Strap Ons For Men: Hollow, Pegging, Vibrating & More
Last Updated on August 4, 2023
Strap ons for men come in a variety of styles to suit various needs. Sure that seems like a blanket description to begin, but continue on to discover the numerous reasons a man would wear a strap on during sex with their partner and the benefits that come along with this type of sex toy for guys. You'll also discover a complete FAQ section that applies specifically to male strap on dildos.
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You'll also discover some alternatives to the typical hollow strap on dildo for men and the pros and cons of switching up the typical male harness strap on and trying a brand new suggestion that will surely fire up the passion in bed.
We have several strapons for men that are discreet, small and gentle without making your lover cringe when you open your discreetly mailed package containing a large or thick hollow dildo that scares them away!
Before purchasing a male strap on or a male dildo, the following compares 6 different types of strap ons for men along with advantages of each and descriptions of the dildo so every couple can find the style that best matches their sexual needs:
1. Hollow Strap On for Men
First and foremost, the hollow strap on dildo for men is the top choice for guys with erectile dysfunction who are looking to purchase a strap on to engage in lovemaking with their partner.
In my opinion, the reason the hollow strap on dildo is often what a customer asks about in the case of ED is because they are more widely known and accepted as a sexual aid for couples.
The hollow dildo strap has a “all business” type of appearance; they are not sold as “dirty sex toys” rather hollow dildos are bought as accessories to help an aging couple enjoy sexual intercourse. To summarize, they are widely accepted as a suitable sex aid for couples across America.
Why choose a hollow strap on dildo?
The hollow dildo is rigid enough to maintain its shape and does not require an erection to work. The hollow strap on can be worn by men with a flaccid penis and is the most common choice for men with erectile dysfunction. To learn more and find some suggestions on which one you'll like most, view my entry on the best hollow strap ons.
The disadvantage of choosing this strap on penis extender is that the shaft is always thick, most have more girth and length than an erect penis and they do not feel like real skin. On the other hand, if that's exactly what you're after (re: the “size queen”), this is your best choice!
If you have normal hard erections, you can still use one of these only instead of entering the opening, you'll position the device over the pubic bone and let it sit higher on your pelvis. Your erection stands high and tall below the device. With this option, you can even engage in DP. (See further below on how this is done).
Why are hollow dildos so big?
There must be room inside the dildo to support the man's flaccid penis, so the interior measurements have to be big enough for his dick which means the exterior will be significantly wider than a typical male erection. Most are just under 2 inches across, which is big enough to be considered to be well within the "large" size spectrum.
Male Hollow Strap On Video Review
Watch the video demo to see the texture, fit and size of one of our best selling male hollow strap on dildos. Notice how we squeeze the dildo shaft to demonstrate its rigid structure.
The strapon harness fabric is soft and gentle with adjustable straps so it fits any body shape and size. Read the product specifications on each male strapon and compare it to your body size to make sure it will fit. Most adjust up to XL waist sizes, but not all of them do.
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Summary of Hollow Strap Ons for Men:
- Widely accepted as a sex aid for couples
- Can be used without an erection
- Large size appeals to experts
- Thicker than average girths
- Firm and rigid
- Simple visual styling
- Vibrating options available
- He puts his penis inside
2. Pegging Strap On for Men
The pegging strapon for men is the the hottest, newest and biggest growing trend within all sex toys for couples. This is the only time, HE is on the other end of the giver/receiver relationship! This is all about anal sex for men.
If you are not as well versed in sexual terminology, make sure to learn what does pegging mean before we continue on.
Anal Play and Prostate Stimulation
When guys want to try anal pegging for the first time, they often gravitate towards thin anal trainers, obviously! You'll notice several are perfectly curved for prostate stimulation, and this is on purpose.
This subcategory of male strap ons requires a little imagination to fully realize the potential combination; there are some pre made kits but not that many. If you were to purchase a sex harness only and a harness compatible dildo you can create your own collection to be used for kinky nights of pegging sex.
Finding your perfect Pegging Sex Toy
The pegging strap on category is filled with small, thin, curved and tapered dildo attachments, many even are designed to rub the prostate for an added boost to his orgasms.
Alternatively, choose from one of the small attachments on the pegging category page. We've collected small anal toys for men from several different categories and summarized them in one place for easier shopping.
Pegging adjustable harness will fit any body shape and size. They feature adjustable waist sizes ranging from small to plus size waists; no matter your body type or shape, you can find one that adjusts to your size.
We are one of the premier online sex toy stores for couples looking to purchase pegging strap ons for men. It is a practice that is originally intended as a heterosexual couple, but gay couples enjoy it too - although the term “pegging” specifically implies a man and woman duo.
Prostate Anal Strap On Video Review
As mentioned previously, there are many different reason a guy would use a strap on for him. In this case, he is on the receiving end for anal penetration, also known as pegging, provided a woman is wearing the harness. In this video review, you'll see the small anal dildo for prostate stimulation during strap on anal play.
