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Anal Fleshlight Review

Anal Fleshlight Review

Who doesn't love some butt sex from time to time? There are a lot of people who do, but they don't always have someone to do it with. That's precisely where anal sex toys come into play and thanks to them, you don't need to have a partner to enjoy a little bit of butt play at all.

But with so many sex toys available on the market, how can you know which one is the best? The answer is you can't - however, you can learn whether the sex toy you were thinking of buying is a good choice or not really by reading reviews.

In this article, I will be reviewing the anal fleshlight - at the end, you will learn my thoughts and whether I would recommend it or not really. So, let's get started with this popular anal stroker masturbators:

What Is an Anal Fleshlight?

To put it simply, an anal fleshlight is an anal sex toy that is made to resemble a butthole, and that also has a texture imitating it. They are extremely popular not only for how realistic they look (and feel), but also because they are very easy to maintain.

Butt fleshlights come in different canal textures, which means that you can try a different one every once in a while and the sensation will not be the same as with the previous one. It is the quintessential anal pocket pussy for men.

Just like you can find male masturbators in the shape of many porn stars' vaginas, many of them also have molds of their buttholes - Riley Reid, Riley Steele, Brandi Love, Elsa Jean, Lisa Ann, Jenna Haze or Stoya are just a few examples of adult industry members who have fleshlights molded after them.

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Anal Fleshlight - The Texture

There are different anal fleshlights which have different internal textures. In some cases the internal texture is made of bumps, in others, ribs or tunnels, and so on. They truly come in the most wonderful variations, a hallmark feature of the very best masturbators for men for the ultimate jerk off session.

There is also the classic model, which doesn't contain any of those things - in this case, it's a simple, straight tunnel. Honestly, while it's nice to have some variety (and diversify your masturbation experience), sometimes all you need is a good old classic warm tunnel - nothing more.

Does It Feel like Real Anal Sex?

Let's now move on to what anyone considering buying this sex toy wants to know - does it actually feel like anal sex? The answer is kind of.

The hole is very tight, just like an anus would be and you orgasm not because of head stimulation, but because your whole penis is being stimulated.

The only thing is that it just doesn't provide that warm sensation you would feel during sex with a person - however, that can be easily fixed, as I explain below.


One of the most important things for many people when they're considering buying a sex toy is how discreet it is, be that in terms of noises or appearance. A well hidden mens toy is a better, but does the sex toy feel realistic?

Is It Loud?

If you live with someone, be it parents or roommates, then you probably want to know just how loud this sex toy is. Well, it's not really that loud when you're using it - however, you might notice some air pressure noises coming from it, especially when you have the end cap screwed on completely.

There are a few solutions to this - however, none of them are ideal I'd say. You can, for instance, loosen it a bit - however, then the end cap will make noise instead of your dick, which isn't of that much help when you want to be discreet. You can also take the end cap off completely - however, in that case you might have to deal with your jizz or lube pouring out from the toy when you orgasm.

So, as you can see, none of the solutions get rid of the problem completely - or at least not without creating another problem. However, if you live alone and have all the freedom you need when it comes to making noises, then this shouldn't affect your experience at all.

Is It Discreet Looking?

It's safe to say that if you're looking for a sex toy that you will be easily able to hide whenever someone is coming over, this one might not be for you. It's got quite a length on it, so unless you have a compartment or a drawer that fits it, you might want to reconsider this anus fleshlight sleeve.

Does It Ship Discreetly?

If you purchase the anal fleshlight from our site, you can be sure that it will be shipped in discreet packaging that won't give away the contents. Only you will be able to tell what is inside of it (unless you tell a friend, of course!).

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How to Use an Anal Fleshlight

There are certain things that you can do that will help you experience orgasms more intensely than usual when using a Fleshlight- they are very simple, but the sensation they provide is definitely worth trying. Here's what you can do.

Warm Up

Sure, the butt fleshlight does look like an actual anus, but the sensation won't work as well if you don't prepare it properly. Learn how to use a Fleshlight here with extra details and a full tutorial with instructions.

A good idea to warm up your anal fleshlight would be to separate the case and the sleeve and put the sleeve in a sink filled with hot water and let it sit for a few minutes.

You can relax yourself by taking a hot shower and playing your favorite bedroom playlists. You can also light up some nice scented candles - you won't enjoy the experience as much if you're stressed or if your muscles are tight.


Using the right lube can also heighten your experience and intensify your orgasms. Due to the material the fleshlights are made from, you should use water-based lube - other types of lubricants, oil and silicone ones can negatively impact your fleshlight and can even lead to damage.

