Best Types of Sex Toys for Gay Couples
Sex toys aren't inherently straight or gay. Neither are sex acts. That said, people with the same sexual orientation tend to share similar tastes.
For example, anal trainers are highly associated with gay sex. So is a prostate massager. Gay couples are also more likely to buy a sex toy that is based on or endorsed by a male porn star.
We took all of these things into consideration as we built this list of the best types of sex toys for gay partners. We looked at factors such as aesthetic appeal, functionality, and quality. We also took care to find toys that gay men in our office were keen to highly recommend.
Finally, we took it a bit further, and decided to include products that celebrate kinks and different levels of experience. Keep reading to discover the different kinds of sex toys most commonly purchased by gay couples.
Cock Rings
A good cock ring is in the sex toy collection of many gay men. Cock rings are a simple, but multipurpose gay sex toys. Rings for the penis help guys maintain erections, and prevent them from climaxing too quickly.
Even better, once the cock ring has been released, the resulting orgasm can be absolutely mind blowing. It's easy to see why these are widely regarded as some of the best gay sex toys.
Clincher Adjustable Cock Ring
One popular style of cock ring somewhat resembles a bolo tie for your penis. This one is quite versatile, and simple to use that's why it tops our list of best cock rings for gay men. You simply slide on the clincher and adjust it.
It even works in two positions. The first is simple, just cinch the cock ring around the base of your penis. For something entirely different, slide it down even further, and loop it around your testicles. As you might imagine, this products is very popular among BDSM afficianados.
Beaded Steel Cock Ring Set
The best cock rings don't have to look fancy. These are made of a simple, silicone with metal beads spaced around the loop. In spite of this, they are remarkable sex toys. Discerning gay dudes love these. The Beaded Steel Cock Ring Set provides a firm grasp with lots of constriction, and very little stretch. Grab one of these, and a bit of lube. You won't regret adding this to your sex toy collection.
Dildos And Prostate Massagers
We could never write about sex toys or gay sex without mentioning dildos or prostate massagers. In fact, we're including a few of these in this list of best gay couples sex toys. First, these are exceptionally popular.
In fact, we think that nearly every man could use one of these in their collection as massaging prostate stimulation brings intense sexual pleasure. You might call these the quintessential gay sex toy.
Remote Prostate Cock Ring Massager
If you are looking for a prostate stimulator, this product is ideal. In fact, it provides firm, but really effective prostate and perineum massage. This best selling sex toy for gay men is worth every penny you might spend on it.
This powerful male sex toy is shaped perfectly for both internal and external pleasure. It also features vibration. Just what a prostate massager needs to take things to new levels. Check out the remote control for additional fun. Add the Remote Prostate Cock Ring Massager to your wish list, or simply treat yourself by adding it to your treasure chest of adult toys.
Twisted Glass Dildo
This is one of those dildos that many gay couples save for special occasions. That's a shame, because we think you should use the Twisted Glass Dildo as often as possible. Although, we have to admit, this crystal-like, solid glass dildo is a real show stopper.
Still, there's more to this than looks. Glass dildos are popular for good reason. They are solid, heavy, and easy to clean. They work well with oil, silicone, and water based lubes. This one has an insertable length of 5.5 inches. That's big enough to be pleasurable, but safe for those who are new to anal sex.
Mack Inflatable Dildo
An inflatable dildo is a unique anal toy for sure. If you are a gay man who enjoys using large objects, but hates the discomfort of insertion, we highly recommend the Mack Inflatable Dildo. It goes in at 1.5 inches in diameter, but can be inflated up to 3 inches once it's insertable.
This big butt dildo for men is also boasts a six inch insertable length. All you have to do is grab some water based lube, and make sure you are ready for an intense experience.
There are other great features as well. This combination butt plug and dildo is easy to clean. In addition to the inflating feature, it's also got a fabulous remote control vibrator.
