December 8, 2020 Mayla Green

How to Use a Wand Vibrator | Magic Wand Vibrator Tips

Magic wand style vibrators are popular because they are both discrete and powerful. Check out our tips on making the most of yours and discover tips on how to use a magic wand vibrator by yourself and with your partner.

It's a female sex toy disguised as something else – a muscle massager! Larger versions are sold at department stores to soothe sore muscles, help the body relax and melt away tensions from a hectic work week. Tiny ones are used to stimulate the clitoris (and also melt away tensions, in an erotic way! Lol!)

How to Use a Wand Vibrator During Sex

There are so many reasons to love the magic wand vibrator. They are powerful, comfortable to use, versatile and called MAGIC for a reason! The wand vibrator is also wonderfully discreet. You can hide it in plain sight in your bedroom or bathroom. After all, it’s really ‘neck massager’ *wink* *wink*.

If you have one of your own, then you know it’s good for the kind of intense orgasms that will knock you out for the evening. But, did you know this toy can also be used during couple’s play time? Try a few of these tricks out with your partner!

Why Use a Wand Vibrator With Your Lover?

You may be wondering why you should bring a masturbation tool into your couple’s time. There are a few reasons for this. First, masturbation is hot! It’s also a great way to show your partner how you pleasure yourself. 

In addition to that, when you add a vibrator to intercourse, you are able to stimulate a whole other erogenous zone. That’s while your partner keeps their focus on other areas. With some practice, you’ll experience intense orgasms. You might even find that you are multiorgasmic.

Using The Wand Vibrator Doggy Style

Doggy style is a super sexy position for blending wand vibrator masturbation with deep intercourse. Roll over on your tummy with some pillows under you. Get your wand in position, and have your partner enter you from behind.

As they find their thrusting rhythm, click your vibrator. Enjoy the sensations of them thrusting against your g-spot, along with the intense clitoral sensations from your vibrator. Of course, this is also a great way to enjoy anal penetration! This is the best way to use clit stimulators during sex.

Magic Wand Pleasure During Missionary

Bring a new sense of adventure to this traditional position. Hold the vibrator between yourself and your partner.

Keep it low enough so you get full contact with your clit, but allow them plenty of room to enter you. Use your free hand to wrap around your partner, or explore their body.

Spooning And The Magic Wand Massager

Let’s face it, spooning is such a wonderfully, laid-back way to have sex. It’s also amazingly versatile. Try the traditional spoon as you lay on your side, and they enter you from behind.

You can also allow them to enter you from a right angle so your bodies form an ‘L’. In either case, you’ll have all the room you need to play with your vibrator.

Doing it Solo — Together

Mutual masturbation is amazing. It’s even better when one of you can watch the other in the throes of an amazingly pleasurable orgasm. Find a position that suits both of you, then kiss and caress one another while you use your wand. Your partner can help you get off, or enjoy their own solo pleasure.

Oral Sex With a Magic Wand

Lie on your back with your feet flat on the floor, and knees spread apart. You might need pillows under your hips. Now, press your wand vibrator top-down directly against your clitoris.

Next, have your partner come in and give ‘oral attention’ to everything else. They can use their tongue to penetrate you, lick around your labia, even go a bit lower.

For a really kinky version, try straddling your partner’s face. This is the perfect job for a smaller wand that gives your partner plenty of room to work.

Magic Wand Vibrator Tips

The erotic wand massager is a powerful piece of equipment. It’s an amazing little tool for bringing on quick, intensive orgasms. But, there are some subtle tips you can use to make this little device even more pleasurable.

It Really is a Massager!

Don’t forget that this personal pleasure toy does more than provide you with sublime orgasms. Use it during foreplay to give yourself or your partner an erotic massage. Not only can you turn each other on, you’ll also feel relaxed, flexible, and renewed for the main event.

It’s For Guys Too!

The vibrations here may be a bit too intense for direct contact with your partner’s penis. But, you can still stimulate some really erogenous areas. Try pressing the wand massager against his perineum, and turning it on low.

He’ll be mind-blown by the sensations, especially if he loves prostate play. You can also use it to tease his rear entrance. Try both of these tips while he’s on his back, and you’re going down on him.

Any Warnings?

As long as you keep them clean, and ensure the cord is in good shape, this is a fun, safe sex toy. The only small caveat is that some women do report that it can make them less receptive to other kinds of clitoral pleasuring. Don’t worry! This is just a temporary effect. You can reduce this by using a lower setting on your wand. Or, simply wait. Things will return to normal.

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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

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