Discover the Best Sex Toys for Gay Men in 2025
Last Updated on November 25, 2025
Right, guys, let's talk about sex toy pleasure! The straight sex toy market always seems to hog most of the limelight, and we feel sex toys for gay men deserve more attention. So, through this rather incredible guide, we are going to take a look at the best sex toys for gay men and reveal a few must-have gems.
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It's hard to believe that sex toys were once a taboo subject, and while they were not quite whispered about in the corners of dimly lit bars, they were something of a risqué subject at one point. But not anymore!
In this new and unashamed age of shared erotic pleasure, sex toys for gay couples are not just accessories - they are an essential part of the experience. Use them wisely, and you will venture into a whole new world of sensual ecstasy. You might even wonder how you ever managed without them.
Explore our toys for him to discover a myriad of options for men looking to spice up the sex life and improve solo pleasure. There are so many categories to explore, but if you'd like us to recommend a few good products, we hand-picked some of the best sex toys for gay men and highlighted them below.
Here's our top picks for your pleasure:
Prostate Massagers
Our prostate massager collection features products for beginners to advanced users. Prostate toys provide a unique kind of joy, specifically engineered to stimulate the key pleasure point of our prostate gland - an often underused and overlooked pleasure point.
If you have never truly experimented with prostate pleasure before, you are missing out. With various designs available, each prostate massager offers unique gratification, enhancing the sexual experience through different sizes, diameters, and textures. They are, quite frankly, one of the best sex toys for men available.
Curved Rechargeable Prostate Massager
Curved Rechargeable Prostate Massager is our favorite P-spot vibrator for the average guy. The curved base can be tucked away discreetly and you can wear it like a butt plug all day for constant prostate stimulation.
Key Features:
- Pliable enough to be comfortable during insertion & removal
- USB rechargeable with incredibly powerful vibration
- 3 speeds & 7 vibrating modes of slow and quick pulse
- Waterproof & submersible for fun in the shower or tub
Specifications:
| Total Length | 4 1/4 inches |
| Insertable Length | 3 1/2 inches |
| Diameter | 3/4 – 1 inch |
| Material | Silicone |
2) Glass Butt Plugs
As quite a pretty-looking object, glass butt plugs combine the basic functionality of erotic fun with a certain level of visual appeal. They just look nice. Their smooth, firm texture offers a different feel compared to more conventional materials. Glass butt plugs are also perfect for guys who enjoy temperature play.
One quite huge bonus with glass anal toys is the hygienic nature of their construction (with glass being such an easy material to clean), which adds to their general appeal while remaining body-safe. View the full range of glass toys including, prostate massagers, beaded probes and dildos for men.
Galileo Glass Plug
Galileo Glass Plug is best for experiencing a shallow stretch. The short stature makes it simple to stick all the way in to enjoy the finest that glass anal toys have to offer, pressure directly inside the sphincter for intense sensations.
Key Features:
- Good choice to use during solo masturbation sessions
- Rounded base keeps it securely in place
- Hand-blown glass looks visually appealing
- Seamless Pyrex glass feels weighted and heavy
Specifications:
| Total Length | 3 3/4 inches |
| Insertable Length | 3 1/2 inches |
| Diameter | 1 1/2 inches, 1 inch across the stem |
| Material | Glass |
3) Anal Training Kits
Anal training kits are perfect for increasing your experience level in a controlled methodical way. They are ideal for men who are new to anal play. With different plugs of increasing size, they allow for a comfortable and gradual introduction to anal pleasure. Explore items that focus on gradual exploration designed for guys in the early stages of experimentation.
The great thing about anal trainer kits is that they transform the learning process into a more enjoyable journey, helping guys familiarize themselves with various sensations at a steady, comfortable pace.
Admiral Anal Trainer Kit
Admiral Anal Trainer Kit includes a set of three royal blue silicone butt plugs. They are thick and sturdy with a dildo-like length to reach deep into the darkness satisfying your sexual desires.
