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Sexy Christmas Gifts 2021 | Christmas Dildos & Sex Toys

Sexy Christmas Gifts 2021 | Christmas Dildos & Sex Toys

Last Updated on November 5, 2021

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Shop online for sexy Christmas gifts for women, men & couples. You'll find festive sex toys & dildos to surprise your lover with the perfect erotic gift or fun adult Christmas game for passionate & kinky holiday morning sex. From cheap, hilarious or romantic sexy stocking stuffers to luxurious pleasure-packed presents, this adult gift guide covers it all.

Introducing our highly anticipated 2021 sexy Christmas gift guide for him & her. It was made with love so you can assure the dildo, kinky gift or sexy game you'll be buying is a good one that your partner will love just as much as I do!

Some of the most important features that make the best sexy Christmas gifts are attractive packaging, red & green colors, product availability (which is an industry wide problem right now), value for the dollar, uniqueness, popularity, modern features including upcoming trends and the hottest “must-have” sex toys right now.

Best Christmas Dildos

Out of all Christmas sex toy gifts, dildos are the best seller. Why? It's no secret that bringing a dildo into the bedroom is a perfect way to fire up your love life. Dildos encourage the duo to enjoy lovemaking, slow down and spend more time on foreplay before intercourse. Simply put, dildos make your sex life more exciting by adding a sense of playfulness. They are not just for solo self-love anymore, they are interactive intimate accessories for both partners.

Christmas Cutie Vibrator

Christmas Cutie Vibrator

Christmas Cutie Vibrator  is one of the best sex toy gifts for Christmas. Fun and festive seamless and smooth plastic candy cane colored vibrator is super discreet, simple and budget friendly. It is the perfect sexy stocking stuffer for her. The box is decorated with festive printing and even has a gift tag printed on the front, no wrapping paper required!

Santa's Helper Christmas vibrator

Santa's Helper Christmas Vibrator

Santa's Helper Christmas Vibrator has the words “Touch Your Elf” are scripted in gold over the white seamless vibrator in a fancy and classy cursive font. It is the ideal sexy Christmas gift for women with a good sense of humor and a playful nature when it comes to sex. Double powered by 2 C batteries it has the might to stuff your stocking!

candy cane

Candy Cane Vibrator

Candy Cane Vibrator is one of the top Christmas dildos for women. The best part? It vibrates! Of course if you're seeking a non-vibrating toy, then just skip loading the batteries and keep the motor off. This fun little female sex toy is made of solid, smooth plastic with a tapered end. A great price makes this a top budget option for those shopping for sexy Christmas gifts for her on the cheap!

mr swirly glass dildo

Mr. Swirly Glass Dildo

Mr. Swirly Glass Dildo is a 7 inch long G-spot glass sex toy with a swirled festive dildo that looks like a candy cane. It's cheap compared to many others, but still made of the same shatterproof Pyrex style glass. The base has a rounded bulb that can be inserted into the body too and offers a contrast to the thin curved tip on the opposite end. The raised blue swirl has a ribbed texture; just enough to add a sensual pizzazz to the toy.

red head glass dildo

Red Head Glass Dildo

Red Head Glass Dildo is a hand blown piece of art that makes a wonderful Xmas dildo. This makes an excellent to choice because it's super discreet, very classy and totally sophisticated. The heavy feel and smooth glide is so different compared to anything else. The curve is great for the G-Spot and the flared spade shaped heads “pop” in and out of the body with a lusty sensation she'll crave.

Colours Small Rainbow Dildo

Colours Small Rainbow Dildo

Colours Small Rainbow Dildo is the prettiest and most colorful dildo with a modest size suitable for beginners and made of premium silicone. It stands with a slightly backwards tilted angle so it makes the perfect dildo for a strap on harness. Perfect for pride but also ideal for ladies who love the brilliantly colored stripes. A great choice for every girlfriend or wife!


