Finger Vibrators | Fingertip Vibrators for Foreplay Fun
Finger vibrators are a small nubby bullet style sex toy sleeve specifically designed to spice up your sex life. It's the perfect refresh if you're feeling bored with your same old bedroom routine and want to boost your personal pleasure.
Let's face it – sex becomes stale after a while. The joys of exciting erotic encounters give way to a comfortable routine. Comfort is great, but it lacks the pizzazz and spark that's present in a new relationship.
Not to fret however, all you need to do is familiarize yourself with the magic of a mini fingertip vibrator sleeve, rabbit or G spot finger dildos and open the door to exciting and erotic adult playtime romps.
Today we'll cover reasons why a couple should try a finger vibrator, a few tips to make it more fun, and offer examples of various styles of finger sex toys and dildos that will improve lovemaking by stimulating the clitoris during sex.
Begin Your Sexual Adventures With a Finger Vibrator
I often coach clients who have been married a long time, or are living common law for several years. They love each other dearly, but the romance is long gone and they are seeking ways to make sex fun again.
A finger vibrator is my top pick for a couple to incorporate into lovemaking. Why?
Finger sex toys are the most discreet of them all. They completely lack a phallic appearance, so women and even men who would feel awkward about bringing a life like looking penis dildo into the bedroom can enjoy this mini adult toy without a strange aura circling about. They are also very quiet!
As such, fingertip vibrators for women are the best option for newbies who would never normally consider a using typical phallic vibrator or dildo together. They are small, cute, colorful and very basic with a similar design to a bullet vibrator, but only with a built-in strap.
Another positive feature is the price tag. They are cheap in comparison to most other varieties to minimize the punch to your bank account. You can save that $100 dildo for another day.
Clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse is a sure fire way to increase pleasure and the hopes of timing orgasm to occur simultaneously. This is my number one reason to try any small vibrator for the clitoris. The device needs to be small enough to fit between the partner's bodies and vibrate directly on the clit.
It just so happens that's exactly what finger vibrators have! A curved tip that surrounds the clit in addition to the buzzing motor hidden underneath the nubby silicone or rubber surface that's greatly increases stimulation.
Fingertip Vibrators are Made for Great Sex
It might seem at first quite obvious what to do, but there are a few extra techniques that only a "Sexpert" knows! My loyal and dedicated blog readers enjoy my free advice, and I am just as happy to dish it out!
I previously published a guide with instructions on how to use a finger vibrator so I won't repeat this information again, but please check out that guide for full instructions to know what to do once you've received yours. It contains loads of awesome suggestions that you'll see in the photos here, such as the good 'ol "clit pincher" and the "G-spot rubber" just to name a few!
The focus now is the best sexual positions for your finger vibrator:
- Doggie Style
- Finger Sex
The most typical position for couples with a regular, routine sex life. Why? Because missionary is easy and ergonomic for our body shapes. Simple as that!
Finger sex toys are perfect for missionary position because all you need to do it place your hand over the groin, press the button to activate the motor, target the curved tip on the clit and lay there, sex as usual.
Except this time the vibration will stimulate you increasing sexual response and enhancing female libido. Easy-peesy!
In my opinion, this is the easiest position for a finger vibrator to target it's magic stimulation on her clit. The woman wears the vibrator on her finger tip, her partner has their hands free to maneuver her pelvis to their appropriate position for vaginal entry. This results in more precise pressure & movements since she is the one handling the device.
During foreplay, normally the partner will wear the vibrator on the index finger tip or thumb and massage their partner's body. When it comes time to reach an orgasm however, I like it best when the woman handles the toy because she knows exactly how to place it and how much pressure to use in order to enjoy a strong orgasm.
This is a very intimate position for wearing a fingertip vibrator because the partner can stimulate the nipples, massage the body in titillating fashion and stroke around the clitoris. Think of it as a tease, during a slow build up to the climax, avoid direct clitoral contact.
Spend some time teasing the nipples, a highly charge erogenous zone for women. This position also allows the woman to wear the vibrator on her finger and do the work herself if she prefers to maintain control.
I know what you're thinking – this is technically not sex – but I still think it counts! If you notice the demo photos I've posted alongside this information, you'll see that the thumb gets fully involved in stimulation. This is foreplay at its finest.
Finger sex is an important precursor to good lovemaking as its an ideal way for the couple to fully experience the joys of intimate pleasure. It's the perfect sharing of mind body & soul in preparation for the final act.
I encourage couples to enjoy finger sex during foreplay because it's a great way of prolonging your session. When you're trying to spice up the love life – quickies have to go! The slow anticipation of what's to come guarantees a fiery, climatic end for both of you.
Finger Dildo Shapes & Features
The egg vibrator is another close variant, but the most notable difference is eggs are hand held and lack a strap to fit it over your hand. They are purchased for similar reasons and share similar techniques, but are still a different subcategory of clit vibrators for women. Check out the aforementioned article for information about egg shaped vibrators.
The one thing all finger dildos have in common is that they have a strap that fits over a the index or thumb. From there however, various styles have different features that each provide a unique experience and sensation to the user. Here is a quick summary of the features and what that means for you:
- Small Fingertip Vibrators
- Ribbed or Nubby Finger Vibrators
- Non-Vibrating Finger Sex Toys
Covering literally only the tip of the finger, these are the smallest vibrators of any kind allowing the couple to use it with without having a cumbersome device between bodies during sex.
The mini size is often a popular feature shoppers look for, but the con is they are not capable of producing strong vibration compared ot the large ones, and are often rather weak.
Texture is always fun! When you slide the toy up & down within the labia, she'll enjoy this arousing texture; it an an excellent libido booster for her. Most finger dildos have texture of some kind. Soft bumps are more gentle, but firm bumps are more noticeable.
Which is a better choice? That decision is completely up tp personal preference. Personally, I think firm is better because you'll feel it more.
These are simply ribbed or bumpy finger sleeves that fit all the way down to the knuckle. The sleeves do not vibrate and are most often used for anal stimulation and/or male prostate stimulation.
This is the most hygienic way to enjoy anal fingering play. They are often heavily textured and the stiff rubbery surface is a delight when rubbed over the clit either up & down or in a circular motion.
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