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Your Guide to Choosing the Perfect Pocket Pussy

Your Guide to Choosing the Perfect Pocket Pussy

When it comes to products that enhance masturbation, there’s a lot of focus on products for women. So much so that it’s easy to think that men are relegated to their hands, and a bottle of lube. That's definitely not the case if you're familiar with pocket pussies and their various features.

These handy realistic male masturbators allow you to enjoy solo play or mutual masturbation sessions with your partner. Of course, what you get out of your portable pussy depends on if you've selected the right one for your needs, how you use it, and how you take care of it.

That’s why we’ve created this beginners guide on how to choose a pocket pussy that matches your sexual preferences and penis size. Here, we will go over the different types, how to select one that works for you to get the most pleasurable experience. Lets' go!

What Exactly is a Pocket Pussy?

The pocket pussy is a type of male masturbator designed to replicate the look & feel of sex with a real person. They are made to feel like skin with a soft, stretchy surface. The interior tunnel can be textured to feel like a vagina or have an anal entry to feel like anal sex. Some pocket pussies have both entry points allowing the user to satisfy any sexual preference.

What Are The Benefits of Owning One?

Why would someone want a pocket pussy? Isn’t it easier just to masturbate with your hand, or maybe have more sex with your partner?

We think masturbation the old-fashioned way is great. Sex with a partner is wonderful too, if that’s an option for you. Still, we believe that most men could benefit from owning at least one pocket masturbator. Here are just a few reasons why:

  • The fantasy factor is real. Let’s face it. When you use your hand, you’re never unaware that you are getting yourself off. When you use an object, like a pocket pussy, it’s easier to immerse yourself in a fantasy.
  • You can try out different textures and sensations. Pocket strokers are available in a variety of depths, textures, and can simulate different levels of friction and intensity. These can simulate different types of sex, or provide you with a new experience entirely.
  • Pocket pussies are discrete and portable. Throw yours in a drawer, take it in your suitcase, or keep it in a box under your bed. It's the best bed-buddy that never says no, she's always ready to go!
  • A male sex stroker can be a great, stamina training tool. If you have trouble finishing too soon, you can use one to practice holding off orgasm. The realistic pussy with added visual appeal takes your stamina training to the next level
  • Pocket masturbators are reasonably priced compared to other types of automatic male sex toys. For less than 100 dollars, you can get a great pussy that looks and feels like the real thing.
  • There is an incredible amount of variety and textures among the products so that no two feel the same. If you like to experiences different sensations during sex, this is your ideal sex toy.

Luscious Lips Pussy

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A popular pocket pussy sex toy with silky feeling skin and gorgeous visuals to get you off. Available in 3 skin tones.

Slippery Slit Pussy

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Tuck yourself into this perfectly shaven pussy mound and enjoy the lifelike textured vagina. Available in 3 skin tones.


What Does a Pocket Pussy Look Like?

It's self explanatory that a pocket pussy will look like a vagina, but flip it around and take a look at the other side and you'll see a couple of different setups.

First of all, there is the style with a flat "face" with a long and floppy tunnel attached to the back. The tunnel is soft and floppy so that every man can hold it as tight as her wants - this way he can customize his pleasure by squeezing a good grip, or letting it loose and light.

The second way a pocket pussy looks is a single piece rectangular unit. This is a hand held device with a large flat base. It is possible to set it on a table and sue this style hands free. Some even have a suction cup on the bottom for truly hands free sex. Bigger will always feel more lifelike, but not necessarily look lifelike as even some of the smaller styles look extremely realistic.

What are the Different Types of Pocket Pussies?

