January 12, 2021 Mayla Green

Finger Vibrators | 8 Best Fingertip Vibrators for Foreplay

Last Updated on March 17, 2021

Finger vibrators are a small nubby bullet style sex toy sleeve specifically designed to spice up your sex life. It's the perfect refresh if you're feeling bored with your same old bedroom routine and want to boost your personal pleasure.

Let's face it – sex becomes stale after a while. The joys of exciting erotic encounters give way to a comfortable routine. Comfort is great, but it lacks the pizzazz and spark that's present in a new relationship.

Not to fret however, all you need to do is familiarize yourself with the magic of a mini fingertip vibrator sleeve, rabbit or G spot finger dildos and open the door to exciting and erotic adult playtime romps.

Today we'll cover reasons why a couple should try one of these tiny adult toys, a few tips to make it more fun, and offer examples of various styles of two finger sex toys and dildos that will improve lovemaking by stimulating the clitoris during sex.

Begin Your Sexual Adventures With a Finger Vibrator

I often coach clients who have been married a long time, or are living common law for several years. They love each other dearly, but the romance is long gone and they are seeking ways to make sex fun again.

A one or two finger vibrator is my top pick for a couple to incorporate into lovemaking. Why?

Finger sex toys are the most discreet of them all. They completely lack a phallic appearance, so women and even men who would feel awkward about bringing a life like looking penis dildo into the bedroom can enjoy this mini adult toy without a strange aura circling about. They are also very quiet!

As such, fingertip vibrators for women are the best option for newbies who would never normally consider a using typical phallic adult toy together. They are small, cute, colorful and very basic with a similar design to a bullet vibrator, but only with a built-in strap.

Another positive feature is the price tag. They are cheap in comparison to most other varieties to minimize the punch to your bank account. You can save that $100 dildo for another day.

Clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse is a sure fire way to increase pleasure and the hopes of timing orgasm to occur simultaneously. This is my number one reason to try any small vibrator for the clitoris. The clitoral stimulator needs to be small enough to fit between the partner's bodies and vibrate directly on the clit.

It just so happens that's exactly what finger dildos have! A curved tip that surrounds the clit in addition to the buzzing motor hidden underneath the nubby silicone or rubber surface that's greatly increases stimulation.

Fingertip Vibrators are Made for Great Sex

It might seem at first quite obvious what to do, but there are a few extra techniques that only a "Sexpert" knows! My loyal and dedicated blog readers enjoy my free advice, and I am just as happy to dish it out!

I previously published a guide with instructions on how to use a finger vibrator so I won't repeat this information again, but please check out that guide for full instructions to know what to do once you've received yours. It contains loads of awesome suggestions that you'll see in the photos here, such as the good 'ol "clit pincher" and the "G-spot rubber" just to name a few!

The focus now is the best sexual positions for your finger vibrator:

1. Missionary

The most typical position for couples with a regular, routine sex life. Why? Because missionary is easy and ergonomic for our body shapes. Simple as that!

Finger sex toys are perfect for missionary position because all you need to do it place your hand over the groin, press the button to activate the motor, target the curved tip on the clit and lay there, sex as usual.

Except this time the vibration will stimulate you increasing sexual response and enhancing female libido. Easy-peesy!

2. Doggie Style

In my opinion, this is the easiest position for a one or two finger vibrator to target it's magic stimulation on her clit. The woman wears the vibrator on her finger tip, her partner has their hands free to maneuver her pelvis to their appropriate position for vaginal entry. This results in more precise pressure & movements since she is the one handling the device.

During foreplay, normally the partner will wear the toy on the index finger tip or thumb and massage their partner's body. When it comes time to reach an orgasm however, I like it best when the woman handles the toy because she knows exactly how to place it and how much pressure to use in order to enjoy a strong orgasm.



3. Spooning

This is a very intimate position for wearing a fingertip vibrator because the partner can stimulate the nipples, massage the body in titillating fashion and stroke around the clitoris. Think of it as a tease, during a slow build up to the climax, avoid direct clitoral contact.

