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10 Best Dual Density Dildos & How They Are Made

10 Best Dual Density Dildos & How They Are Made

Last Updated on June 12, 2023

If you're new to sex toy terminology, you've probably seen the term “Dual Density” to describe dildos for sale online. What exactly does that mean?

Today, I'll explain exactly what is a dual density dildo and why it can be tricky type of sex toy to buy online when all you have to differentiate between different dildo toys and vibrators are some pictures on a website.

If you're shopping online for a realistic dildo, you'll encounter two different types: The dual density dildo and the single density dildo.

In fact, they are so distinguishable from each other, we've separated them into two separate categories:

  1. Realistic Dildos: Made to LOOK real. These are made of materials that are a bit on the rigid side that are easier to insert and good for strap-on use & lively or active fantasy sex.
  2. Real Feel Dildos: Made to FEEL real. These are made of soft & pliable materials that are best for slow and gentle sex, but close your eyes and you'll never know it's not a real penis.

They look different, and as you would expect, the experiences are unique for each one too. Today I'll review and compare some of our best dual density dildos (and my personal favorites for the ultimate sexual pleasure) before sending you on your way to buy a dildo you'll really love.

What is a Dual Density Dildo?

The dual density dildo is a type of realistic dildo comprised of two layers of material. The interior layer is more dense while the outer layer is more malleable and often can move independently over the core. The purpose of this double layer dildo build is to replicate the feel of an erect penis.

Watch the video demo to see what happens when I squish a dual density dildo with my hand.

You can see the top layer that can be compressed separately from the interior layer. The entire shaft isn't squishy, only the top layer smooshes between my fingers. The core remains sturdy.

Making Dildos More Realistic

If you're looking for the most realistic dildo, you'll quickly notice that pretty much all the sex toys infront of you will be dual skin dildos. It truly is magical how the stacked layers mimic the tissue of an erect penis.

Let's have a quick erection anatomy lesson first: The penis is comprised of multiple layers of sponge like tissue. When sexually stimulated, the tissue fills with blood which firms the tissue and causes the penis to become erect.

Sex toy manufacturers were quick to realize that by replicating this body process through varying densities on the dildo shaft, the end result is something that feels incredibly life like. The opposite can be called “single density dildos”, although that's not a term you'll ever see, but here I'll use it to denote a sex toy that is one consistent layer throughout.

What are Dual Density Skin Dildos Made Of?

Dual density dildos are made of one of three materials:

  1. Silicone
  2. TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  3. TPR - Thermoplastic Rubber

Which material is best? Honestly, they are all really good. In fact, if you were to ignore the printing on the box, you would hardly be able to determine the material on your own because they feel so similar to the touch.

Silicone tends to be more expensive while TPE and TPR are cheaper options, but not lacking in quality. If you are shopping for sex toys on a budget, by all means pick one of the latter materials, you'll still be one very happy lady.


Medium Ultra Real Skin Dildo

Medium Ultra Real Skin Dildo - $55

Incredibly lifelike dildo is the perfect "no strings attached" bed buddy for your sexual fantasy pleasure.

Ballsy Soft Flexible Dildo

Ballsy Soft Flexible Dildo - $29

One of the most comfortable and gentle dual density dildos ever. Just like memory foam for the vagina!

The Large Size You Crave

One of the nicest features about this type of adult toy is that they come in a vast range of size options. The 8 inch realistic dildo fulfills a sexual fantasy without going overboard. Many women secretly crave a big dick, and luckily if you're going to stuff yourself full of dildo, the real feel dildo is the best choice.

The thick and large dual density dildo is the most comfortable of all big dildos to insert into the vagina. The outer layer compresses as it penetrates the body to ease it in gently. You can literally experience maximums stretch from a thick dildo without discomfort during insertion.

So my piece of Sexpert advice here today for those seeking a large, fat girth is to skip the rubber or gel materials and pick the real skin toys instead. Additionally, when the vagina muscles clench during an orgasm, the soothing skin like surface feels purely decadent inside the body. It really is a premier sexual experience for pure orgasmic joy.

Best Dual Density Dildos & Sex Toys

My personal top picks from the real feel sex toy category will bring home a true sense of realism in the bedroom. Close your eyes and drift away into a dreamy sexual fantasy with one of these incredibly realistic feeling, extra soft dildos for women:

1. Real Cocks Dual Density Dildo

Real Cocks Dual Density Dildo is one of the original double layer dicks, and still one of the most popular. I like these selections because the price is affordable for the final product you get. A great value and a popular “first real feel dildo” for women who want to try something a bit more luxurious compared to their cheaper rubber alternatives in their sex toy collection.

These soothing realistic penis replicas are available in 3 sizes: small, medium and large.


Small Real Cock Dual Density Dildo

Small Real Cock Dual Density Dildo

Small Real Cock Dual Density Dildo features all the lifelike visual detailing to make it look true to a real man's erect penis (but little, of course!)

  • Total Length: 7 inches
  • Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

Medium Real Cock Dual Density Dildo

Medium Real Cock Dual Density Dildo

Medium Real Cock Dual Density Dildo is the second in the series. It is a well hung, perfectly “average” girth. Although you may find it a little bit longer than an average man's erect penis.

  • Total Length: 8 inches
  • Insertable Length: 6 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/2 inches near the tip, increases to 1 5/8 inches mid shaft
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

Large Real Cock Dual Density Dildo

Large Real Cock Dual Density Dildo

Large Real Cock Dual Density Dildo has a long and large stocky shaft with heavy duty bulging veins snaking their way across the surface.