Summary of pegging strap ons for men:
- He is on the receiving end
- Thin & small girths best for beginners
- Customize your own kit
- Vast range of interchangeable attachments
- Fastest growing sexual trend for couples
- Several choices for prostate stimulation
- Best strap on for men looking to try something new
Making Your Own Mens Strap On
You can always improvise and make your own customized kit by purchasing one of the following two types of dildos and attaching it to your harness. The advantage here is your ability to choose the exact size, color and shape you want.
- Small Dildo - These mini dildos for beginners are a popular choice because the slim and short build provides a comfortable experience for first timers.
- Dildo for Men - Tailor made for stimulating the prostate and anal sex, male dildos come in all shapes and sizes from small to large, non-vibrating and vibrating.
- Strap on Harness for Dildo - Your choice of harness compatible dildo from either of the categories above will fit with one of these harnesses.
Just be sure that the dildo you choose has either a suction cup base or a flat base so that it can fit in the strapon ring and rest comfortably against your pelvis.
3. Vibrating Male Strap On Dildo
The vibrating strap on penis can be divided under two separate types:
The first application of the strap on that vibrates is the harness with a vibrating dildo attached to the front. The man does not feel any vibration, this is worn purely for sexual benefit if his partner. It's “giving” in the true sense!
The second application of this term refers to the man being on the receiving end in the form of a vibrating pegging dildo, which we've just explored in its own dedicated subsection above.
The placement of each vibrating motor varies slightly, so in every product description we list where the motor is placed along the shaft and how the vibration is controlled. Most are operated by a separate corded battery pack with a speed dial on the side.
Before you assume that these cords “get in the way” during sex play, it's important to note that the controller gets discreetly tucked away into the harness belt and does not impede your movements! We actually prefer corded vibrating strap on dildos for men anyway because they are more powerful.
Strap on Penis with Vibrating Pleasure
The vibrating male strap on dildo also provides an extra boost of sexual pleasure because he'll have a first person view watching his partner moan and groan in pleasure while the vibrator takes over.
It's a fun boost to regular sex play – a real penis doesn't vibrate so by him wearing a vibrating dildo harness, it spices things up. This is a common sex toy for couples who have been married for a long time and simply want to add something new into their bedroom routine.
Pro Pleasure Tip: Keep the power to a minimum during warm up, then spin the dial and generate mega power right at the onset of orgasm. For the man to take control of his partners' orgasm intensity is a highly erotic experience for couples.
Out of all styles of male strap ons, this subcategory has the most options to choose from. There are some that are curved for prostate or G Spot stimulation, others that are realistic looking and even a few hollow dildos complete the mix.
Mayla's Top Picks:
Summary of vibrating strap ons for men:
- Combines “vibrator” and “strap on” together
- Extra stimulation during intercourse
- Vast range of sizes & textures to choose from
- Top choice for long married couples
- Take control of your partners orgasm
- Option for G Spot or prostate stimulation
4. Realistic Strap On Penis for Men
Couples often search for a realistic male strap on penis because they want to replicate the feel of sexual intercourse but don't want anything too kinky. Men who have soft erections or even full blown ED choose the realistic strap on dildo. The only feature that matters is that the harness is “unisex”.
Why? A unisex harness wraps around the legs and the waist leaving the entire crotch open and unimpeded. His dick and testicles hang freely below. This is our alternative suggestion for men who do not want a large hollow dildo, but want a sex harness to help with erectile issues.
Fully Customizable Unisex Strap On Penis
How to choose a unisex strap on harness that fits a man?
- In the strap on dildos category, click the filters option (or click “filters” on your mobile device).
- Select “unisex” and the options that are crotchless or have a size adjustable nylon waist band or elastic belt will be displayed.
- Plus size waist? Choose “yes” under the “plus size harness” option on the filter menu.
When considering the unisex realistic strapon dildo harness, the couple has the widest range of sizes to choose from. Some are very soft and flexible.
This variety can even be customized completely. The man wears any of the suitable sex harnesses and the couple shops for harness compatible dildos together.
Real Skin & Real Penis Sex Toys
Of course you can simply choose any of the realistic feeling or life like looking strap on dildo kits that are available online to purchase if you don't want to build your own. There is a tremendous assortment of features that are made available such as vibrating, a soft life sized realistic penis, and all sizes from tiny to massive.
This is the best strap on for men who want to customize their pleasure and enjoy life like feeling sex despite having as semi erect penis or fully flaccid dick. Whatever you medical concerns are, choosing the unisex harness will assure you a comfortable and fulfilled sex life that satisfies both you and your lover.
The other male strap on to consider is the "strapless strap on for men", otherwise known as a penis extension or a penis sleeve. No straps required hold it in place, this penis extender sleeve slips over the erection and may have a ball strap to keep it in place. Cock sleeves will also prevent premature ejaculation by removing some of the sensations during penetrative sex.
Mayla's Top Picks:
Summary of realistic strap on penis for men:
- Extensive range of kits to choose from
- Fully customizable
- Can be used with or without an erection
- Crotchless design is the most comfortable to wear
- Life like, soft & realistic feeling options
- Select “unisex” in the strapons category filter menu
5. Double Penetration Male Strap On
The double penetration strap on for men is a sex toy for erotically charged couples who enjoy the finest in kinky sex play. If you have a naughty streak in the bedroom, this style should definitely be at the top of your list of adult toys to buy. The most playful couples believe the DP strap on for men is by far the most fun they've had in bed.