Spend some time teasing the nipples, a highly charge erogenous zone for women. This position also allows the woman to wear the vibrator on her hand and do the work herself if she prefers to maintain control.

4. Finger Sex

I know what you're thinking – this is technically not sex – but I still think it counts! If you notice the demo photos I've posted alongside this information, you'll see that the thumb gets fully involved in stimulation. This is foreplay at its finest, the perfect couples vibrator.

Finger sex is an important precursor to good lovemaking as its an ideal way for the couple to fully experience the joys of intimate pleasure. It's the perfect sharing of mind body & soul in preparation for the final act.

I encourage couples to enjoy finger sex during foreplay because it's a great way of prolonging your session. When you're trying to spice up the love life – quickies have to go! The slow anticipation of what's to come guarantees a fiery, climatic end for both of you.

Finger Dildo Shapes & Features

The egg vibrator is another close variant, but the most notable difference is eggs are hand held and lack a strap to fit it over your hand. They are purchased for similar reasons and share similar techniques, but are still a different subcategory of clit vibrators for women. Check out the aforementioned article for information about egg shaped vibrators.

The one thing all finger dildos have in common is that they have a strap that fits over a the index or thumb. From there however, various styles have different features that each provide a unique experience and sensation to the user. Here is a quick summary of the features and what that means for you:

• Small Fingertip Vibrators

Covering literally only the tip of the finger, these are the smallest vibrators of any kind allowing the couple to use it with without having a cumbersome device between bodies during sex.

The mini size is often a popular feature shoppers look for, but the con is they are not capable of producing strong vibration compared ot the large ones, and are often rather weak.

• Ribbed or Nubby Finger Vibrators

Texture is always fun! When you slide the toy up & down within the labia, she'll enjoy this arousing texture; it an an excellent libido booster for her. Most finger dildos have texture of some kind. Soft bumps are more gentle, but firm bumps are more noticeable.

Which is a better choice? That decision is completely up tp personal preference. Personally, I think firm is better because you'll feel it more.

• Non-Vibrating Finger Sex Toys

These are simply ribbed or bumpy finger sleeves that fit all the way down to the knuckle. The sleeves do not vibrate and are most often used for anal stimulation and/or male prostate stimulation.

This is the most hygienic way to enjoy anal fingering play. They are often heavily textured and the stiff rubbery surface is a delight when rubbed over the clit either up & down or in a circular motion.

Q. Can I Change the Batteries on my Finger Tip Vibrator?

A. Most are are designed to allow the user to access the battery compartment, typically these adult toys come with 2 separate parts – a finger sleeve and a small bullet vibrator. Remove the sleeve from the bullet and twist the cap to replace the batteries. If the battery compartment is not accessible, it will say so in the product description.

Newest Fingertip Sex Toy Innovations

When originally introduced to the marketplace, fingertip sex toys were made for external clitoral stimulation. Now we're seeing cool new trends such as the double finger vibrator, dual G-spot finger vibrator and the entire vibrating double glove that covers the whole hand!

Bang-Her G-Spot Finger Vibrator

Bang-Her G-Spot Finger Vibrator is perfectly designed for vaginal insertion and for G-spot massage. The rounded and textured end has a contour that easily locates the G-spot.

Tight straps hold it snugly to your digits preventing it from sliding off while inside the body. This is my personal favorite G-spot finger dildo ever made, nice and stiff to deliver excellent pleasure. Completely self contained and even has a removable vibrator so you can change the batteries.

Two Finger Vibrator

Combining G-spot and clitoral massage is a secret to female sexual pleasure. Although the secret is out pretty much all adults know that, the NEW secret is to add the two finger vibrator to the mix. Introducing the fabulous Two Finger Vibrator!

