Your Guide to Choosing & Using a Double Dildo
Last Updated on April 28, 2025
Double dildos are versatile and innovative sex toys designed to enhance pleasure and intimacy for individuals and couples alike. With a myriad of options available on the market, choosing the right double sided dildo can seem overwhelming.
You may find that full length can be unruly too, so today we'll offer up a tutorial with some useful positions for people of all sexual orientations to try for comfortable and enjoyable use.
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There are several variations among these products too, so understanding their similarities & differences will help you be able to ultimately choose the right design to elevate your sexual experiences; so without further adieu, let's begin!
What Is a Double Dildo?
Double dildos are sex toys that feature two distinct ends, allowing for simultaneous use by two female partners or simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration on a single individual. Double ended dildos are much longer compared to a traditional dildo making them popular choices for engaging solo or couples play because they are easier to grip with both hands.
Common Variations
There are several designs available, each offering unique features and sensations. Here are some common types along with an example of a popular product of each variation:
- Realistic Double Headed Dildos such as the 14 Inch Double Dildo are designed to mimic the look and feel of a real penis. They often feature lifelike details such as veins, ridges, and pronounced matching heads on both ends, providing a more immersive and satisfying experience.
- U-Shaped Dildos like the Dr. Skin DP Dildo have one small end for anal penetration and one larger end for vaginal penetration. They are curved or angled to ensure comfortable and pleasurable stimulation of both erogenous zones simultaneously and are much more compact and easier to handle when playing solo.
- Double Penetration Dildos such as the Stuffed Double Dildo are made for enacting your kinkiest DP sex toy or threesome fantasies. A realistic dildo with dual penis heads touching, you can experience the naughty pleasure of “two cocks, one hole” privately in your own bedroom.
- Vibrating Double Dildos: like the Double Penetration Vibrator incorporate built-in vibrators or vibrating functions to enhance stimulation and allowing users to customize their experience according to their preferences. They can be “DP” style with a handle or have an extra long shaft like the typical double ender.
- Glass Double Dildos: such as the Red Head Glass Double are perfect for enjoying the highly stimulating sensations of temperature play. The solid Pyrex-style glass can be heated or cooled for added sensation as it retains hot or cold temperatures longer than any other material. The heavy sensation of glass is highly erotic and they come in assortment of textures ranging from smooth to ribbed and spiraled.
Double Sided Dildo vs. DP Dildo
The terms "double sided dildo" and "DP dildo" are often used interchangeably, but they can sometimes refer to slightly different types of sex toys. Here's a breakdown of each one and how they compare:
- Double sided dildo: This term refers to a sex toy with a long, flexible shaft with two insertable ends often of identical or similar shapes and sizes. They can be used for solo play or shared between partners. They are a very popular choice for lesbian partners as each person inserts a side at the same time, sitting face to face making eye contact; it's a very intimate way to play with an exemplary sense of sharing.
- Double Penetration Dildo: This term refers to a shorter, thicker dildo often with a curved or U-shaped shaft and two distinct heads on either end. They are designed for solo play to experience double penetration sex, so essentially, to use the DP dildo, one side inserts into the vagina while the other side inserts into the anus.
Factors To Consider
Choosing the right double dildo involves considering several factors to ensure it meets your needs and preferences. Here are the key factors to keep in mind:
Size and shape
Size matters to ensure comfort according to your experience level; therefore choosing the right dimensions is essential for a comfortable and pleasurable experience. The best dildo sizes will vary from person to person. Really, anywhere between 8 inches and 12 inches. Consider both length and girth, ensuring that the one you ultimately choose aligns with your comfort levels and remember that toys with smaller ends (or at east one slimmer end) are easier to gently guide in.
For beginners or those new to double penetration, starting with a smaller size can be more manageable and enjoyable. Additionally, pay attention to the shape of the device. Some models feature realistic designs with pronounced heads and textured shafts, while others have smooth, curved contours for targeted G-spot or prostate stimulation.
Material
The material plays a significant role in its safety, flexibility, and overall feel. Silicone is a popular choice for its body-safe properties, non-porous surface, and flexibility, allowing for comfortable and friction-free penetration but you can only use water based lube with it.
Other materials such as glass, stainless steel, and TPE / TPR offer unique sensations and are easy to clean but may not provide the same flexibility as silicone. Always prioritize body-safe materials to prevent irritation or allergic reactions, and ensure that it is phthalate-free and non-toxic. (As all of the sex toys for sale here at The Adult Toy Shop are.)
Texture and design
Texture and design features can greatly enhance stimulation and pleasure during play. Some double headers feature ribbing, ridges, or bulges along the shafts, providing additional sensation and friction. These types of sex toys have various features to appeal to men and women alike essentially doubling the fun compared to a regular or traditional dildo, especially for those with creative minds who like to explore new things in the bedroom.
Others may have curved or angled bends to target specific erogenous zones such as the G-spot or prostate. Consider your preferences and desired sensations when choosing the texture and design of the double dildo. Experimenting with different textures can add variety and excitement to your sexual encounters, so a glass dildo may be a smart choice since most double dildos made of glass feature two contrasting textures; opposing sides of smooth & studded or tapered and blunt just to name a couple.
Flexibility and versatility
Flexibility and versatility are essential aspects to consider when selecting a toy. Flexible double dildos can adapt to different positions and angles, allowing for comfortable and ergonomic use. Look for products with bendable or posable shafts that can be curved or adjusted to suit your desires.
