How to Use a Wand Vibrator: Magic Wand Vibrator Tips
Last Updated on April 17, 2023
Magic wand style vibrators are popular because they are both discrete and powerful. Check out our tips on making the most of yours and discover tips on how to use a magic wand vibrator by yourself and with your partner.
What Are Wand Vibrators?
Wand vibrators are a female sex toy disguised as something else – a muscle massager!
Larger versions are sold at department stores to soothe sore muscles, help the body relax and melt away tensions from a hectic work week. Tiny wand massagers are used to stimulate the clitoris (and also melt away tensions, in an erotic way! Lol!)
The Hitachi Magic Wand has actually been around since the sixties, this is the vibrator your grandmother used (how about that for a mood killer). Hitachi claimed it was for health care purposes, but after it was popularized by Sex educator Betty Dodson for its use as a masturbation device, the cat (or vibrator, in this case) was soon out of the bag!
A massage wand consists of a vibrating head that is attached to a long handle, hence the name, resembling the shape of a magic wand.
Many wand massagers come with various attachment heads that can be used for different types of stimulation, such as a round head for broad, deep massage, and a curved head for targeted prostate or clitoral stimulation.
How to Use a Wand Vibrator During Sex
There are so many reasons to love the magic wand vibrator. They are powerful, comfortable to use, versatile and called MAGIC for a reason! The wand vibrator is also wonderfully discreet. You can hide it in plain sight in your bedroom or bathroom. After all, it’s really ‘neck massager’ *wink* *wink*.
Using a Wand Vibrator for the First Time
The great thing about these wands is that they are a great introduction to self-pleasure. You can start off slowly using it like a regular massager on your shoulders and back before moving on to more sensitive areas like your nipples and inner thighs.
Maybe start off on the lowest setting first and see how it feels on your vaginal opening; take your time and explore; you want to be comfortable and relaxed, enjoying the double-duty effects it has on your body aches and erogenous zones.
You might even find that direct stimulation is still pretty powerful on the lowest setting in that use some soft fabric between the massager and your body to decrease its intensity.
Using a Wand Vibrator for Couple’s Sex
If you have one of these toys of own, then you know it’s good for the kind of intense orgasms that will knock you out for the evening. But, did you know this toy can also be used during a couple’s play time? Try a few of these tricks out with your partner!
Why Use a Wand Vibrator with Your Lover?
You may be wondering why you should bring a masturbation tool into your couple’s time. There are a few reasons for this. First, masturbation is hot! It’s also a great way to show your partner how you pleasure yourself.
In addition to that, when you add a wand-style vibrator to intercourse, you are able to stimulate a whole other erogenous zone. That’s while your partner keeps their focus on other areas. With some practice, you’ll experience intense orgasms. You might even find that you are multiorgasmic.
Using the Wand Vibrator Doggy Style
Doggy style is a super sexy position for blending wand vibrator masturbation with deep intercourse. Roll over on your tummy with some pillows under you. Get your wand in position, and have your partner enter you from behind.
As they find their thrusting rhythm, click your vibrator. Enjoy the sensations of them thrusting against your g-spot, along with the intense clitoral sensations from your vibrator. Of course, this is also a great way to enjoy anal penetration! This is the best way to use clit stimulators during sex.
Magic Wand Pleasure During Missionary
Bring a new sense of adventure to this traditional position. Hold the vibrator between yourself and your partner.
Keep it low enough so you get full contact with your clit, but allow them plenty of room to enter you. Use your free hand to wrap around your partner, or explore their body.
Spooning And The Magic Wand Massager
Let’s face it, spooning is such a wonderfully, laid-back way to have sex. It’s also amazingly versatile. Try the traditional spoon as you lay on your side, and they enter you from behind.
You can also allow them to enter you from a right angle so your bodies form an ‘L’. In either case, you’ll have all the room you need to play with your vibrator.
Doing it Solo — Together
Mutual masturbation is amazing. It’s even better when one of you can watch the other in the throes of an amazingly pleasurable orgasm. Find a position that suits both of you, then kiss and caress one another while you use your wand. Your partner can help you get off, or enjoy their own solo pleasure.
Oral Sex with a Magic Wand
Lie on your back with your feet flat on the floor, and your knees spread apart. You might need pillows under your hips. Now, press your wand vibrator top-down directly against your clitoris.
Next, have your partner come in and give ‘oral attention’ to everything else. They can use their tongue to penetrate you, lick around your labia, even go a bit lower.
For a really kinky version, try straddling your partner’s face. This is the perfect job for a smaller wand that gives your partner plenty of room to work.
Magic Wand Vibrator Tips
The erotic wand massager is a powerful piece of equipment. It’s an amazing little tool for bringing on quick, intensive orgasms. But, there are some subtle tips you can use to make this little device even more pleasurable.
It Really is a Massager!
Don’t forget that this personal pleasure toy does more than provide you with sublime orgasms. Use it during foreplay to give yourself or your partner an erotic massage. Not only can you turn each other on, you’ll also feel relaxed, flexible, and renewed for the main event.
It’s For Guys Too!
Don’t be selfish, and keep your wand vibrator to yourself; it’s not just for female pleasure; guys will appreciate the external stimulation of their sore muscles and other extremities!
The vibrations here may be a bit too intense for direct contact with your partner’s penis. But you can still get powerful vibrations to stimulate some really erogenous areas. Try pressing the wand massager against his perineum, and turning it on low.
He’ll be mind-blown by the sensations, especially if he loves prostate play. You can also use it to tease his rear entrance. Try both of these tips while he’s on his back, and you’re going down on him.
Any Warnings?
As long as you keep them clean, and ensure the cord is in good shape, this is a fun, safe sex toy. The only small caveat is that some women do report that it can make them less receptive to other kinds of clitoral stimulation and pleasuring.
Don’t worry! This is just a temporary effect. You can reduce this by using a lower setting on your wand. Or, simply wait. Things will return to normal.
FAQs on Wand Style Vibrators
Can you use a wand vibrator for internal stimulation?
In most cases, wand vibrators shouldn’t be inserted, but some do have attachments that are designed for this purpose.
Shop for a small insertable vibrator for vaginal penetration. The bottom line is if you are going to use your wand vibrator without any attachments, then you should limit its use to external massage only.
Do I need to use lube with my magic wand massager?
As wand vibrators are primarily used for external stimulation, you might not need lube. But there’s nothing stopping you from using a water-based lubricant to reduce friction on sensitive spots if you so wish.
How do you clean a wand vibrator?
This will depend if your wand vibrator is water resistant or not; you can use mild soap and water if it is; if not, just clean the head before and after using it with a damp cloth and mild soap. The manufacturer’s instructions that come with the wand vibrator will tell you if it is water-resistant or not.
Ensure that the magic wand is completely dry before storing it. Keep it out of direct sunlight or away from anywhere hot. Then store it in a dry, clean, dust-free place if you want to get plenty of use out of your new toy.
How much do wand vibrators cost?
We sell a range of quality wand vibrators that vary in price from compact travel wand vibrators for less than $15 to a top-of-the-range 30 Function Personal Massager Wand Kit for just under sixty bucks and everything in between.
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