How to Choose the Perfect Dildo Size for Maximum Pleasure
Despite being one of the oldest sex toys in the world (first traces can be dated as far as the Ice Age!), dildos continue to be a popular choice among those looking to spice up their sex life. And why shouldn't they?
Dildos are universal, meaning that anyone can use them, regardless of their gender, and thanks to the fact that they come in so many sizes, you can find one that will be just perfect for what you need it for. You can find a real lifelike lover in any size you desire, really!
But how exactly does the dildo sizing situation look like? And how do you measure the best dildo size for you? We'll talk about this and more in the article below.
Does Dildo Size Matter?
You might be wondering - "Why would I even need to think about the dildo size? Isn't it all the same?" There is a significant difference between large dildos and little dildos, not just the size but the density, weight, experience, cost and so much more.
The answer is definitely not! It's all about maximizing your pleasure - not everyone will enjoy a big dildo, just like they might not enjoy a dildo that is too small, which is why knowing what you're looking for in your new sex toy in regards to size is crucial to keep you satisfied.
How to Find the Best Dildo Size for You
In case you were wondering whether there is a way to measure yourself so that finding the perfect dildo becomes easier, the answer is yes - there is a way. Below, you will find a step-by-step guide on how to find the ideal dildo size.
Generally, there are two measurements that should interest you - the dildo's length and width. Only once you measure both of them will you be able to pick your ideal dildo.
Dildo Length
When it comes to the length, what you should be interested in is the insertable length rather than the total length.
If balls or a suction cup is included, the overall length takes them into consideration as well. Especially when it comes to measuring the size of suction cup dildos, the total length will often vary quite a bit compared to insertable length.
In order to find out the ideal length, you need to grab a vibrator, an old dildo, or another object that will work in a similar way - if you're opting for the very last solution, keep in mind that it should be rounded at the top. Also, make sure that you clean your chosen object properly before use.
You will be using the new dildo while aroused, so make sure to get yourself turned on, whether that be by yourself or with a bit of help from your partner. Some people think an 8 inch dildo is the best size. Others think a slim 7 inch dildo is the best size because it's more comfortable.
Once you reach the point when the object slides in easily, start inserting it into your vagina until you reach the furthest point, and mark where it ends. Remove the object, and measure the distance between its tip and the mark you made - this will be your ideal insertable length.
Dildo Width
Measuring your ideal dildo width will be the easiest with a partner. Ask them to insert their fingers into your vagina or anus until you reach your limit when it comes to enjoying it comfortably. Then, wrap a tape measure around their fingers - this will give you the dildo's circumference that will be best for you.
How to Measure for a Male Dildo
If you are a male, you might find that the sex toy you need is a bit smaller than what women typically choose. So, how do you find the right dildo size for yourself? Again, you might need some help.
Get on all fours and spread your legs - make sure that your anus, as well as your partner's fingers, are very well-lubricated. Your partner should slowly start by slowly inserting one finger, then another, until you feel like you've reached your limit.
Measure with a soft tape measure, and voila - you found your ideal male dildo size. As you can see, you measure it the same way you would the width for a female one.
Dildo Size Chart
| DILDO'S LENGTH | 6” | 7” | 8” | 9” | 10” | 11” - 12” |
| DILDO'S GIRTH | 4.5” – 4.75” | 4.5” – 4.75” | 5” – 5.5” | 5.5” – 6.75” | 7” | 7” – 7.75” |
Generally speaking, the girth will go hand in hand with the length - however, that's not always the case, and to find out the exact measurements, you should check out the description of the product you're interested in.
Dildo Girth Chart
There are two ways in which the girth of a dildo can be presented - either as a diameter, which would be the width of the shaft, or as a circumference around it. Below, you will find a table that will help you better understand both of them.
| DIAMETER | 1” | 1.25” | 1.5” | 1.75” | 2” | 2.5” | 3” |
| CIRCUMFERENCE | 3” – 3.5” | 3.75” – 4” | 4.5” – 4.75” | 5” – 5.5” | 5.5” – 6.75” | 7” – 7.75” | 8” – 8.5” |
Average Dildo Sizes
The average size of a dildo will depend on what its purpose is. Here are the most common ones:
- male dildos (anal dildos) - usually have a width between 1 to 2 inches and are between 5 and 12 inches long
- double-ended dildos - on average, they have a circumference of 4 to 6 inches.
- double dildos (DP dildos) - usually, the length of the vaginal part is around 6 inches, while the anus one comes at about 5 inches. Their circumference varies, with the vaginal shaft one ranging from 4 to 6 inches and the anus part measuring between 3 to 4 inches in girth.
