping online for a realistic dildo sex toy that brings home the sensation of hopping in bed for a romp with a real lover. Learn about the differences between a realistic silicone dildo and a dual density dildo.

Best Realistic Dildos In Real Life

You can't judge how lifelike sex toys are based off visual appearance, some are too soft others are too firm. Density is key, but that's difficult to determine if it feels like skin just by looking at a few pictures on a website.

A realistic soft dildo with a suction cup can feel exactly like an actual dick even though it may not look like one. Realistic balls add to the visual appeal and a suction cup makes it harness compatible for hands free play. Dual density dildos don't look as lifelike, but they feel just like a real dick.

Leave it to the Sexperts to guide you through the process of finding the best realistic dildos (that's me!) I'll note some of my personal favorite vibrating, uncut, black & strap on harness compatible realistic dildos for couples who want to mix it up and rejuvenate their kinky fun.

Ladies flying solo will appreciate the suggestions because good sex is available anytime with no strings attached – your most realistic dildo will be the ultimate bed buddy and a prized possession in your sex toy collection.

Dual Density: The Best Feeling Dildo

The best dual density dildos are primarily made of TPE, a soft and delicate material that can be layered in varying densities on top of each other. They are characterized by a smooth surface soft outer skin over a firm core.

The center core is slightly more dense whereas the outer layer is less dense; therefore, the most realistic dildos are known as “dual density dildos”.

This was the hallmark feature of the famous Cyberskin, one of the first sex toy brands to have a dual density build.

You can feel the contrasting dual density layers when you squeeze the shaft with your fingers or try to bend it sideways.

The top layer moves independently from the bottom layer to imitate human skin over the firmer erectile tissue engorged with blood underneath (the basis of the male erection).

Pros & Cons of Hyper Realistic Dildos

Here are a few considerations when shopping for ultra realistic dildos. Consider this the essential checklist of what features you should (and should not) think about when buying the eternal erection from your favorite sex toy shop:

Benefits:

• Super realistic feels just like skin (obviously!)
• The most realistic dildos are also some of the softest dildos on the market
• Gentle, squishy material is ideal for seniors & older women
• Available in lifelike skin tones including Latin, brown & Black

Drawbacks:

• The suction cups are not very sticky (unless they are made of rubber)
• Fragile material is prone to drying out over time (unless you apply talcum powder before long term storage)
• Can bend, buckle or even develop small tears under heavy pressure (not recommended for rough sex!)
• Premium silicone and TPE hyper realistic dildos are more expensive than basic PVC or rubber

10 Most Realistic Dildos

These selections check all the boxes needed to assure you will experience the most realistic feeling dildo on the market right now. These are a good sampling of sizes to assure that every gal can locate per ideal preference from small to large, thin to thick:

Premium Option	Editor's Pick	Budget Friendly
Medium Real Skin Dildo	8 Inch USA Cocks Dildo	Sensa Feel Ultra Skin
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Most Realistic Feeling Dildo Materials

Not all dildo materials feel like real skin. Silicone, rubber, gel or PVC tends to be somewhat more firm compared to TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber) or TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) based materials, which we see in the popular king cock.

There is an exception to the rule however – we are seeing an increase in silicone products making it to the marketplace that have a silky feeling powdery surface that feels like skin. These are the best realistic dildos for women right now.

TPR - Thermoplastic Rubber & TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer

TPR and TPE are common sex toy materials. They are are polymers that can be crafted into a multitude of shapes, colors and sizes. These man-made materials can be produced cheaply so in the end, dildo and sex toy prices are more affordable to better appeal to a broad range of people.

These days pretty much all sex toy manufacturers make TPR & TPE sex toys that are lab certified non-toxic and body safe. It's important to note that not all of these materials are necessarily phthalates free, but we have only sourced TPR & TPE toys that ARE body safe so shop with confidence here at The Adult Toy Shop.

Pros	Cons
High quality sex toy materials that can be made at a cheap price Many manufactures now make lab certified body safe TPR & TPE adult toys One of the most popular materials to craft dual density dildos Can be made in a variety of skin tone colors and shades	Not hypoallergenic so people with sensitive skin may have reactions Some people find them too soft and malleable for hard sex play Soft suction cup bases aren't as sticky as silicone or rubber Not all TPE & TPE dildos are phthalates free, but ours are :)

Silicone

Technology is no stranger to sex toy manufacturing and every year I'm seeing shifts to premium silicone that actually feels like skin. The newest line of king cock is a high quality dildo that people in sex toy forums are raving about.

The first iterations of hyper realistic silicone dildos were a lot stiffer than they are now. With that being said, silicone is no longer a determining factor of how soft and/or life like it will be. You can still have a veiny shaft or smooth surface, there are plenty of options for solo play.

Pros	Cons
Can be crafted in unique shapes, for example a curved shaft or U shape for double penetration Medical grade silicone is always phthalate free & hypoallergenic Has a strong suction cup base compared to a dual density dildo A small silicone realistic dildo is good for anal play	Lacks the soft outer skin of dual density Much more expensive to buy Does not feel exactly like a real human penis Lack of vibrating options available

Rubber

Rubber, on the other hand, has not really changed over time. Rubber is the best choice for hardcore fast thrusting sex. It is a prime choice especially if you want a suction cup dildo to squat on over a bathtub edge or a wall for hands free fun.