Key Features:
- Includes all 3 sizes of butt plugs in the set
- Thick and stiff silicone for maximum anal stimulation
- Similar to the colt anal trainer set, but made of silicone
- Goes deep without getting too wide
Specifications:
| Total Length | 4” | 4 1/4” | 5” |
| Insertable Length | 3 3/4” | 4” | 4 3/4” |
| Diameter | 1” | 1 1/4” | 1 1/2” |
| Material | Silicone |
4) Dildos for Men
Next, the versatile dildo for men is perfect for mutual enjoyment. Not just for solo play, partners are enjoying experimenting with male dildos of all shapes & sizes. Choosing one with a curved tip assures prostate stimulation, but some guys enjoy the in & out motion that mimics anal sex, so they're a good toy for solo play too.
Discover deeper-play options in our category of male-oriented dildos consisting of various anal dildos suitable for all experience levels from the guy who has just come out of the closet and curious what anal penetration feels like to the seasoned gay man who loves maximum stretching for intense pleasure.
Mini Curved P-Spot Dildo
Mini Curved P-Spot Dildo has a steeply curved shaft that helps you locate the prostate gland instantly upon penetration. It can be inserted as shallow or as far as you like so as your experience level increases, your pleasure increases too.
Key Features:
- One of the smallest realistic dildos for men
- Rigid enough for easy anal penetration
- Extra large suction cup base is harness compatible
- Available in Vanilla (White) or Caramel (Brown) color options
Specifications:
| Total Length | 5 inches |
| Insertable Length | 3 1/2 inches |
| Diameter | 3/4 inch across the tip, 1 inch mid-shaft |
| Material | PVC - Polyvinyl Chloride |
5) Penis Vibrators
Penis vibrators are a thrilling, highly sensual must-have in your collection of gay men's toys, definitely an upgrade to pleasure compared to non-vibrating toys. Our next-level options provide intense stimulation via vibration on the penis.
Whether it’s through a vibrating masturbator sleeve (that focuses on the penis head) or a ring vibrator (that enhances scrotal stimulation), the massive selection of penis vibrators will appeal to all comers… no pun intended!
Thrusting Automatic Masturbator
Thrusting Automatic Masturbator has a really unique design: A hand-held wand with a thrusting mechanism inside the circular opening thrusts a squishy soft sleeve back and forth over your dick, essentially jerking off for you.
Key Features:
- Sleeve moves up and down along the 2.75 inch tunnel
- The opening will fit a penis 2 inches wide and under
- Extra soft and bumpy sleeve for comfortable hands free masturbation
- 150 minutes of charging time for 60 minutes of use
Specifications:
| Total Length | 7 inches |
| Cup Depth | 2 3/4 inches |
| Diameter | The interior ring is 2 inches across |
| Material | TPR - Thermoplastic Rubber sleeve, Plastic wand |
6) Cock Rings
Another classic of the ages, cock rings are designed to enhance endurance and sensation by wearing around the base of the penis, improving stamina while intensifying erections and orgasms by restricting blood flow. Again, simple but genius.
Browse the full selection to find cock rings in various materials and styles. Especially popular for gay men are the vibrating pleasure-enhancing options, cock ring vibrators were originally designed for partnered sex but they also make excellent masturbation aids because the vibrator stimulates your balls hands-free as you stroke your dick.
Two-O Double Vibrating Ring
Two-O Double Vibrating Ring is capable of stretching up to 4 times its resting diameter to make sure it fits any size penis. Silent vibration discreetly enhances your pleasure during masturbation and sex. This is one of the best first timer sex toys for men because it's discreet, inexpensive and easy to use.
