How to Use & Clean a Squirting Dildo: Complete Tutorial
The squirting dildo is one of the more exotic types of sex toys and a fun way for couples to add some kink factor to the sex life.
They have some quirks among their features, so knowing how to use one properly will help to increase your overall satisfaction as you'll spend less time fumbling with it or even spilling cum all over the floor.
Dildos that squirt are fun and adventurous adding the realistic experience of faceshots, and if you use fake semen lube with it, some of these dildos are totally convincing as they can ejaculate just like in real life.
How do squirting dildos work? There are a few different ways they cum and some variety among the different designs, but essentially, instructions remain the same.
So how exactly do you use a squirting dildo? Here's the steps to load it with ejaculate (lube) and how to properly clean all of the interior components for long term maintenance.
How to Use a Squirting Dildo
If your squirting dildo has a reservoir in the balls, you'll need to harness the power of vacuum section to load it up with nut butter:
- Fill a small bowl or cup with cum lube.
- Squeeze the balls as hard as you can with both hands (NOTE: Do not use your fingernails, use your finger pads only. Nails can accidentally slice the material.)
- Submerge the tip of the dildo into the liquid about 1 inch or so.
- Let go of the balls and vacuum suction will suck the cum into the interior tubing and into the balls.
- You have need to repeat these steps a few times, but make sure to squeeze the balls gently during subsequent repetitions so you don't accidentally make it squirt.
If your squirting dildo has external tubing and a syringe, simply dip the tip of the penis into a small bowl filled with lube or warm water and pull the syringe upwards to suck fluid into the shaft.
PRO TIP: During sex play, avoid tipping the dildo downwards. Thanks to the force of gravity, the liquid will naturally flow out of the tip if you point it towards the floor. Keep it horizontal at all times, or ideally, pointed straight up until ejaculation.
When it's time to make the dildo squirt, think about what male ejaculation looks like. It spurts out in small shots, not as big shot all at once. Of course if you're hardcore fetish fantasy is a huge load, then by all means press the bulb at hard as you can fast & quick to make it shoot the load extra far.
If you want a realistic squirting dildo experience, press the syringe or the hand bulb in short quickly repetitive bursts. This will make the cum squirt out of the toy just like a man's cock during orgasm. You can always suck up more lube so keep the cup or bowl nearby for a quick refill during your play session.
What Can I Use for Ejaculate?
The best option is cum lube. This is thick & viscous lube tinted white to look exactly like cum. Water-based fake semen lube is easy to wash because it is water soluble. Silicone or hybrid cum lube requires extra soap because it's not water soluble, so make sure to use double the amount of soap or cleaner if you have silicone or hybrid lube.
You can use warm water, but it's quite runny and tends to leak out of the hole. The advantage of water however is that because it's not viscous like cum lube, it can shoot really far, almost like a dick-shaped water gun, lol!
Do not use egg whites. It can disrupt the natural flora & PH level of the vagina and cause a wealth of bacterial issues. Furthermore, if any residue is left inside the tubing, it will easily mold, it can smell sour and become a breeding ground for germs.
Cleaning & Sanitizing
You will absolutely need to completely clean all the interior components. I strongly suggest using sex toy cleaner.
Leaving even the slightest bit of lube behind in the tubing can harbor mold or bacteria growth. Sex toy cleaner will not only flush remnants through the interior, but also sanitize ejaculating dildos to keep them body safe for your next use.
- Flush the toy through with hot water repeatedly by using the same method you just used to load the semen lube.
- Spray antibacterial sex toy cleaner through the tubing and shake the dildo well to lather it up inside.
- Wash the exterior the same way as you would any other sex toy.
- Rinse with hot tap water the same way to loaded the lube prior.
- Leave it out on your countertop to completely dry before storing.
If you store your dildo when wet, there is a good chance that at some point mold can grow inside. That's just not something you want to contend with, so be sure to clean it and dry it well before storing.
As always, storing sex toys in the original packaging it came in is the best way to keep it away from dust, lint and clear of contact with your other vibrators and other sex toys in your collection.
Final Thoughts
No doubt you've learned how complex these oddball adult toys can be. It certainly is not like your other realistic dildo. The addition of the complicated interior structure adds something different to your sex life, but also demands a more strict cleaning routine due to its complexity.
You don't always need to use the squirting function if you're not into it, sometimes just quickie is all we want for good sexual pleasure. So why purchase an ejaculating dildo? To spice up the sex life, to enhance interactivity during partnered sex and foreplay and simply just because variety really is awesome.
I hope you've learned a lot today and found the right ejaculating dildo that will suit your needs and size preference. It is a fun addition to strap on sex play and something different that an ordinary suction cup dildo.