How to Clean Your Anal Fleshlight

Cleaning your anal fleshlight is a little bit different than cleaning any other sex toys - Fleshlight storage is different too because of the material they are made of, you cannot just scrub it with soap and water. So, here is a short explanation on how you can clean your anal fleshlight:

  1. Remove the screw-caps from your anal fleshlight and separate the sleeve and the case.
  2. Rinse both the case and the screw-caps with warm water. Put them aside.
  3. Grab the anal orifice and rinse it under warm water too.
  4. Grab the sleeve and rinse both the interior and the exterior with warm water.
  5. Leave the fleshlight to dry - it needs at least 24 hours, and it needs to be placed in a room with adequate ventilation.

Of course, if you live alone you can easily leave it out in the open, on your bed, couch or somewhere else. But that's not always possible when you live with someone else so you might want to try, for example, hanging it in your wardrobe.

Anal Fleshlight - Frequently Asked Questions

Who can use an anal fleshlight?

There are no restrictions about who can use it - as long as you enjoy butt sex and/or want to improve your sexual performance in that department you are welcome to use it all you want. They are especially great for those who deal with premature ejaculation, as they help you build stamina.

How to store anal fleshlights?

Storage is crucial if you want your anal fleshlight to serve you for quite some time. The important thing is to keep it in a clean, dry and cool place - your drawer will do just fine.

What's more, the majority of anal fleshlights come in a packaging box that can also be used as storage space. If you don't have it, you can try using things you already have - maybe you have an unused shoebox somewhere? That would work great too.

How tight is the anal fleshlight?

It all depends on the anal fleshlight you purchase. However, generally speaking, Fleshlights are a lot tighter than regular male masturbators. The explanation is really easy - they're supposed to act as an anus and an anus is a lot tighter than a vagina.

You can find a variety of tightness options on the market, so, as I said, it all depends on the product you decide to buy.

Can You Make Your Own Anal Fleshlight?

Yes, you can definitely do a little DIY and make an anal fleshlight by yourself. It's especially helpful when you want the experience but don't want to (or can't) buy the product. Here are some of the easiest ways you can make a homemade sex toy:

  • towel fleshlight sleeve - grab a towel, fold it in half. Put a tube of toothpaste in a latex glove, and place it on one side of the towel (the end of the glove shouldn't be completely on the towel - a part of the cuff back should be hanging out). Roll the towel with the toothpaste inside.

    After rolling it once or twice, fold the edge of the glove's cuff back around the towel. Once the towel is completely rolled you can remove the toothpaste. To ensure that it won't fall apart, secure it with two rubber bands. And that's it!
  • sock male masturbator - grab two pairs of socks and place them next to each other. Fold each pair a little above the toes and place them in a way that the fold is underneath. Put a latex glove on top of one of the pairs with the cuff back sticking out.

    Put the second pair on it, so the glove is in the middle and wrap the cuff over the socks' ends. Take another pair of socks and place it around the center of your sock and glove sandwich. Adjust the tightness and tie the ends with a rubber band.
  • toilet paper - you could say that this is a budget version of an anal fleshlight. Grab a roll of toilet paper and remove the cardboard middle. Insert a condom or a latex glove in the middle and use a rubber band to keep it all together.
  • chips can - grab a chips can and a couple of sponges. Place the sponges around the walls of the can, in a way that there's still room for a latex glove. Place the glove between the sponges with a little bit of it hanging out. Stretch the part of the glove that is out and place it around the can's opening.

These are just a few ideas. There are a lot more, but I won't talk about them now - just keep in mind that when there’s a will, there's a way. You'd probably be surprised at how many things can be used as male masturbators.

Positions to Use Your Anal Fleshlight In

Anal Fleshlight Positions

Using an anal fleshlight doesn't have to be boring, no matter how long you have had it already or whatever other masturbators for men you tend to favor. There are plenty of positions in which you can use it, and I will share some of the best ones with you below.

  • on your back - lie on your back and place your anal sex toy on the glans of your dick. Play with it a little bit before sliding it further. Once you're all the way in, perform up and down movements over your whole length.
  • on your stomach - place your anal fleshlight on a pillow, and use it as if you were penetrating a partner during missionary sex.
  • without hands - place your fleshlight between the cushions of your sofa. You can also place it between the box spring and the bed. Now you can penetrate your anal sex toy without using your hands.
  • the shoe method - place your fleshlight in a shoe and place it on a hard level surface. Penetrate it as you would a partner during missionary.

The Bottom Line

So, is the anal fleshlight worth it as far as anal sex toys go? I would say so! Not only does it look super realistic, but it also has a realistic feel and works wonders in terms of intensifying your orgasms and helping you build up stamina. Plus, there are many positions in which you can use it, so that is definitely something to look forward to.

However, if you don't want to or simply can't buy one of the anal fleshlights, nothing is lost, because as I showed you - you can always make one yourself. Sure, it won't be the most realistic anal fleshlight you have ever seen, but it will do the job to some degree.

If you're in search of a new sex toy, don't hesitate to look at our extensive collection - we have something for everyone and, as I already mentioned, discreet packaging ensures no one will know what is inside the package aside from you. Sounds great, doesn't it?

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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog.

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