Rubber has its place in any good sex toy collection, but if you seek the most true to life experience, you might want to consider passing it over in this case. A big realistic dildo with a suction cup can be better than a sex machine because the textured balls, realistic feel and firm core will be an intense sex toy in your dildo collection.

Pros	Cons
The best budget realistic dildos Rubber suction cup bases are really strong Insertable length can vary, pick your preferred from small to big Vac u lock & Harness compatible The only thrusting dildo with realistic features Rubber can be crafted into a super veiny realistic shaft	Rubber sex toys can have a "rubbery" odor People with sensitive skin may find some rubbers irritating The large dildo may be too uncomfortable for some to insert vaginally The realistic uncut dildo often has foreskin that can easily tear

Dildos that Look Real vs. Dildos that Feel Real

Rubber can be molded into precise shapes and features. You can see the dimples and wrinkles in the balls. The testicles can be formed a certain way.

The raised veins in the shaft can have minute detail that looks like a closeup of a real man's cock. The heads can be painted a pink hue to add a touch of visual appeal. Sized just like in real life, the 7 inch life like dildo replicates the realistic feel & texture of a penis during penetrative sex.

This is the advantage of a firmer material set into a precision mold, so if you're going solely for looks than pick rubber. The disadvantage as noted previously is it won't have dual density structure that makes it the most realistic feeling dildo. You will have a realistic penis with textured balls that looks stellar...

It will LOOK real but wont FEEL real. King Cock is currently the only line of dildos that seems to have figured out the formula and blended both qualities into one good looking sex toy fort women.

That's certainly okay however! I am not persuading the customer to steer clear from anything but a hyper realistic dildo. The benefits to the typical realistic looking cock is that it may be cheaper. The best feature according to fans of the type is that it's easier to maintain.

Why is it easier to maintain? The firm surface won't dry out over time. It will most certainly last longer than the gentle surfaces that will always dry out eventually.

Sure it can take years, but chances are unless you live in a really humid environment, real feel skin will dry out and develop small cracks in the surface. There is one way to combat evaporation however:

Tips for Maintaining your Ultra Realistic Dildo

So this leads me now into an important tip for maintaining an ultra realistic skin dildo: After washing and once the toy is completely dry, sprinkle talcum powder over the surface before storing for extended periods of time.

If you use the dildo regularly this isn't necessary. So what exactly is considered “an extended period of time”? I'd suggest longer than 2 months. Make sure to rinse the talcum powder off completely under warm running tap water before using.

Talc powder prevents loss of moisture on the most realistic dildos. It keeps the surface hydrated. If the shaft dries out too much, you'll notice micro cracks or holes in the surface which can get bigger and tear when being used due to the friction between the surface and your body.

If you have a realistic vibrating dildo, it is essential to remove the batteries after each use and clean it well with sex toy cleaner. The thrusting realistic dildo may not be very reliable, the internal components are very complex.

How to Pick the Best Realistic Dildo for You

Also to keep the delicate surface in tip-top shape, make sure to use plenty of water based lubricant. As previously mentioned, friction is rough and touch on this gentle material.

Lube reduces friction and helps the shaft to glide in & out which not only helps to preserve the longevity of your toy, but makes it more comfortable and enjoyable for you! When you're done, a good quality sex toy cleaner will keep your realistic dildo in tip-top shape.

Realistic Squirting Dildo

The best realistic dildo that brings home a true feel should ejaculate! The realistic squirting dildo was originally a vac u lock invention, but now several sex toy makers are creating these soft silicone or dual density silicone realistic squirting dildos that feel exactly like a fully erect cock.

Realistic Vibrating Dildo

The biggest advantage of having a dual density dildo that vibrates is that the motor is very quiet. If you think about dual density silicone dildos, there is a thick girthy padding to silence the motor inside. It muffles most of the noise.

The disadvantage of the realistic vibrating dildo is that because the soft out skin is delicate, it also absorbs most of the vibration waves making these not very powerful compared to regular penis vibrators.

Still, the vibrating feature makes this one of the best realistic dildos for maximum pleasure. As always, if you don't want vibration, just leave it off!

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Lifelike Dildo FAQ

If you're interested in purchasing a lifelike dildo for the first time, here are the answers to some commonly asked questions:

Do I need a certain type of lube?

If your dildo is made of silicone, you should pick a water based lube only. Silicone compounds blend, and your dildo can “melt” if it comes in contact with silicone lube. Although this won't happen instantly, the degradation over time will cause the surface to melt or form cracks or tears. Water based lube is best!

Do I need special cleaners?

You can use antibacterial soap to clean most sex toys, but the materials on the most realistic dildos is really delicate, so a proper sex toy cleaning spray should be used. These antibacterial formulas are formulated to be very gentle on delicate sex toys like this.

What about dildo sizing?

If you have been thinking about trying a thick dildo for the first time, choosing one of the most lifelike dildos if a good choice because the materials are very soft, so it is easy to insert a large dildo into the vagina. Rubber will feel more firm and rigid, but the TPE and TPR feels soft and comfortable providing a good sexual experience for the first time.