If you're new to all of this, here's a quick guide on the different types of pocket pussies:

  • Life size pocket pussy – Indulge in the ultimate sexual fantasy with impressive full body pocket pussy and life like vagina visuals.
  • Small pocket pussy – The mini pocket pussy is the best male masturbator. Looks good, feels real and the tiny size is easy to store.
  • Pocket pussy with ass – Never have to choose between front door or back door, the pocket vagina with butt has both with dual entry holes.
  • Ass pocket pussy – The pocket asshole features an ass with puckered anal pocket pussy detail and tightly ribbed canal just like real anal sex.
  • Vibrating pocket pussy – The vibrating pussy has a separate bullet vibrator to add stimulation and increase sexual pleasure during masturbation.

As you begin familiarizing yourself with these different pocket pussy designs, you’ll notice you have lots of brands and options to choose from. Some popular examples include:

  • Fleshlight style toys are self-contained masturbators that come in a hard-sided container (that typically resembles a Flashlight) with a long, textured tube that you can insert into a sleeve or use out of the container.
  • Compact Tenga strokers provide you with a discreet and quick way to masturbate. These 3 inch long head-style egg stroker sleeves are cheap but very effective for pleasurable male masturbation on the tip of your dick.
  • There are pocket vaginas designed to resemble the anatomy of various porn stars, actually molded from the pornstar or celebrity to create an exact replica of their privates down to the most intricate detail.
  • Some pocket strokers are closed systems, and others are open at the end. Closed ended stroker toys create vacuum suction on the tip of the penis which mimics the feel a blow job. Some blowjob toys are fully automatic with thrusting, swirling and vibrating action.
  • If you want the most lifelike feeling option, choose a life-size realistic masturbator. Yes they are big and more expensive, but there is more space inside the tunnel to create a true-to-life feeling texture that parallels sex with a real woman.

Selecting Your Pocket Pussy

Vibrating Pocket Pussy
Where to place the vibrator in the back.

How do you know which pocket pussy is best for you? First, keep in mind that you can certainly buy more than one. In fact, if you choose a Fleshlight or similar masturbator, you can purchase different inserts that are designed to fit in the same sleeve.

Before you make your purchase, here are some other things to consider:

Sizing is Important

There are two things to consider when it comes to the size of your pocket vagina. The first is the size of your penis. You’ll notice that most will have a maximum ‘accommodation’ size. Measure yourself carefully so that you can pick the one that works for you. Don’t worry big guys, there are plenty of choices out there for you.

What you don’t want to do is buy a unit that is too small. You won’t get an intensely ‘tight’ experience. It will just be painful. Likewise, don’t exaggerate your size. You won’t have much fun with a pocket vagina that’s too wide or too long. Besides, some guys enjoy that ‘bottoming out’ sensation.

Now, consider the size of the entire unit. If discretion is really important to you, a ring masturbator might be best. If you aren’t concerned with that, and want a really upgraded experience, try a masturbator that comes with an automatic stroker or a vibrating feature.

Choose Your Material

Thanks to modern science, you can buy a pocket pussy that feels exceptionally realistic. They are generally made from materials such as silicone or TPE. Some manufacturers use proprietary names to describe their pussies. What you really want to pay attention to is whether or not the material is body safe. Also, silicone is not porous. TPE is, which means that you must pay a bit more attention to cleanliness.

What is Your Budget?

Pocket pussy and ass entry and exit hole
Vagina & ass entry and exit holes shown.

You can spend as little as ten dollars on a sex toy for men, or more than 200 dollars. While you probably want to avoid the cheapest models, you won’t necessarily get a better experience spending hundreds of dollars. Purchase one from TheAdultToyShop.com in any price range.

Where and how do you buy a realistic pocket pussy? You can certainly go to your neighborhood sex store to buy a masturbator which is a less phallic sex toy for men that does not look like a vagina or ass. Even though, just being there in person is not very convenient. It certainly isn’t too discrete.

There’s a reason why people buy sex toys online. You can relax and look through your options online. You can read reviews from other customers, and you can place your order without worrying about anyone looking over your shoulder. Once you place your order, your pocket masturbator will come directly to your home. It doesn’t get much easier than that!