What Exactly is a Double Penetration Strap On for Men?
First we must investigate the term “DP”. Double penetration is simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration. It's a common sex practice seen on adult films and video clips. To experience this in real life is makes you feel like you're among the kinkiest of adult film stars.
The strapon for men includes one dildo that inserts into either the vagina or anus, and a second open metal o ring to support the man's actual penis. The harness itself comes with 2 rings stacked vertically.
Using the DP Strapon Harness
The top ring holds the either the dildo or his dick and enters the vagina while the bottom ring holds the other appendage and enters the anus. The 2 rings assure that each appendage stays in place to target both her entry points at the same time for easier penetration and a more comfortable experience for her.
The giver gets a sexy view from above whilst watching her get stuffed (their term, not ours!) while the receiver enjoys the fantasy double penetration sex they've been dreaming of. Make sure to hit the “record” button on your camera before getting into this one, it surely makes a hot movie!
It's important to note that the man must be able to get a full erection to use the DP harness because you'll be penetrating either her vagina or anus. If you'd like to take a step back and get versed in how to use a strap on first, that article has step by step instructions on how to put on a strap on penis.
Wear a cock sleeve in conjunction with the double penetration strapon to power up pleasure by making your cock bigger (because of the padding of the sleeve). What's more? It will help to delay ejaculation because cock sleeves remove some of the sensation of intercourse.
Summary of double penetration male strap ons:
- Extra high kink factor
- Perfect for women with a DP sex fantasy
- Suitable for men who can get a full erection
- Popular for couples who film their own adult home movies
- Ability to combine dildos for vaginal
- Ability to add anal probes for anal
- The wearer can choose vaginal sex or anal sex
6. Strap On for Men With ED
When a penis pump or other ED treatments fail and he can no longer get a full erection, couples often turn to one of the two following strapons for men to satisfy their desire for sexual intimacy:
As outlined above, both of these choices will work because neither require a fully erect penis to function:
- The hollow dildo is a strapon for men with space inside for a guy to insert his flaccid penis.
- The unisex strap on harness has an open crotch base that lets his penis and testicles hang below.
Regardless of the male harness style chosen, they are not entirely hands free. There will always be some maneuvering required for vaginal penetration. Once the dildo has been inserted however, the motions of sexual intercourse can be fully replicated. By snugly fitting the harness to your body, you can move freely around the bedroom and easily change sexual positions.
What about strap ons for men who can get a partial erection, but not an erection firm enough for intercourse? Until now, there has never been a harness designed uniquely for this specification. Introducing the brand new Zoro strap on for men featuring a large cutout ergonomically positioned for him to fit the scrotum and testicles through, yet keeping them out of the way while he penetrates his partner with the silicone dildo.
Fantasy Male Strap On Penis
Of course if a big fetish fantasy sexual experience is what you're hoping for, then the kinky minds should take note. Some of the best strap ons for men are very large. The realistic penis extension such as the best strap on dildowith a fully adjustable waist size.
Get super kinky with strap ons made for double penetration, also known as DP. This type of mens strap on harness delves into the extra kinky realm of sex for guys (who do not have erectile dysfunction) and prefer the darker side of kink play.
Men with erectile dysfunction often choose the hollow strap on for men, but we also like to suggest the unisex harness style that, in our opinion, is better suited to the average couple, especially seniors.
Many couples who purchase large hollow male strap ons have a “size queen” lover. What is a “size queen” you may ask? It is a person attracted to partners with huge penises. We'll also explore sex toys to suit that fetish further too!
Choosing the Best Strap on For Men
The hollow strap is for guys with ED. No ED issues? A penis sleeve is the most popular way to spice up the sex life. The cock ring gives him extra staying power while the hollow strap on with adjustable harness fits any body shape while the inner diameter that fits his penis inside of this unique strap on gives the partner the pleasure of penetrative sex.
The fetish fantasy hollow strap on is a firm penis extension with a unique harness design that will prevent premature ejaculation by removing sensation for him entirely. This penis extender is a hardcore and intense strap on with firm and rigid penis sleeve with a hollow core and veiny shaft, it's the perfect strap on for men who can't get an erect penis.
Male sex toys like a penis extension require an erection for internal support. Wearing a cock ring will give you extra staying power. The insertable length can mirror the actual penis length or it can add more length rivaling the girth and size of her other sex toys, dildos and vibrators.
There are many strap ons for men that provide better sex for couples everywhere, regardless of your needs and desires. Performance issues? Problem no more! The best strap ons will tailor to his erectile strength to improve your sex life. Some are fully adjustable to fit every body shape.
Incorporate anal play, oral sex or P spot stimulation. One with a metal O ring allows you to swap out other sex toys and dildos for more variety to vaginal sex. Pick up a strap on with remote control or a dildos with more girth or length for added stimulation.
