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Sex Toys for Beginners | 50 Best Beginner Adult Sex Toys

Sex Toys for Beginners | 50 Best Beginner Adult Sex Toys

If you're curious about trying adult toys for the first time, you're not alone! Sex toys for beginners is a highly popular search term, but unfortunately it's not a category often seen in online adult sex toy shops. Those who order from an adult store website are often faced with confusion because there are so many options to choose from, how to make sure the products chosen are good for first timers?

It takes a professional, (in this industry, known as “sexpert”) to create a good list of best beginner sex toys, but in my opinion, it's the personality type and individual situation that truly determines what is the very best sex toy for a beginner.

With that said, the following this not just a generic, hastily put together list of small sex toys. It is a series of discreet adult products that should be purchased together to create a customized pleasure kit based on your situation, age & gender.

My list of best sex toys for beginners consists of good selections for women, men and couples selected from the erotic novelties currently for sale. Gay, straight and lesbian couples can easily find a good adult toy they'll love too. It's easy to add more fun to your love life with exciting beginner sex toys, so let's begin!

Features Commonly Seen on Beginner Sex Toys:

One might ask how did I select the best adult toys to highlight? Why did one vibrator or dildo make the cut while others did not? Certain features are essential for a good beginner sex toy. The novelties in this list will share some or all of the following traits:

  • Simple operation
  • Small size
  • Cheap price
  • Discreet design

Sex Toys for Beginners – From “How” to “Wow”

You would think that using sex toys is self explanatory, but the reality is there are many secrets, hacks and techniques that boost pleasure and pave the way for stunningly strong orgasms.

Before you begin shopping online, take a moment and check out the library of sex toy tips and techniques, a complete reference manual to learn how to use your new acquisition and enjoy them to their fullest capability.

If you're brand new to this type of personal intimate stimulation, you're part of the skyrocketing trend of shoppers seeking ways to “entertain” themselves at home. Due to the Coronavirus pandemic currently sweeping the world, sex toy sales are up, big time.

There's never been a better time to create a list of best sex toys for beginners because we're seeing a surge of newbies and curious first timers browse our online adult shop looking to try vibrators & dildos for the first time. Couples are seeking erotic novelties to bring into the bedroom to enhance lovemaking pleasure.

Lubricant is the single most important accessory to enjoying your new adult toys. Always use a water based sex lube for toys that insert into the vagina. A slick, viscous lube eliminates friction and makes vaginal penetration comfortable. (Lube is not required for external clitoral toys.)

Top Picks for Women – Collections for Beginner Bliss

The following collections for females are divided into 4 categories. You'll see many different vibrators listed below, but to spare any confusion, learn what is a vibrator first before scanning the toys in the suggested columns. Check which scenario applies to you and purchase all 6 items together:

  1. I've never used a sex toy before.
  2. I am a senior, have a low libido or experience vaginal dryness.
  3. I am a virgin and/or want something for the clitoris only.
  4. I've used toys before, but am unfamiliar with what's new now.

1. I've never used a sex toy before:


2. I am a senior, have a low libido or experience vaginal dryness:


2. I am a virgin and/or want something for the clitoris only:


4. I've used toys before, but am unfamiliar with what's new now.


Fun for the Curious Couple – Perfect First Time Toys for 2

Couples buy sex toys for beginners for numerous reasons, so check the following scenarios to see which applies to your current situation and purchase all 6 items together:

  1. We've never used sex toys together before.
  2. She has vaginal dryness and we're seeking items to make intercourse enjoyable.
  3. Our sex life is good, but we'd like some new ideas to make it even better.
  4. Our sex life is repetitive and dull, we need to spice it up!

1. We've never used sex toys together before:


2. She has vaginal dryness and we're seeking items to make intercourse comfortable.


3. Our sex life is good, but we'd like some new ideas to make it even better:


4. Our sex life is repetitive and dull, we need to spice it up!


For Male First Timers – Orgasmic Enhancement for Him

Guys benefit from various types of adult products, it's not just the typical masturbator or pocket pussy that boosts his erotic satisfaction while jerking off. Male toys go beyond just masturbation tools.

In the suggestions below, you'll find penis rings, prostate toys and other accessories that guys commonly use. Perhaps you've never insert anything into your butt before, but don't shy away, unleashing the power of the prostate orgasm is intense. Don't knock it until you try it!

Pleasure Pack #1


Pleasure Pack #2


Additional Ideas for Beginners:

If you've been inspired by these selections but feel like you'd like to browse a little more before making a final decision, here are some categories filled with some of the best options perfectly suited to first timers:




Mayla Green

Mayla has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required!

View all articles by Mayla Green published exclusively on The Adult Toy Shop's sex blog.

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