10 Best Finger Vibrators, Dildos & Sex Toys

Last Updated on March 10, 2025

Finger vibrators & dildos are a godsend to as stale sex life - and perfect for couples who are curious about using sex toys but may feel uncomfortable bringing in something too weird for their standard or old fashioned tastes.

Let's face it – sex will likely become stale after a while. The joys of exciting erotic encounters give way to a comfortable routine. Comfort is great, but it lacks the pizzazz and spark that's present in a new relationship.

Today we'll cover reasons why a couple should try one of these tiny adult toys, a few tips to make it more fun, and offer examples of various styles of two finger sex toys and dildos that will improve lovemaking by stimulating the clitoris and vulva during sex.

What is a Finger Vibrator?

Small finger vibrators are a mini nubby clitoral bullet style sex toy sleeve that you wear on a hand. These tiny clit vibrators are specifically designed to spice up the sex life and make foreplay more interesting.

Fingering vibrators & sex toys can be used to stimulate any male or female erogenous zone and are perfect refresh if you're feeling bored with your same old bedroom routine and want to boost your sexual pleasure with clit stimulation.

Want to spice up your sex life with a super discreet vibrator ? All you need to do is familiarize yourself with the magic of a mini fingertip vibrator sleeve, rabbit or G spot finger dildos and open the door to exciting and erotic adult playtime romps.

Discreet Fun at your Finger Tips!

I often coach clients who have been married or living together a long time. They love each other dearly, but the romance is long gone and they are seeking ways to make sex fun again. The fingering vibrators are my top pick for a couple to incorporate into lovemaking. Why?

Finger sex toys are the most discreet of them all. They completely lack a phallic appearance, so women and even men who would feel awkward about bringing a life like looking penis dildo into the bedroom can enjoy this mini adult toy without a strange aura circling about. They are also very quiet!

As such, small fingertip vibrators for women are the best option for newbies who would never normally consider a using typical phallic adult toy together. These small clit stimulator toys are discreet, cute, colorful and very basic with a similar design to a bullet vibrator for the clitoris, but only with a built-in strap.

Another positive feature is the price tag. They are cheap in comparison to most other varieties to minimize the punch to your bank account. You can save that $100 dildo for another day.

Enhance Pleasure with Clit Stimulation

Clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse is a sure fire way to increase pleasure and the hopes of timing orgasm to occur simultaneously. This is my number one reason to try any small vibrator for the clitoris. The clitoral stimulatorneeds to be small enough to fit between the partner's bodies and vibrate directly on the clit.

It just so happens that's exactly what finger dildos have! A curved tip that surrounds the clit in addition to the buzzing motor hidden underneath the nubby silicone or rubber surface that's greatly increases stimulation.

Tailor Made for Great Sex

It might seem at first quite obvious what to do to enjoy great sex, but there are a few extra techniques that only a "Sexpert" knows! My loyal and dedicated blog readers enjoy my free advice, and I am just as happy to dish it out!

I previously published a guide with instructions on how to use a finger vibrator so please check out that guide for full instructions to know what to do once you've received yours! It contains loads of awesome suggestions that you'll see in the photos here, such as the good 'ol "clit pincher" and the "G-spot rubber" just to name a few! ~ Mayla Green

Sex Positions For Finger Vibrators:

Couples often ask how to incorporate fingering toys into sex. Here are my favorite 4 suggestions to try:

1. Missionary

The most typical position for couples with a regular, routine sex life. Why? Because missionary is easy and ergonomic for our body shapes. Simple as that!

Finger sex toys are perfect for missionary position because all you need to do it place your hand over the groin, press the button to activate the motor, target the curved tip on the clit and lay there, sex as usual. Except this time the vibration will stimulate you increasing sexual response and enhancing female libido. Easy-peesy!

2. Doggie Style

In my opinion, this is the easiest position for a one or two finger vibrator to target it's magic stimulation on her clit. The woman wears the vibrator on her finger tip, her partner has their hands free to maneuver her pelvis to their appropriate position for vaginal entry. This results in more precise pressure & movements since she is the one handling the device.

During foreplay, normally the partner will wear the toy on the index or middle finger tip or thumb and massage their partner's body. When it comes time to reach an orgasm however, I like it best when the woman handles the toy because she knows exactly how to place it and how much pressure to use in order to enjoy a strong orgasm.

3. Spooning

This is a very intimate position for wearing a fingertip vibrator because the partner can stimulate the nipples, massage the body in titillating fashion and stroke around the clitoris. Think of it as a tease, during a slow build up to the climax, avoid direct clitoral contact.

Spend some time teasing the nipples, a highly charge erogenous zone for women. This position also allows the woman to wear the vibrator on her hand and do the work herself if she prefers to maintain control.