Key Features:
- Textured ticklers on top of the vibrator for added sensations
- The cheapest vibrating ring
- The original Screaming O toy for couples
- Batteries are not replaceable, but have 40 minutes of run time
Specifications:
| Interior Ring Diameter | 1 1/4 inches, can stretch up to 4 inches |
| Vibrator Length | 1 1/8 inches |
| Batteries | 4 cells, included & installed |
| Material | Silicone |
7) Masturbators
Masturbators are used for both solo pleasure and foreplay with your partner. Regardless of how you use it, orgasms feel better and stronger. Masturbation toys are useful for guys of all sexual orientations and relationship statuses because as we all know, bare-knuckling it gets boring real quickly – stoker toys with ribbed tunnels and unique textures feel great.
Have a look at our masturbator selection for some exciting products to improve pleasure. Popular options include suction masturbators, automatic blowjob toys and basic stroker sleeves, just to name a few varieties.
Apollo Masturbation Sleeve
Apollo Masturbation Sleeve is the most heavily ribbed stroker sex toy ever seen so far. The extra soft and flexible structure feels like silky waves caressing all sides of your erection. It's a popular choice for gay guys too because it doesn't look like a vagina.
Key Features:
- Narrows slightly near the end for tightening over the penis head
- Closed ended masturbator sleeve prevents spills on your floor
- Mild sucking sensation gradually builds on the tip of the penis
- Extra stretchy opening easily fits guys with a large dick
Specifications:
| Total Length | 5 inches |
| Diameter | 2 inches |
| Material | TPE - Thermoplastic Elastomer |
8) Remote Control Toys
Remote control anal toys bring an exciting twist to solo and partner play. These clever little gay men's toys are perfect for anyone who relishes a spontaneous thrill, giving different levels of intensity and patterns.
In a more subdued, calming, sensual mood? Keep it dialed down low, sit back, and relax. If you're feeling more adventurous, well, then crank it up! The fact that your partner controls the intensity provides intense a physical and psychological benefit to the sex life, some couples even use them for public play.
Many guys use them privately, but they can also add an extra spark to your relationship. Either way, our remote control sex toys are a thrilling, fun addition to our collection… Discreet yet powerful sensations, guaranteed!
Bang Remote Vibrating Anal Beads
Bang Remote Vibrating Anal Beads have about a 20 foot range making it perfect for kinky couples anal play. The silky silicone is perfectly pliable while the anchor shaped base makes a great handle, so let your lover take hold and sample some of life's kinkier pleasures together.
Key Features:
- Remote control not required to operate the vibrator
- 4 speeds & 7 vibrating patterns of thumping, oscillating and pulsing
- Vibration originates from the base and spreads gradually upwards
- Silky silicone is perfectly pliable but sturdy enough to feel noticeable
Specifications:
| Total Length | 8 inches |
| Insertable Length | 6 1/2 inches |
| Diameter | Ranges between 1/2 – 1 1/8 inches |
| Material | Silicone anal beads, Plastic vibrator |
9) Anal Cleaners
Rounding things up with a more practical suggestion, and while not one of the more exciting gay men's sex toys, an anal douche is a must-have for most bedrooms. Designed for cleanliness and general confidence in anal play, they help in preparing for a more comfortable and hygienic experience.
Again, they are more of a practical addition to this list of best sex toys for men, but if you prioritize preparation and comfort, you need to think about keeping one nearby.
Embrace and enjoy!
From the sleek and sophisticated to the more daring, bold, and adventurous, we've got every taste and fantasy covered on this list. One or two might be a little ‘out there,’ but variety is as limitless as our imaginations, right?
And remember, don't ever be afraid to explore, experiment, and embrace your deepest, most funky desires! Traditional sex will always be a fantastic experience, but if you allow your imagination to wander and get a little wild with some gay couple's anal sex toys, you can add a whole new level of fun to the bedroom.
At The Adult Toy Shop, we have everything you could want to liven things up in the bedroom, so don't forget to head over and check out our full range of gay men’s toys.
Now go have some fun!
This guide is just a sampling of the various types of male sex toys that gay men enjoy, but in our complete overview, there are more varieties to look through, because after all, guys of all sexual orientations enjoy penis toys for pleasure, cock rings for stamina and prostate stimulators for intense orgasms (just to name a few). Check it out!
