How to Use a Dildo in the Shower - The Ultimate Guide

Last Updated on December 3, 2025

Finding yourself in a hot and steamy shower can quickly get your wild imagination going. How about getting the most of it while you're at it? 

Whether you're new to the dildo world or just want to experiment with your favorite sex toy in places other than your bedroom, you're about to discover some tips & positions for playing with a dildo in the shower.

I've already covered the basic instructions on how to use a dildo, so here are some advanced techniques for getting more adventurous with your dildo and how to wall mount it and ride it within the confined space of a walk-in shower.

Best Type of Dildo for Shower Play

There are so many awesome options available, you can surely find the one that satisfies your desires and preferences for size, shape & design. Is there one type that is better than another for sexy playtime in the shower to get the ultimate feeling of sexual satisfaction?

If you're looking for the best toy for shower play, choose a suction cup dildo. These hands-free choices have a suction cup base that will stick to any smooth surface, especially the shower wall or floor making it perfect for riding or squatting over. The suction cup holds it in place so it won't fall over while you're bouncing on it.

Make Sure Your Toy is Waterproof

If you're planning to play with your vibrating dildo in the shower, it shouldn't come as a surprise to you that your sex toy must be waterproof. Some dildos may come at costly prices, so you wouldn't want to ruin them with moisture because you didn't know you couldn't use them in the shower.

Therefore, it's crucial to double-check whether your toy is water-resistant. How to make sure it is? You can usually find this information on the packaging. If you can't find it, it may be helpful to contact the manufacturer, and they will provide you with the necessary details. 

Use Silicone Lubricant

If you usually use water-based lube, it might not be the best idea to use it in the shower - it would simply wash off the surface of the toy because it's water soluble.

As you move your intimate games to the bathroom, it's worth turning to silicone lubricant instead. Silicone-based lube doesn't flush away with water, so there's no risk it will slide off your toy. It will also stay in place longer than other products, so you can enjoy your playtime for an extended period of time.

There's one thing you should remember, though: Silicone lubricant is not compatible with silicone sex toys. It may cause your dildo to gradually degrade if you combine those two things. Therefore, if your toy is made of silicone, it's better to stick to water-based lubricants. However, be prepared to re-apply it repeatedly during your play.

Best (and Easiest) Positions to Try

Here comes the fun part. Once you've got your perfect suction cup dildo & ideal lube choice at hand, it's time to see it in action with our tips for riding. Here are the top 3 positions that are the most comfortable and enjoyable for beginners:

Side Riding

As mentioned earlier, the suction cup dildo works best when adjusted to a smooth and flat surface. Luckily, your shower wall or bathtub has quite a lot of it!

Adhere your play partner to the tiles or porcelain finish on the side of your shower. As your dildo holds firmly, lower yourself down onto it and ride it how you want to, bounce up and down while propping your body along the walls with your hands,. The hot shower steam will only add to your unique sexual experience with your toy, so get ready for the most intense sensations. 

Shower Doggy Style

If you like the doggy style position, you can be sure you'll love it even more if you try it in the shower with your dildo. 

Again, stick your wall mounted dildo to a smooth tiled vertical surface at a height that works for you best and is comfortable for you to bend over. Back your booty onto the tip, and there you have it! Ultimate wild ride guaranteed. For some extra sexy stimulation, you can use a shower head during your play for clitoral stimulation while you ride hands-free.

Bathtub Pleasure

If you have a bathtub instead of a shower, we've got an extremely arousing position for you to try with your dildo: Stick your toy to the bottom of your bathtub. Remember to do it before you fill it with water! Then turn the water on and fill the tub to your desired depth.

Take a seat on your dildo and imagine you're sitting atop your lover. Enjoy the sensual ride and the pleasant warmth of bathtub water surrounding you. 

5 Best Dildos to Use in the Shower

There are many satisfying wall mounted sex toys you can use while showering. Here we've listed the best options for you to enhance your adventure either solo or with your partner in a hot and steamy environment.