- black dildos - black dildos tend to be bigger, coming at 5 to 8 inches in length and 4 to 5 inches in girth.
- suction cup dildos - these range from 5 to 10 inches in length and between 2 to 3 inches when it comes to the dildo girth.
- strapless strap-ons - strapless strap-ons usually aren't bigger than 7 inches, while their girth averages between 4 and 5.5 inches. Most of them have a bulb that goes into your vagina for a hands-free use, so if you're thinking about purchasing this type of dildo, you should think about whether it will fit inside you.
What Is the Best Selling Dildo Size?
The most popular dildo size is close to the average erect penis size, so between 5.1 and 5.5 inches in length and 4.59 in average penis girth.
What Size Dildo Do Women Prefer?
There is no specific dildo size that women prefer - it all depends on the person’s individual preferences.
As we already mentioned, there are some who enjoy smaller dildos rather than larger models, but there are also those who get more pleasure from using larger dildos rather than shorter models.
That’s why there are different dildo sizes - so that anyone can find exactly what they’re looking for to make the experience as enjoyable as possible.
Dildos - Frequently Asked Questions
Now that we talked about the different dildos and their sizes and how to find the right one for you, let's take a moment to answer some more questions in regard to dildos in general.
What are the best dildo materials?
With so many dildos on the market, you might be wondering, “Which material will be the best option?” While some people might not think so, the choice of material is an extremely important decision, as if you pick the wrong one, you might bring yourself more harm than good. Among the ones we would recommend, you can find:
- Metal dildos - in most cases, those are made from stainless steel, aluminum or titanium. They are great for when you enjoy temperature play, as they can easily be heated up or cooled down. Additionally, they are very easy to clean - you can just throw them into a dishwasher, and they will be ready to use again before you know it.
- Silicone dildos - there’s a reason why silicone is one of the most commonly chosen materials to make sex toys from. It is non-porous, so it won’t harbor bacteria, and it’s soft and flexible, which means that it’s a lot more comfortable to use, especially for those who are just starting out their sex toys journey.
- Glass dildos - if you’re looking for a friction-free experience, a glass dildo should be your way to go. Again, they are easy to clean, and since they can be heated up or cooled down just like metal dildos, they provide you with more stimulation than, for example, silicon dildos.
What are the different dildo types available?
There are several different types of dildos available:
- Regular dildos - a regular dildo will have a shape similar to a penis, but it won’t be as realistic.
- Realistic dildos - realistic dildos are often almost an exact replica of a penis, including veins and other details.
- Vibrating dildos - vibrating dildos can look both like regular and realistic dildos, but they have a motor inside of them that transforms it into a vibrator. The life like vibrator dildo can be cordless with self contained motor or rechargeable battery, or it can have a corded battery pack.
- Double dildos - this includes both DP dildos that are meant to be used by one person in two holes and double-ended dildos made for couples. The vast majority of double dildos look like regular ones rather than realistic ones.
Can dildos be used for anal play?
Yes, of course! There are several dildos that are specifically made smaller so that they can be used as anal sex toys.
Thanks to a smaller size, they bring you more pleasure when exploring butt play. Anal dildo vibrator toys are anal dildos that vibrate for prostate pleasure for men too.
Can I use household objects to measure the ideal dildo size?
Yes! If you don’t have an old dildo or vibrator lying around, you can use household objects as long as you’re doing it responsibly. Make sure that you don’t use things that can easily break, and ideally, you should use a condom so that if anything happens, the chances of injuring yourself are lower.
Some of the objects that you can use include a hairbrush, an electric toothbrush (which can also double as a vibrator), a regular toothbrush, a makeup brush, and more.
Can using dildos be beneficial to your health?
There are no health benefits associated specifically with using dildos. However, it is not a secret that sexual activity can be beneficial to one’s well-being and lead to stress relief, better sleep or improved mood.
What is an average dildo size?
An average size dildo measures between 4 to 6 inches in length and has anywhere between 4 to 5 inches in circumference. So, it’s more or less similar to an average penis size when erect.
The Bottom Line
Dildos continue to be one of the most commonly chosen sex toy types for a variety of reasons, with one of the main ones being how diverse they are. Not only do you have several materials to choose from, but you can also pick whether you want them to look realistic or not really, whether you want them to have a motor so that it doubles as a vibrator and more.
You also have the option to choose a size so that you can get the most pleasure out of your new companion. Know you know how we measure our dildos. Hopefully, after reading this article, you have a better understanding of how to choose the right dildo size for yourself, making the decision about which one to choose easier.
Don’t hesitate to take a look at our dildo selection once you know what you’re looking for. Chances are your new friend will be there waiting for you.