Pocket Pussy Tips & Techniques

Now for the main event. How to use a pocket pussy to enjoy the best possible experience? First, find a great lube. Water based is key. Try out a warming lube for a really pleasurable experience because after all, a real vagina is warm so your pussy masturbator should be warm, too.

Now, enter slowly and carefully. Your unit may seem tight at first, but most are designed to expand to fit you. Ramming it in could be unpleasant.

Once you’re inside, do a bit of experimenting! Alternate between fast and slow movements. Try subtle, circular motions. Go hard and fast if that’s what you enjoy. Hold your hands steady, and thrust with your hips.

Try different grip strengths. Do you have a vibrating unit, or an automatic stroker with different settings? Take your masturbation toy for a test drive until you find exactly what you want.

Get your partner in on the action. Have a super-sexy mutual masturbation session. Lay back and close your eyes, and let them surprise you with different techniques. Open ended, pocket pussies make great blow job and hand job enhancers too. Don’t forget to reciprocate!

Finally, use your masturbation toy as a training device. Perfect your thrusting technique so that you can give your partner amazing orgasms. Increase your endurance by masturbating almost to the point of climax, then stopping. Before long, you’ll enjoy those marathon, bedroom sessions you’ve always fantasized about.

Accessories to Enhance your Pleasure

The simplest pocket toys are designed for manual stimulation. Others are a bit more advanced, and you can buy accessories to really improve your experience and increase pleasure. These include:

  1. Warmers:
    These heat up the inside of your masturbator for a more realistic feeling. If you really enjoy temperature play, you can also experiment with making your sex stroker chilly by sticking it in the fridge.
  2. Mounts:
    Attach a mount to your shower wall so that you can thrust your way to orgasm without using your hands.
  3. Sleeves And Cases:
    These hold pocket pussy inserts, and can be adjusted for more or less friction.
  4. Strokers:
    These are automated units that do all the work for you. Just adjust to the settings you like, and enjoy the sensation as the unit strokes and gyrates for you.

Cleaning, Care & Maintenance

It's especially important to clean your pocket pussy with with sex toy cleaner because the high end soft materials are more delicate than cheap hard rubber. Make sure to clean the ass and vagina because even if you don't use both holes, lube and cum can still seep inside the other entry hole.

TMI here, but if you don’t clean your masturbator correctly, it will quickly become a gross, petri dish of nastiness. You’ll need to stay on top of keeping your unit clean. How you do that depends on your pocket pussy.

If you don’t want to mess with much cleaning, choose one that is open at the end. This way, when you finish you can do so without getting anything inside of the tunnel. If you prefer a closed unit, you’ll have to put in a bit of effort to clean it. Here are some basic instructions:

  • If your pocket vagina can be disassembled, take it apart before cleaning. It’s infinitely easier to clean this way. Some masturbators can also be turned inside out for thorough cleaning.
  • After you finish, flush out the sex sleeve with soapy water, antibacterial cleanser, or a cleaner made specifically for sex toys. Rinse everything out thoroughly.
  • Dry your unit thoroughly inside and out. Some pocket toys come with special racks to help with this.
  • If there are electronics involved, take care. Unplug or remove any batteries. Never put any electrical components under water.
  • Apply a dusting of corn starch. This keeps things clean and dry before use.
  • Inspect for any damage. A good male sex toy is durable, and should last a long time. Still, if you do find damage it’s time to buy a new one. You don’t want to hurt yourself.
  • Don’t boil your pocket pussy or put it in the dishwasher, unless the instructions say that you may do this.

Remember that these are very general instructions. Your new sex toy will probably come with cleaning and care instructions. Read and follow these carefully.

Final Thoughts

Knowing how to choose a pocket pussy that will best suits your desires can absolutely enhance your sex life. Use it solo, or share the fun with your partner. Choose the right male sex toy, take good care of it, and experiment with different masturbation techniques. By doing these things, you’ll be able to enjoy intensely pleasurable sensations, and intense orgasms. Enjoy!





Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

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