  • Total Length: 9 inches
  • Insertable Length: 7 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/2 inches across the head, increases to 1 7/8 inches mid shaft
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Caramel (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

2. Au Naturel Real Feel Dildo

Au Naturel Real Feel Dildos are incredibly soft, almost like silk! They are available in 2 girth options. Both choices measure 7 inches long, but one is thick and the other is comparable to a typical erection girth.


Au Naturel Real Feel Dildo

Au Naturel Real Feel Dildo

Au Naturel Real Feel Dildo fits every lady just right thanks to its anatomically correct sizing. The circumcised head narrows slightly at the tip so it inserts into the vagina easily.

  • Total Length: 7 inches
  • Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
  • Diameter: 1 1/4 inches across the head, 1 1/2 inches across the shaft
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Latin (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

Au Naturel Real Feel Thick Dildo

Au Naturel Real Feel Thick Dildo

Au Naturel Real Feel Thick Dildo is stocky and stout, a barrel shaped wonder with a wide head and intimidating girth without unnecessary length that makes some huge dildos difficult to handle.

  • Total Length: 7 inches
  • Insertable Length: 5 inches
  • Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/2 – 2 inches
  • Material: TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer
  • Color Options: Vanilla (White), Latin (Brown), Chocolate (Dark)

3. USA Cocks Real Feel Dildos

Proudly introducing USA Cocks, a line of super soft, ultra realistic feeling and looking American made dildos. Satisfy your sexual fantasies with the amazing creation: A dual density premium sex toy made right in your own backyard!

These are our newest real skin toys for sale, and already selling at a furious pace. They come in 4 size options, all are quite girthy and substantial, silky smooth and quite luxurious. For the gal looking for something large and in charge, one of these four choices will be right up your alley.


7 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

7 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

7 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo is the smallest in the lineup. The size is directly comparable to that of a real man's erection so if you're looking for a 7 inch realistic dildo that is actually life size, this should be your first choice pick today. The tip is extra squishy and slightly more narrow than the rest of the shaft so vaginal insertion is easy and fast.


8 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

8 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

8 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo is classified as “upper intermediate” size. Some ladies may find it big, others think it's perfectly medium size. Even thigh it has a good, sturdy thick stance, the super soft rubber eases into the vagina easily so this makes a superb “1st big dildo” choice for women wanting to upgrade from their smaller dildo.


9 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

9 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

9 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo is a totally elegant dick. It brings to mind a fiery hot manly stud you'd see in famous adult movies. It's the kind of dick that supercharges then sex life, stretching the vagina with pure unrestrained softness and sensual fun.


10 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

10 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo

10 inch USA Cocks Real Feel Dildo is the softest massive dildo we have for sale. Even though it looks sturdy from the pictures, the video demo will show you exactly how bendable it really is. The lifelike rubber has a hefty weight when you pick it up, yet when you pull on the towering shaft, it bends with surprising ease.


4. King Cock Silicone Dual Density Dildos

King Cock Silicone Dual Density Dildos are a fresh new release from Pipedream Products line of King Cock Elite Dildos. They are made of double layer silicone and the best choice for gals with sensitive skin or allergies to some of the more common sex toy materials.

They included a nifty image on the side of the box depicting the construction of their double silicone layers. It's a nice representation on the concept of double skin layers and a cross section of what they look like underneath the surface.

7 Inch King Cock Silicone Dildo

7 Inch King Cock Silicone Dildo

7 Inch King Cock Silicone Dildo is one of the softest silicone dildos available for sale. It is both incredibly realistic feeling and looking to provide that oh-so important aspect to fulfilling a sexual fantasy. The narrowed head aids in smooth, sensual vaginal insertion making it one of the best choices for beginners.


6 Inch King Cock Silicone Dildo

6 Inch King Cock Silicone Dildo

6 Inch King Cock Silicone Dildo is a fantastic stocky yet short penis dildo with a perky and rounded circumcised head. It is thicker compared to the 7 inch version and comes in a stovepipe, blunt shaft providing a more hardcore experience. This one if a real orgasmic treat for any lucky lady for places high importance on quality sex toys.


5. Cyberskin Dildos

Cyberskin is quite famous. It originally appeared on sex shop shelves at least 15 years ago and was one of the first skin like and realistic feeling dual density sex toys for women. We have a dedicated category stocking the best Cyberskin dildos for sale, so have a peek at the selection, from small to large, thin and thick, the Cyberskin choices cover pretty much every dimension you could possibly think of.

Sex Toy Lube & Cleaning

Lubricant is important with any sex toys, but especially with delicate materials like real skin dildos. Friction will cause it to tear or create micro holes in the surface that can spread and dimple the surface.

Use plenty of lube, but pick water based lubricants only. Silicone based formulas can melt the material. Also make sure to clean and wash it properly with sex toy cleaner and pat dry with a lint free towel before storing.

Dual density realistic dildos with soft skin may dry out over time, especially if you live in a dry climate. You'll see tiny cracks appear in the surface. You want to prevent this from happening as the micro cracks will spread and tear over time.

You can sprinkle talcum powder over the surface to preserve moisture if you plan on storing the dildo for extended periods of time (ie more than 2 months). Make sure to wash off the talc powder really well before using.

Use a proper dildo cleaner to clean dual layer skin sex toys. With most other types of dildos it is totally okay to use antibacterial hand soap, but in this case, dual skin dildos are too delicate for these harsh soaps. Dildo cleaners are made specifically to be used with gentle sex toy materials like this.





Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

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