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Top 8 Best Sex Toys for Couples in 2023

Top 8 Best Sex Toys for Couples in 2023

Newsflash, people. Sex is amazing fun. But the thing is, if you want to inject a little extra sauce into your bedroom as a couple and make it real fun, you can ramp things up quite a bit by introducing a third party into the equation.

Nope, not that sort of third party - unless a threesome floats your boat, of course - but rather a third party of the rubber, plastic, silicon, or jelly variety. For those who haven't figured it out yet (and let's be honest, the title is a pretty big clue), we are, of course, talking about a foray into the delectably fun world of sex toys.

Everyone Is Doing It, You Know...

Well, maybe not quite everyone, but sex toys for couples is way more of a thing than you might realize. For those who have already visited a sex toy store to buy sex toys, you don't need us to sell you the benefits because you will already know that sex toys are truly awesome and slightly addictive.

To use a quite wild analogy, employing the use of sex toys into your bedroom antics is almost like getting upgraded from coach to business class on a long-haul flight: as soon as you make that leap and venture into this new exciting world, you will never want to go back.

You might even wonder how on earth you managed to enjoy sex without them, and in that sense, sex toys for couples have become quite a common thing.

More common than you might imagine. Take a look up and down your neighborhood street - the chances are stacked that a fair few people of all ages, genders, and sexual persuasion use sex toys to enhance their bedroom fun (or kitchen fun, hallway fun, dining table fun).

Trust us - we have thousands of customers from all over the world, and we can testify to one simple fact: people are a lot more adventurous and kinky than you might imagine, and sex toys for couples sell in pretty big numbers.

So much so, in fact, that the use of sex toys for couples in this day and age might only barely be described as kinky or adventurous. It is such a common thing that it has become almost normal. But even with the widespread acceptance of sex toys as a normal thing, it remains jolly good fun, and we can't recommend it enough.

If you haven't tried sex toys for couples, you should. We mean it. Introducing this new element into your sex adventures not only leads to more intimate pleasure and intense climaxes (for both parties, obviously) but will serve your bond as a couple very well through this additional layer of connection.

Wide Range Of Choice

The thing is, where on earth do you start? If this is a new addition to your sex routine, the wide range of choices and sheer levels of innovation can be somewhat baffling and maybe even slightly intimidating.

The most basic sex toys for couples start with your regular dildos and vibrator, but you can get very experimental in the area of sex toys, with a vast array of products available for straight and gay couples, such as rainbow sex toys and pride dildos.

At the heart of most sex toys is the angle of penetrative sex and oral sex, but the options do not end there. Couples' sex toys can involve anal play or anal stimulation, cock rings are quite common, and the very best couples' sex toys will result in extra clitoral stimulation, g spot stimulation, through partnered sex, but the fun isn't always limited to partnered sex.

Solo play becomes a factor also, with something like a vibrating cock ring, for example. Strap-ons are a common choice, and so is the good old trusted rabbit vibrator. Learn how to use sex toys in my detailed sex toy video tutorials covering step by step instructions on various types of dildos & vibrators for couples.

Through this post, we hope to cut through the clutter and present you with a nice, well-rounded selection of the very best sex toys for couples of all experience levels, aiming to improve the sex lives of even the most bubbly and exuberant couples.

Let's get to it, starting with an absolute classic:

1) Couples Vibrators

A couples massager is a curved "U"-shaped dildo or vibrator that you wear whilst having sex, designed to stimulate both inwardly and externally, increasing the likelihood of climax for both parties.

These massagers are quite effective as a couple's sex toy because both parties are stimulated during sex. The massager's larger end sits on the labia while the smaller end is placed inside the vagina as a clitoral stimulator, sending exhilarating vibrations for clitoral stimulation.

From the female perspective, the vibrator for couples feels fantastic when pressed against the g-spot and is a reliable method for instant gratification. From the guy's perspective, the movements together will stimulate the penis during sex.

This is an incredibly fun device that will serve both parties very well, vibrating against the labia, clitoris, and penis all at the same time.

Couples vibrators (to use another term for this popular device) are usually made of flexible and pliable medical-grade silicone but should always be used with a good water-based lubricant beforehand to make sure both parties are comfortable.

The Satisfyer Double Plus Couples Vibrator is our preferred couples vibrator of choice - this new advanced model is even better than its predecessor because it has both internal and external motors, while the sleek and low profile “U” shaped vibrator slides into the vagina with ease, just over the pubic bone.

Two quiet motors are discretely fitted inside the Satisfyer double plus companion vibrator. The first motor for external/clitoral vibration is situated close to the tip of the vaginal probe, while the second is beneath the opposite tip.

For couples wishing to spice up their sex life with something wholly original, this is an intriguing, hands-free double vibrator for people of all experiences.

2) Finger Vibrators

A finger vibrator is a small, handheld sex toy that is designed to be worn on one or more fingers but works great for couples' sex. They usually come in a wide range of shapes, sizes, and materials.