The Wall Banger
What if you could combine intense vibrating action, and a suction cup for hands free action? What if you could enjoy all of these in your shower? If this sounds like the perfect time for you, the Wall Banger should be on your list of must-have anal dildos.
This toy has it all. The suction cup is powerful enough for hard and fast, hands free action. It's also exceptionally easy to use. Just stick it on the wall, and lube up. Insertion is quite easy, and your prostate will thank you! Just check out the tapered shape!
If you want a toy that is easy to clean, this one's for you. The body-safe modern jelly material is highly washable. This is one of our top selling toys, and you will understand why the first time you use it.
Butt Plugs And Anal Trainers
A good butt plug is the pinnacle of gay sex toys. No collection is complete without one. We could not complete this list without exploring a variety of these toys. To make sure the list is complete, we made sure to consider the needs of experienced gay guys who love having a large plug in their butt.
At the other extreme, we wanted to celebrate anal trainers and anal starter kits for men that assist in learning to enjoy the best gay sex ever gradually training the anus to be used to anal sex, both for comfort and safety.
Firefly Prostate Massager
This is a great, anal sex toy for men who enjoy anal action, but also want products that are aesthetically pleasing. The Firefly Prostate Massager has a unique shape along with a pleasing texture. It also comes in two sizes.
The small size is a cute little butt plug that is a great prostate stimulator, but so gentle that it is best for the anal newbie. The large is definitely bigger but not intimidating at all. It has a pleasing insertable length of 4.5 inches. Both sizes have a comfortable base that allow for hands free enjoyment.
Big Large Bum Plug
Are experienced and daring enough to take on a challenge? The Big Large Bum Plug is on our list of best sex toys with your needs in mind. Doc Johnson has truly created one of the best gay sex toys on the market, especially if size is your thing.
Take a look at the stats on this big boy! It's made of a fabulous, body safe, phthalate free silicone that's so easy to clean. The filling is a great gel material. Now the exciting part. It is 2.25 inches at the widest point. This butt plug looks simple, but it makes up for that in the experience it provides.
The advanced butt plug is an amazing toy for masturbation, or for versatile tops. Insert the plug, and enjoy a mind blowing orgasm during a solo session, or with a partner. You will agree that this deserves a top place in any collection of butt toys.
Ripple Prostate Butt Plug Set
So, how do you learn to play with those huge sex toys? Start with a great, Ripple Prostate Butt Plug Set The idea behind these is simple, yet brilliant. You start with the smallest toy in order to become accustomed to anal play.
Next, you or your partner upgrades to one of the larger toys in the anal trainer kit. By doing this in a low key, low pressure scenario, you can enjoy some of the best gay experiences, as you build up the size that you are able to accommodate.
Make sure you bring along some water based lubricant for your anal training sessions. They will ensure that things go very smoothly. Finally, we think you will love this high quality toy if you enjoy power exchange or other BDSM kinks.
Push your limits and your partner's with this great, anal trainer kit. It has three probes, small, medium, and large. All are nice and flexible, and make a great prostate massager without being too stiff or hard.
Admiral Male Anal Trainer Kit
Yes, this is the Admiral Male Anal Trainer Kit! This toy is considered to be a top choice among so many men who are looking for a high quality trainer to improve their ability to bottom. Admiral is known for making some of the best sex toys, and this one is great for helping you learn to take a partner's cock with ease.
The Admiral anal trainer kit comes with three, traditional, bullet style toys. Each one is just larger than the next. When you build up to the largest plug, you are quite ready to take on six inches of length and 1.5 inches of girth.
Just add some water based lube to make the product easier to use. This is a highly sought after anal plug both for quality, and for branding.
Restraints And Floggers
Do you walk on the kinkier side of life? Are you turned on by the thought of anonymous sex, a partner tying you up and spanking you, or giving a remote control to your 'master' so they may control your pleasure or pain?
Maybe it's time to get past any holdups you have, and start pleasing your top with some great floggers, restraints, and other items they can use on you.
