December 3, 2019 Mayla Green

How to Use a G Spot Vibrator | Step by Step Instructions

Last Updated on July 29, 2020

G Spot vibrators are the top rated sex toy for powerful, pulsating female orgasms. G Spot toys are distinguished by a forward curve designed to massage and stimulate the titillating hot spot inside the vagina. We'll discover how to use a G Spot vibrator full instructions with video, and tips on how to make your curved realistic dildo or stimulator the most prized possession in your adult toys collection.

I'll also offer tips & techniques on how to use different types of G Spot vibrators, such as slim stimulators, wild G spot rabbit & clit vibrators, curved dildos and other unique sex toys for the G-Spot. We'll explore the contrasting sensations between slim & small massagers and large & thick styles to compare and review their differences.

Once you feel well versed in the secrets and techniques of the pros, hop on over to my list of 20 best G Spot vibrators to find your new favorite. For such a seemingly simple female sex toy, there are many complexities and style differences that some ladies love and others don't. It's most helpful to watch the video demons and note various functions and feature before making your purchase online.

Where is The G Spot Located?

The female G-Spot is located 2 - 3 inches inside the vagina facing the front of the body. It is a small gland of highly concentrated nerve endings embedded in the tissue inside the anterior vaginal wall. To the touch, it has the texture, shape and size best described as feeling like a “soft walnut shell”.

How to Find the Female G Spot?

To find the G Spot, insert your middle finger into the vagina and slide it up the wall towards the pubic bone while rotating your fingertip in a tight circular motion. You'll feel the small gland because it has a different texture from the soft surrounding muscle tissue of the vagina. Watch my video demonstration for step by step instructions.

When you locate the G spot, initially you may feel the need to urinate, but once you massage the gland in a slow circular motion, or press on it by moving your fingers in a “come here” motion, the urge to urinate is quickly replaced by a feeling of sexual arousal.

G Spot location — How to find the location of the G Spot.

How to use a G Spot Vibrator?

Unlike most other sex toys for women, G-spot toys require the user follow a specific set of instructions to achieve the final result. We like to think of it as a step by step recipe for awesome orgasms!

Instructions on how to use a G spot Vibrator:

Lubricate the tip and the first few few inches of the shaft with water based lubricant.
Hold the toy in your hand between your thighs, and point the curve towards your belly button.
Note the position of the toy in your hand before inserting it in your vagina. (This way you can make sure to keep the curve facing forwards after insertion.)
Insert the 1st inch of the shaft into the vagina and add pressure to the front of the wall.
Slide the toy slowly up towards your belly button while maintaining pressure on the front vaginal wall.
When you feel the tingling sense of urination, stop moving the toy and hold it in place.
(If you are deeper than 4 inches but did not feel the Gspot, you've gone too high and missed the mark. Remove the toy and re-start at step 4.)
Once you feel the gland, activate the motor. (Note: Be careful not to turn the device sideways or it will slide off the gland.)
Once the vibrator is on, jiggle it back & forth and up & down very slightly and enjoy the sensation.
Alternate between moving the vibrator as described in the step above with holding it still and applying firm pressure forwards.
Rub your clitoris to increase pleasure.
At the onset of orgasm, thrust the vibrator in & out. (Don't thrust it more than 1-2 inches however because you still want vibration focused on the gland).

How to Find the G Spot with a Vibrator

Not all women want to necessarily have a G Spot orgasm with a vibrator. Often it is used to enhance sexual response and to help her body produce natural vaginal lubrication. They are also used by couples during foreplay because massaging the gland relaxes the walls and makes intercourse feel more comfortable.

Small G Spot toys are also a great way to get the mind & body in the mood for sex! Even mini vibration feels nicer than fingers or even a non-vibrating dildo so even if you don't want to use a large toy for women, consider a slim or thin toy just to help you prepare for sex.

Simply follow steps 1-8 in the category above about how to use a G spot vibrator. Instead of jiggling the device, just hold it there until you feel yourself get wet. The longer you hold the toy in place, the more intense the erotic sensations will feel. The video demo here also repeats the full instructions!

How to Squirt with a G Spot Vibrator

Some women use a G spot vibrator to squirt. Squirting during orgasm is a very cathartic sensation, a super powerful, all encompassing experience that requires both Gspot AND clitoral stimulation.

Many women purchase a G Spot Rabbit & clit vibrator to squirt because it stimulates all the erogenous zones needed in order for the body to experience what is commonly known as female ejaculation.

Follow the instructions above, but once you've reached the orgasm, continue on with hard pressure on both the clitoris and the Gspot. Squirting occurs after the initial orgasm fades, so it takes extra time and consistency to “keep the boll rolling”, so to speak.