Additionally, some feature interchangeable or detachable ends, providing versatility and the option to customize your experience. Versatile options can be used for solo play, lesbian partner play, or even incorporated into strap-on harnesses for hands-free fun.
Harness compatibility
If you plan to use the double dildo with a harness for strap-on play, it's essential to ensure compatibility between the dildo and harness. Check the diameter and shape of the base to ensure it fits securely and snugly into the harness ring.
Some come with built-in harness-compatible bases or O-ring adapters for added convenience. Investing in a high-quality harness made from durable materials such as leather or nylon will ensure stability and support during play.
Waterproof and easy to clean
Consider the ease of maintenance and hygiene when selecting your ideal item. Opt for waterproof or water-resistant models that can be easily cleaned with mild soap and water or toy cleaner. Non-porous materials such as silicone, glass, and stainless steel are especially hygienic and resistant to bacterial growth, making them ideal choices for double dildos.
Avoid porous materials such as cheap jelly rubber or PVC, as they can harbor bacteria and be difficult to clean thoroughly (which we don't sell here anyway).
Budget and quality
As with any purchase, consider your budget and prioritize quality when choosing an iem. While high-quality double ended dildos may come with a higher price tag, they often offer superior performance, durability, and safety. If you want inexpensive dildos, DP dildos are not usually in your budget if you want cheap sex toys.
Investing in a reputable brand known for using premium materials and adhering to strict quality standards will ensure a satisfying and long-lasting experience. However, there are also affordable options available that provide decent quality and functionality. Compare prices, read reviews, and choose a double headed dildo that offers the best value for your budget.
How To Use a Double Dildo
Once you've chosen the perfect double dildo, understanding how to use it effectively in a position that works ergonomically for your body will greatly enhance your pleasure. Here's our best advice:
- Begin by applying a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the section of the dildo that you'll be inserting to ensure smooth and comfortable penetration. (Avoid getting lube on the part of the shaft that you'll be holding with your hands otherwise the surface can get too slippery!)
- If using solo, find a comfortable position that allows easy access to both penetrative ends and allows you to keep a sturdy grip on the shaft. We suggest propping your hips up on a pillow to get a better angle of penetration that allows your hands to guide in as much length into the vagina as you can.
- Another comfortable position involves sitting up slightly on your bed. Place a pillow behind your lower back to angle your torso upwards slightly while resting your head on the wall or headboard. This angled position allows you to reach down between your legs with both hands to maneuver the dildo with gusto.
- Experiment with different angles and depths of penetration to discover what feels best for you. Insert it as far as it will go then jiggle it slowly and enjoy the feel of the deep sensations. Once you're fully aroused, thrust it it in and out quickly to imitate the motions of hard sex.
- To use it for dual penetration, insert the longer end first, usually the vaginal dildo, then insert the anal dildo next. Be sure to apply lubricant directly on the anus and also to both dildo heads before insertion.
- If you have a U-shaped dildo, start by rocking it back and forth in a slow rhythmic motion. Just before you reach an orgasm, push it in hard with the palm of your hand to maximize contact and let vagina & anus clench around it. You'll also benefit from intense external stimulation of the labia & perineum, too.
How to Use a Double Sided Dildo for Partner Play
Here, communication is key - discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences beforehand to ensure a mutually satisfying experience. Whether engaging in simultaneous penetration, mutual stimulation, or exploring different erogenous zones, take your time and enjoy the sensations.
Straight couples use it similarly to how a woman would use a dildo alone – but the only difference is that her partner is involved so it makes foreplay more exciting. It's a good way to “warm up” before the sex, spice it up a bit, and make the vagina more receptive to partnered intercourse.
One of the more kinkier sex positions for couples (of all orientations for that matter) involves you getting on all fours, doggy style with your partner handling the double dong behind you. Part of the excitement comes with not knowing how you will be penetrated, leaving full control up to your lover.
Lesbian couples can sit on the bed facing each other. After lubricating both ends, hold the shaft with the dildo pointed to your vagina entry. Lift your legs comfortably then shimmy closer together as it slowly inserts deeper. Deep penetration doubles the fun so you can be super kinky with this one and touch each other's clit, nipples or share an intimate kiss.
Using a double ended dildo can be highly erotic, but you'll need to go slow until you have a proper rhythm because there is lots going on all at once, and you want your experience to be comfortable. Remember to listen to your body and communicate with your partner(s) throughout the experience to maximize pleasure and intimacy.
FAQs
Are double dongs suitable for beginners?
Yes, there are products specifically designed for beginners, featuring smaller sizes, smoother textures, and more straightforward designs. These dildos are ideal for individuals or couples who are new to penetration or exploring double dildo play for the first time. To find a beginner-friendly option, view the filters in the category menu and select “small”.
How do I clean and maintain it?
Clean the surface thoroughly with mild soap and water or sex toy cleaner spray after each use. Lather it up well, then rinse. For good measure and hygiene practice, we recommend cleaning the entire shaft, not just the part that was used. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to prolong its lifespan either wrapped in a towel or in the original packaging it came in.
Can I use a double dildo for anal play?
Yes, some are suitable for anal play. Ensure the dildo has a flared base or handle for safe anal use, and use plenty of lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort. Dildos that have two differently sized ends are typically designed for simultaneous anal-vaginal use.
Are they actually stick-straight as shown in the pictures?
No, they are all flexible but to varying degrees. Some curvy dildos are soft enough that you can bend it completely around for DP insertion. Others are a bit stiffer and made for two-handed use. Check each product description and watch the video demos to see exactly how soft or rigid an individual product is so you know what to expect.
