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Does She Like her Vibrator More than Me?

Does She Like her Vibrator More than Me?

It's no secret that vibrators are the source of powerful orgasms. Even though most women may not admit it, we love vibrators. We own vibrators.

Some of us even own a collection of vibrators. A perfectly placed buzzing motor can produce the strongest orgasm we've ever experienced.

Do women even need a man to satisfy them? Does she like her vibrator more than him? It's the million dollar question that men have wondered for decades.

This topic is not often discussed in a relationship because if a man brings it up in conversation, it hints of weakness or insecurity, which is a turn off for woman. Instinctively, women like a macho man, a provider, a level-headed confident man.

When a guy expresses concern that a small electronic device has the ability to overtake his sexual prowess, the conversation becomes awkward.

I'm here to tell you the truth and provide a little insight into the female mind of why we use vibrators in the first place and how you can get involved so that you don't feel left out.

 

The Quick Answer:

Yes, she loves her vibrator, but you're still useful too.

“Vibrators are a source of fantasy for women. It's equivalent to men watching pornography. It makes the experience better; men like their visual stimuli, women like the tactile stimuli. Men & women are simply wired that way. To deny her vibrators is equivalent to her denying you porn.” ~ Mayla Green

 

Let's spin a story here to learn a few lessons:

You're dating a new woman and it's time to move the relationship into the bedroom. You happen to peek in her drawer when she opens it to grab a condom and you see this massive, realistic looking vibrator; and it's far larger than you.

So naturally, you think that she prefers a well hung man and you're only average. Now you feel sub par. Is she even going to notice you during sex?

 

The honest truth:

She is just as excited to have sex as you are. Even if you're only a measly 6 inches while her vibrator is 10 inches. Don't feel jealous of a fake rubber dick.

 

Why?

No matter how big or how powerful a penis vibrator is, the real thing is always most welcome. A real man carries the emotional aspect of sex that a hunk of silicone can never provide.

Women like the mental & emotional aspect of sex that only comes when a man caresses us, looks in our eyes, touches our body. There is never a replacement for the human touch.

Truthfully, the orgasm might not be as strong as one that originated from a G-spot vibrator, but the mental and emotional satisfaction is just as great as the orgasmic outcome from a toy.

men and women

 

It's your turn!

Now let's fast forward a good chunk of time and you're still dating the same woman. Now she might bring out the big fat vibrator into bed when you're there. You should be happy this happened – it's the first day of your new & adventurous sex life together!

 

Why did she do this?

It's not because you don't satisfy her anymore. Over time, sex becomes routine and regular and even though you're deeply in love, the erotic spark is not as strong as it once was. It's time to try new things to put a spark back into the sex life. Bedroom toys are the perfect remedy to a ho-hum sex life.

Sure the vibrator may be wider than you, but don't feel insecure. Change your perspective completely and realize that she's inviting you to be kinky. She's letting you use it on her, not because it feels better than you, but because she wants to play with YOU.

 

The best part?

You get that awesome view while you use the toy on her.

In conclusion, don't think that she likes her vibrator more than you. That's not what it's about. Women love the human touch just as much as the orgasm from a sex toy. They offer us 2 different routes to satisfaction.

 

What NOT to do:

The only time it gets weird is if you insist that your partner ditch their vibrator. If that's the case, you bet she'll tell you to ditch the porn. That's surely not something you want to risk!

 

What you should do instead:

Take this chance and buy a vibrator together. You may think this is my bias opinion speaking here, but using vibrators together is one of the funnest ways to enhance foreplay. It truly keeps things interesting in the bedroom, especially after you've been tpgether for a while and sex starts to feel overly routine. Get kinky, my friends.



Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog. Mayla Green's Linkedin profile highlights her professional background, experience and training.

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