Hold it there until you feel the need to pee and once the urge overcomes you, let it all out in the moment of orgasmic squirting joy! Female ejaculation feels like urination, but accompanied by intense erotic sensations that surge through your whole body.

How to Have a G Spot Orgasm with Sex Toys:

If you are buying a Gspot dildo or stimulator without a clitoral component, we suggest that you buy a bullet vibrator to use at the same time as your internal vibrator. We are often asked how to have a G-Spot orgasm with sex toys, and combining internal & external stimulation is the best way to do it!

My step by step sheet on how to use a vibrating bullet also has a certain set of instructions, so make sure you review that blog entry before you tuck yourself away in the bedroom for personal private playtime. If you want life like feeling sex, buy the realistic G spot dildo and use the bullet at the same time. This is a better way to enjoy a true erotic fantasy.

Different Types of G Spot Vibrators

There are a few different styles of G spot toys for women that offer ladies more variety when shopping online. These additional features amplify your climax and make enjoying your personal vibrator more enjoyable. We'll explore different types of non-vibrating and vibrating G Spot dildos that are worth your consideration:

G Spot Dildos

The non vibrating G spot toy is often known as the G Spot dildo. The Small Curved Dildo is my favorite suggestion for ladies seeking this type. It is the hallmark of what an excellent G Spot dildo should be! Most are realistic with circumcised penis heads and life like erection details, but they have a steep angled shaft for that lusted-after pinpoint internal massage.

The product shown in the video is the Cici dildo, unlike most styles that are realistic looking, this one is made of smooth silicone and has an erotic firm density. The majority also have suction cup bases for a few reasons.

Firstly, they are compatible with strap on harnesses. Secondly, suction helps them to stand up on their own. Most simply fall over because all the weight leans to one side. If you want to combine a realistic sex toy and a G spot climax, the life like curved dildo is a great choice.

Most realistic feeling & looking option.
Typically strap on harness compatible.
Only non-vibrating choice.
Option of a suction cup base.

G Spot Toys

These are more discreet and small G Spot stimulators for women that do not want to insert a full size vibrator. Beginners often choose this and they are also a fun choice for couples to use during foreplay. One of the most playful choices is shown in the video, it's called Finger Play. For more information on this creative and unique style of G spot toy, check out my guide on finger sex toys.

Other styles include probes that insert into the vagina, but they are shallow and do not go as deep as a regular dildo. Women with shallow vaginas choose this because it's less invasive.

I like it when couples play with G spot toys together before sexual intercourse, it really helps the body relax and prepare for lovemaking. It's also a highly recommended toy for seniors because they are more gentle and typically have a small girth compared to anything else.

Excellent foreplay aid for couples.
Popular choice for beginners.
The smallest of all G Spot vibrators.

G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

An absolute marriage made in heaven! The combination of G Spot Rabbit Vibrator produces the highest orgasm potential out of any other sex toy combo. If you're unfamiliar with the rabbit style vibrator, learn how a rabbit vibrator works first then you can understand why matching clit vibration with internal vibration is the pinnacle of female sexual pleasure.

We honestly don't have too many G spot rabbits, there are not that many available on the market these days (which I think is really unfortunate) but the one that we do have is one of my all time favorite vibrators for women, it is shown here in the video and is called the Advanced Rabbit Vibrator. If you're seeking serious pleasure and powerful stimulation, you must buy this one. Trust me, it will be all you ever need!

Powerful orgasm potential.
One of the largest Gspot vibrator types.
Combines intense rabbit clitoral stimulation.

G Spot Clit Vibrators

Now here's a style that is very common, unlike the rabbit blend, a Gspot vibrator with a clit stimulator is a common style that many women are familiar with. No surprise to hear these are one of the top rated vibrator designs for women.

Some are super complex with silicone shafts, rotating heads, waterproof motors, dual motors and spinning beads. Some are small, others are big, the size range is quite impressive too.

Sure features are nice, but they are not always necessary. You can still get a good one for cheap. It's a massively diverse realm of female adult toys. I think it's also an extremely important style for ladies because as stated previously, combining internal AND external stimulation (especially vibration) is a ticket to unrelenting orgasms.

Multiple orgasms even, paving the way for squirting (also known as female ejaculation). I find it more possible to squirt with a G spot clit vibrator that with any other kind of sex toy. The Dual G Kiss is my preferred recommendation because it's cheap but yet super powerful. The wide thumb is excellent at locating the G spot for you while the thick spiky clitoral extension has a neat higher pitch tingle that provides the perfect sensual rush.

Vast range of available sizes from small to large.
Combines internal & external stimulation.
Modern features such as rechargeable motors & rotating heads.

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Mayla Green

Mayla has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required!

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