Do you prefer to be the one in control? If you are a top in more ways than one, you will find some great toys here. Get busy and check out these well made kink toys and accessories to enjoy with a partner or anonymous stranger.
Thigh And Wrist Cuffs
The Thigh And Wrist Cuffs don't seem very intimidating at first. They are quite easy to use. Simply strap the larger cuffs around the thighs, and attach each one to the wrists. Nothing too difficult, right?
Now, imagine being restrained like that , face down waiting for your partner to penetrate you with his penis or a toy. You quickly realize that you are at his mercy. You won't get out of this (not that you really want to).
If you like bondage, but want to avoid complicated straps and ropes, this is the best option for you. It provides firm restraint, but isn't too intimidating. Pair this with a great dildo or prostate massager for a really amazing session.
Fantasy Rubber Whip
Every toy collection should contain at least one go-to toy for the 'discipline' side of bondage and discipline. If you are interested in a versatile flogger, your best bet is the Fantasy Rubber Whip. This spanker has a wrist strap for security, and comfortable grip for those long BDSM sessions.
Into pain, and the idea of luscious red marks across your partner's ass and thighs, maybe your own? Use this toy with great intensity, and you will see how well this rubber whip works. If you prefer something a bit gentler, this makes a great, erotic tickler.
Try running it gently over his cock and balls, for some of the best foreplay the two of you have ever experienced.
Silk Rope
There aren't too many guys who have mastered the art of bondage. If you are one of them, you will be better able to connect with men who can't wait to be tied up and dominated. Not convinced? Just picture a hot guy, ass in the air, beautifully bound, and ready for play time.
It takes a bit of time to learn to use a Silk Rope correctly, but it is well worth it. Once you're an expert at using these soft, but impressively strong ropes, you're going to attract men from all over.
Beginner's Ball Gag
Sometimes, the sexiest thing is listening to your partner's screams of pleasure and pain. But, there's also something oh so sexy about giving your partner the gift of pleasure or pain while they whimper and moan softly. It's easy to enjoy this experience with the Beginner's Ball Gag.
We love that this gag has a design that is easy to use, and wear. It's a good starting ball gag that embraces the pleasure of this practice with none of the discomfort or danger of gagging that comes with larger toys. You will get hours of enjoyment from this fetish playtoy.
Accessories And Supplies
You've invested a significant chunk of change in your adult toy collection. Now, you need some great accessories and supplies. Choose these to ensure that every toy you own is kept clean, durable, and in working order. These will also help you enjoy using your sex toys even more.
Anal Douche
Anyone who is experienced with ass play knows that a clean working area is absolutely necessary. A top quality anal douche ensures that you're always going to feel confident about being penetrated with a toy or cock.
We recommend an anal cleansing kit. Simply dip the cleaner tip into a basin with warm water, replace the tip, and douche.
Use a bit of lube to ensure the process feels comfortable. Some men even use this product for pleasure as they enjoy the sensation of water hitting their prostate.
Lube
Let's talk about lube. If you are simply walking into the store and buying the first thing you find at the lowest price, you are cheating yourself. There are so many good quality options out there. It is possible to find a lube that was almost perfectly made for your pleasure. Make sure your collection includes the following:
- A basic water based lube.
- A silicone lube for your silicone dildo or other toys.
- A flavored lube for kinky fun.
- A desensitizing lube for comfort and longer lasting sex, and enjoying toys of larger size.
Cleaners
Let's be honest, men who enjoy ass play must pay close attention to cleanliness and safe storage options. Every time you use a dildo or other toy, you must use the appropriate cleaner so that it's sanitary and ready for the next time.
Some toys do well with a simple wash with a soft cloth, and soapy water. Others require something a bit more specialized. Something like the foaming dildo cleaner is a great, all purpose solution for keeping everything clean.
It's suitable for all materials, so use it on everything from your vibrating anal beads to your silicone dildo. Once you have cleaned everything, give it a good dusting with Doc Johnson Refresh Powder. This will keep your items in great condition for years to come.