The majority of finger vibrators for sale are battery-operated and can fit in the palm of your hand. When engaging in solo or shared sexual activity, the gadget is utilized to stimulate the clitoris, vulva, or other erogenous zones.

There are many advantages to using a finger vibrator for couples' fun. With near-perfect clitoral stimulation, the accuracy it provides is one of its main benefits, while couples have complete control over the strength and placement of the stimulation because the vibrator is worn on the finger.

This enables more concentrated and targeted sensations for a clitoral vibe, which may result in orgasms that are more potent.

Their adaptability is also an additional benefit because finger vibrators are a great addition to any sex toy collection for solitary play, foreplay, or mutual intercourse. They can also be applied to any area of the body, such as the nipples or the perineum, that is susceptible to vibration.

With its luxurious velvety feel, the silicone finger vibrator from 50 Shades of Grey is one of the most elegant and high-quality products we have ever stocked - absolute luxury in a small, quiet, yet potent form and is a great starter sex toy for couples!

3) Spice It Up! Game For Couples

Taking a slight detour from traditional sex toys for a moment, we wanted to introduce something a little different to this list in the form of a game that we think is great fun, incredibly kinky, and really helps towards mutual pleasure through joint 'daring' participation.

We deliberate whether to include an actual game on this list - owing to the fact it isn't a sex toy per se - but it really depends on how you define 'toy' really. We see this as a kinky accessory designed to introduce a little adventure into the bedroom, and when you think about it, that is all a sex toy really is, isn't it?

This awesome game is so much fun to play and is packed full of tantalizing ideas and scenarios to explore with your partner! Adult games and sex coupons are playful, inexpensive and inventive erotic accessories for lovers perfect to spice up the sex life on the cheap.

The game comes in the form of a deck of flashcards, making it super easy to carry with you wherever you go. Slip a card into your partner's pocket or lunch box to tease them with sexy ideas all day long, then come together for an evening of intimate exploration.

With 125 different scenarios, this game has something for everyone - from fun role-playing ideas to new places to try having sex. And while the scenarios are moderately kinky, they're still accessible for even the most vanilla of couples, making it the perfect way to dip your toes into the world of sexual exploration.

So why not grab a couple of glasses of wine, snuggle up with your partner, and get ready for a night of intimate fun? You never know what new heights your love life could reach with the help of this amazing game. Enjoy!

4) Strap On Vibrators

Taking it up a level now, nothing quite beats a strap-on dildo as a sex toy for couples, and while this type of thing may seem a little boundary-pushing, the strap-on dildo has been a mainstay for couples' sex toys for quite some time.

You might even be surprised to know that the strap-on dildo is one of our biggest-selling products for couples' sex fun.

Why are strapon dildos so popular? Mostly because this versatile penetrative sex toy can be worn by either partner, making it a great way to explore new sexual positions and sensations together.

Whether you're looking to experiment with role-playing or simply want to add some extra excitement to your bedroom antics, a strap-on vibrator is sure to do the trick.

Whether it is a little anal play you are looking for or deeper penetration for vaginal sex, strapons tick all of the right boxes for both heterosexual and homosexual play.

Strapons can perform as clitoral stimulation or a prostate massager, serving both parties very well in the heat of the moment, leading to more intense orgasms and heightened pleasure for everyone involved.

And don't worry - a strap-on vibrator doesn't have to be intimidating or too serious. In fact, it can be a fun and playful way to explore your sexuality with your partner. You can experiment with different sizes and shapes of the toy, try out different positions and angles, and even incorporate other toys or accessories into your play.

If you are hesitant about exploring this kind of thing, you should give it a try and push those boundaries! The strap-on is one of those sex toys that rarely disappoint and satisfies both partners incredibly well. It can get kinky and playful, like the thigh strapon dildo that straps onto the leg while the partner bounces up and down on the dildo for hot and heavy face to face action sex play.

Whether you're a seasoned pro or a newbie to the world of sex toys, this robust but very light strap-on by Sex & Mischief is a great way to explore new sexual experiences and deepen your intimacy with your partner. Get ready for a wild ride!

5) Two Finger Sex Toys

Designed to be worn on two fingers, offering a unique way to stimulate your partner or yourself during sex, double-finger sex toys (also known as two-finger sex toys) can be a great addition to your sex play with your partner.

These clitoris toys are designed to be worn on two fingers, offering a unique way to stimulate your partner or yourself during sex.

The additional stimulation that two-finger sex toys offer is among their greatest advantages with this fun product, stimulating more of the body and creating new sensations in the bedroom by making two points of contact.

They're excellent for experimenting with novel, previously impractical postures, and angles - it's surprising just how many nooks and crannies you can find with a small, agile device like this.

Double-finger sex toys usually come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, colors, and textures, from vibrating bullets to textured sleeves, and with them being so easy to use and clean, they are a nice low-maintenance addition to your sex life as a couple.

So if you're looking for a way to ramp up your bedroom routine without being too 'out there,' this might be the sex toy for you and your partner. You might be surprised at how such a small, simple thing can bring so much pleasure and excitement to your sex life.