4. Fingering Foreplay

I know what you're thinking – this is technically not sex – but I still think foreplay still counts! If you notice the demo photos I've posted alongside this information, you'll see that the thumb gets fully involved in stimulation. This is foreplay at its finest, shared vibrations for experimenting with new sensations on each other's erogenous zones.

Finger sex is an important precursor to good lovemaking as its an ideal way for the couple to fully experience the joys of intimate pleasure. It's the perfect sharing of mind body & soul in preparation for the final act.

I encourage couples to enjoy a finger sex toy during foreplay because it's a great way of prolonging your session. When you're trying to spice up the love life – quickies have to go! The slow anticipation of what's to come guarantees a fiery, climatic end for both of you.

My Favorite Finger Vibrators you Should Try!

Here are the best finger vibrators for beginners, tested and hand-picked by me! The selections in this list are perfect for foreplay and often my go-to sex toys for couples seeking something discreet to spice up the sex life.

If you're seeking something a little more on the kinky side, scroll past the list to the 3 types below consisting of two finger vibrators and dildos for internal vaginal use. The choices here are designed for clitoral stimulation (although you can certainly be creative and use them on the nipples of vaginal insertion too!)

4 Types of Finger Sex Toys

When originally introduced to the marketplace, the best finger sex toys were made for external clitoral stimulation. Now we're seeing cool new trends such as the double finger dildo and the G Spot finger vibrator and even an entire vibrating double glove that covers the whole hand! It's a kinky departure from the conventional and I think the new variety is awesome.

1. Fingertip Vibrator

Small Fingertip Vibrator is the best cheap sex toy for couples who have never tried one before. This type of finger vibrator is really small and typically used for either clitoral stimulation or nipple play.

They are compact and discreet, the the main disadvantage is because they are so small, they lack power compared to the bigger finger yous out there. Still, if you're looking for a good cheap vibrator to spice up the sex life, this mini couples vibrator is the perfect style to test out.

2. G Spot Finger Vibe

Frisky Fingering Vibrator is perfectly designed for vaginal insertion and for G-spot massage. The rounded and textured end has a contour that easily locates the G-spot.

Tight straps hold it snugly to your digits preventing it from sliding off while inside the body. This is my personal favorite G Spot finger dildo ever made, nice and stiff to deliver excellent pleasure. A completely self contained wearable vibrator even has a removable mini vibe so you can change the batteries.

3. Two Finger Vibrator

Two Finger Vibrator combines G-spot and clitoral massage is a secret to female sexual pleasure. Although the secret is out pretty much all adults know that, the NEW secret is to add the two finger vibrator to the mix.

While the hand curved inside the body (the required motion for G-spot massage) the palm of the hand presses the vibrating tongue hard against her clitoris and labia. The perpendicular vibrating bullet provides intense stimulation, surely enough for a fabulous orgasm.

4. Double Finger Vibe

Double Finger Dildo Vibrator Sleeve is a hardcore, heavy duty vibrating foreplay sex toy with a vibrator placed over the palm of the hand. The sheath is double size for the index and middle digit to fit together.

The front is a heavily ribbed gel rubber with limited flex so when your lover massages you internally, you'll feel all that texture at once. The G spot stimulator feels like a solid bump for maximum pressure. External vibration completes this super fun sex toy for couples.

Shapes & Features

The egg sex toy is another close variant, but the most notable difference is eggs are hand held and lack a strap to fit it over your hand. They are purchased for similar reasons and share similar techniques, but are still a different subcategory of clit vibrators for women. Check out the aforementioned article for information about egg shaped vibrators.

The one thing all fingering dildos have in common is that they have a strap that fits over a the index or thumb. From there however, various styles have different features that each provide a unique experience and sensation to the user. Here is a quick summary of the features and what that means for you:

• Small Fingertip Vibrators

Covering literally only the tip of the finger, these are the smallest vibrators of any kind allowing the couple to enjoy a sex toy with without having a cumbersome device between bodies during sex.

The mini size is often a popular feature shoppers look for, but the con is they are not capable of producing strong vibration compared ot the large ones, and are often rather weak.

• Ribbed or Nubby Fingering Vibrators

Texture is always fun! When you slide the toy up & down within the labia, she'll enjoy this arousing texture; it an an excellent libido booster for her. Most finger dildos have texture of some kind. Soft bumps are more gentle, but firm bumps are more noticeable.

Which is a better choice? That decision is completely up to personal sex toy preference, just like the decision between dildos and vibrators. Personally, I think firm is better because you'll feel it more.

• Non-Vibrating Finger Dildos

A ribbed or bumpy sheath that fits all the way down to the knuckle and often straps around the palm or wrist to keep it in place during vaginal insertion and/or G Spot stimulation. The sleeves do not vibrate and are most often used for anal stimulation and/or male prostate stimulation.

This is the most hygienic way to enjoy anal fingering play. They are often heavily textured and the stiff rubbery surface is a delight when rubbed over the clit either up & down or in a circular motion.