While the hand curved inside the body (the required motion for G-spot massage) the palm of the hand presses the vibrating tongue hard against her clitoris and labia. The perpendicular vibrating bullet provides intense stimulation, surely enough for a fabulous orgasm.

Double Finger G-Spot Sleeve

Double Finger G-Spot Sleeve is a hardcore, heavy duty vibrating two finger sleeve with a vibrator placed over the palm of the hand. The finger sleeve is double size for the index and middle digit.

The front is a heavily ribbed gel rubber with limited flex so when your lover massages you internally, you'll feel all that texture at once. The G spot stimulator feels like a solid bump for maximum pressure. External vibration completes this super fun sex toy for couples.

8 Best Finger Vibrators

If you're looking for a fingertip dildo with more traditional styling, we have plenty of those for sale! Check out my personal favorites below. These aren't hardcore like the ones above so they are perfect for beginners and first timers.

1. Fifty Shades Finger Vibrator

Inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey movie series, this jet black waterproof pleasure tool has minimal stretch on the top loop so it doesn't sag and/or slip away from where you're pointing.

Fifty Shades Finger Vibe is the firmest option of them all delivers a great buzz without loosing intensity through the high quality rigid silicone surface. This is the best finger vibrator in my opinion!

2. Finger Play Vibrator

A sturdy waterproof silicone sleeve available in 3 colors with firm spikes underneath the curve that grip the clit and provide a highly erotic texture when rubbing back and forth. A firm curve delivers superior pressure on your hot spot. Also great for female and male nipple play!

Finger Play Vibrator is one of the only multi function options that features 3 speeds and 5 patterns such as thumping, escalating, pulsing and slow roller coaster vibrating patterns.

3. Frisky Fingertip Vibe

Squishy soft just like jelly, the small waterproof Frisky Finger is covered in soft bumps to add a gentle, sensual texture while rubbing.

The steep curve feels decadently squishy on the body so this is the best finger vibrator for comfort. It's super quiet too and has 3 speeds operated by clicking the button on the base of the bullet. It is available in pink or purple.

4. Cloud 9 Fingertip Vibrator

Wider than the rest with long and flexible ticklers, Cloud 9 Finger Vibe offers superior texture and a “prickly” sensation which feels simply magnificent on the female clitoris.

A tiny wireless bullet is permanently nestled inside the plump sleeve and provides a higher intensity, high pitch tingle that has a powerful erotic impact on the nipples. The rounded head enters the vagina with a nice, blunt girth that has extra kink factor for her.

5. Lust Finger Sleeves

Looking for a cheap sexual aid for couples? Lust Sleeves are pocket change but bring great pleasure to your love life. They cover the entire area and are excellent for G spot stimulation and can be used anally too.

Make sure to add lots of lube and keep the sleeve dedicated to anal use should you insert it into the anus. They are extra wide inside to easily fit any hand size.

6. Screaming O Tips

Looking for a small finger vibrator? Extra soft Screaming O Tips are as small as it gets! In fact, they are one of the smallest vibrating adult toys ever made. The deeply ribbed surface “flaps” over the body when pressure is applied while you rub up & down.

It has an unmistakable sensation and lots of fun texture for such a tiny device. It is the most budget friendly of all mini sex toys for women too.

7. Finger Egg

An egg vibe is just as the name implies, a wide spherical toy that's almost as thick as it is long. The Finger Egg is solid with a soothing silicone layer over top and the vibrations spread nicely throughout the entire surface.

This one has the most coverage of all toys of this style. My favorite way to use: Place the egg in between the labia and tease the vagina during foreplay.

8. Finger Sleeves

A 4 pack of brilliantly colored, heavily textured Finger Sleeves that can be used anywhere. I literally mean anywhere! Keep 1 for the butt. 1 for the G spot. 1 for his prostate. 1 for the clitoris.

The natural curve is ergonomic for your hand position during body massage and sexual stimulation. A concave cut-out on the top to leaves the knuckles exposed so you can bend your fingers easily while doing your handiwork.

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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

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