Our small and nimble two-finger toy will make a great addition to your collection of couples' sex toys and makes a great jumping-off point for those who are new to the world of sex toys!

Simply insert your fingers into the vagina for G-spot stimulation, and while you're moving your fingers in the “come here” motion, the palm of your hand will naturally press the vibrator against the clit. Simple, fun, and great for couples!

6) Double Ended Dildo

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Another absolute classic for you now, and a sure-fire hit for couples, is the reliable and impossible-to-fail double-ended dildo.

The great thing about double-ended dildos is that they appeal to all sexes and all persuasions - both homosexual or heterosexual couples can have a great time with the double-ender.

The idea with the double-ended (quite obviously) is for each end of the dildo to slide neatly into the orifice of each partner. That can be either anal-anal or anal-vagina - or vagina-vagina, depending on your relationship, of course.

Like any other sex toy, the double ender has its own unique pros and cons. One of the main advantages of the double-ended dildo is its versatility.

As already mentioned, it can be used by both partners at the same time unlike other dildo sex toys, making it an ideal toy for mutual penetration, but it can, of course, also be used alone for self-pleasure. The double ender also allows couples to experiment with different positions and sensations, adding variety to their sexual experience.

Another benefit of the double-ended dildo is that it can help partners build intimacy and trust. Sharing a double-ended dildo requires communication and trust - each partner is in full control of the force being deployed into the relevant orifice - this can lead to deeper emotional connections and a stronger bond, resulting in a more fulfilling sexual relationship all around.

However, there are one or two potential drawbacks to consider. One is that the size and shape of the toy may not be comfortable or pleasurable for both partners, as they do tend to arrive on the larger side.

It can also be difficult to find a comfortable position, and the toy may require a lot of coordination between partners. With practice, however, most couples usually get into the swing of things pretty quickly.

They can be quite difficult to maintain, although our most popular double-ended dildo is made of a glass tip and a nonporous rubber shaft, ensuring it is fairly easy to clean - especially with our unique dedicated sex toy cleaners.

Generally speaking, the double-ended dildo will be a great addition to a couple's sex life, but it is crucial to communicate openly with your partner and choose a toy that fits both of you well!

7) Chin Strap Dildo

Probably the most boundary-pushing sex toy on this list! We know this might be considered ultra-risque by some of our customers, but we also happen to know that this particular product is one of our hottest-selling products - and couples seem to love them as much as singles.

A chin strap dildo, also called a face dildo, chin strap-on, or chin strap-on, is a sex toy made for couples to discover new levels of gratification.

Chin strap dildos, in contrast to standard strap-ons, are worn around the head, allowing the body to move freely and try out various positions. Here are some justifications for why using a chin strap dildo can really enhance couple sex.

A chin strap dildo enables more intense and private sex experiences by taking things a little 'next level' and exploring those sexual lines. We probably shouldn't need to explain how they work - the image speaks for itself, really - but for those who are unsure, allow us to explain!

Basically, the idea here is for the wearer to penetrate their partner with the dildo while, at the same time, pleasuring their partner by using the tongue on the vagina (or, of course, anal, whichever floats your boat). This wacky design is surprisingly one of the best strapons for couples who already have a good stack of strapon dildos in their adult toy stash, but want something a bit more freaky to experiment with.

This might sound like one-way traffic, but actually, both partners can get a wild thrill out of this. Delivering gratification can be as much a turn-on as receiving it. This usually results in a singular and intense experience that provides quite kinky arousal without losing sight of intimacy.

The chin strap dildo also has the advantage of being hands-free, allowing the user to use their hands to feel and examine their partner's body. For people who have trouble utilizing their hands or arms or for those who wish to spice up their sex life, this can be extremely helpful.

Another quite common theme with chin strap dildos is exploring for role-playing and exchange of power, which can be quite a turn-on if done properly. The wearer of the dildo can take on a dominant or more submissive role, allowing for challenging boundaries and dynamics in the relationship.

With this astounding latex chin strap dildo, which is available in black and white, nothing seems impossible. Wear this accommodator dildo on your face to bring your nastiest dreams to life and spice up your sex life.

8) Blow Job Candy

We thought we should bring things down to a simmer with something a little more, uh, sweet! What better way to do that than with some of your very own oral sex candy?

Remember those crystallized candy bits you probably brought as a child? The really sweet and sour candies that would cause a snap-crackle and popping sound & feel in the mouth? Now imagine what that same sensation is like when used in intimate areas: Invigorating, interesting, exciting, and amazing good healthy fun for both partners!

BJ Blast Oral Sex Candy comes in a brightly colored, attractive foil pouch, perfect for slipping into anniversary cards or silly sex-themed gift baskets.

Now Go Have Fun!

Times are changing, folks! We now live in an age where sexual exploration is way more accepted, and with couples' toys becoming even more popular, more couples are embracing mutually beneficial toys for wild bedroom fun. Just remember to treat each other with respect, stay safe, and, most importantly - enjoy yourselves!

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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog.

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