Teardrop Vibrator

Teardrop Vibrator has a torpedo shaped head that gradually narrows to a thin neck. Not just a pretty look, but a perfectly shaped pleasure tool for serious erotic pleasure. When inserted into the vagina, all she'll focus on is the buzzing from within and not vaginal stretching. Full and complete internal stimulation like this is a powerful way for her to experience the finest in erotic self pleasure.

Pearlessence G Spot Vibrator

Pearlessence G Spot Vibrator

Pearlessence G Spot Vibrator is a fantastic kinky Christmas sex toy gift because it's cheap yet really good. One of those diamond-in-the-rough type of female vibrators, the steep curve effortlessly finds the G spot even if she's a beginner and this is her first vibrator ever. Discreet, totally non phallic and pretty glittered overlay make it a classy choice for Xmas.

Advanced Jack Rabbit Vibrator

Advanced Jack Rabbit Vibrator

Advanced Jack Rabbit Vibrator is by far the best rabbit vibrator in existence. There is no other capable of bringing a lady to orgasm so quickly. I'm speaking from personal experience here! Although technically not a Christmas dildo, this powerful sex toy is something that every women will cherish, so surprising her with it as a kinky Xmas gift is a wise choice she'll happily thank you for.

Petite Rabbit Peal Vibrator

Petite Rabbit Peal Vibrator

Petite Rabbit Peal Vibrator is the best rabbit vibrator in a small package. The super slim and small shaft is excellent for petite women and seniors who want to enjoy maximum sexual stimulation of a minimum size. If you think she'll cower at the size of the previous Advanced Rabbit, this is the perfect choice because it's much smaller, but just as powerful. Twirling head, tingling bunny and massaging pearls, it doesn't get any better than this!

Sexy Christmas Gifts for Him

These ideas for men are suitable for a boyfriend & husband. Add a dash of kinky fun, a good dose of erotic play and a fun sexual accessory to bring into the bedroom for the best Christmas sex of your life. Some of these are for his own personal pleasure time, but who's not to say you can't tuck in behind him and take part of the action?

head honcho

Head Honcho Masturbation Sleeve

Head Honcho Masturbation Sleeve is my top pick if you want to buy him a discreet male sex toy for Xmas. Trust me, it's the finest masturbation toy a guy could stick his dick into. It is soft just like jelly and doesn't look like a vagina. Suction chambers inside the tunnel increase suction as he jerks off. The build up simulates the feel of a blow job. Closed end helps to maintain this sucking sensation and also prevents him from making a mess all over the floor after he's done.

optimale vibro

Optimale Vibrating Sex Toy for Him

Optimale Vibrating Sex Toy for Him is the most advanced vibrating masturbator for men. It lavishes him in total style while paving the way for the most pleasurable well rounded orgasm. Want to give him a good masturbator but worry about awkwardness if he unwraps a realistic pocket pussy infront of you on? Buy the Optimale stroker. It's the best non-phallic masturbator for him with all the features he could ever ask for in a high quality luxury toy.

Pixel Tenga Masturbator

Pixel Tenga Masturbator

Pixel Tenga Masturbator is the best seller of the world's most famous male sex toy manufacturer, Tenga. Any dude will be lucky to get this as a sexy Christmas gift. Watch the video demo on the product page to see how it stretches. Ribbed texture, silky soft silicone and a closed end make this amazing masturbator the best thing he'll ever stick his dick into (besides you, of course!)

BJ Helper Blowjob Masturbator

BJ Helper Blowjob Masturbator

BJ Helper Blowjob Masturbator is a small stretchy tube that you use to stroke his erection while performing oral sex. Men love a blow job, but there's a whole second component that often goes ignored - the movement of the supporting hand. The partner holds the tube around the base of the shaft while performing magic on the head.

super 8 sling

Super 8 Sling & Penis Ring Combo

Super 8 Sling & Ring Combo is tailor made for enhancing male sexual pleasure. He'll benefit from increased enjoyment during masturbation and intercourse. Extra thick gummy soft bands completely surround his manhood and cradle the scrotum placing consistent even pressure throughout The concept seems simple, but it boosts orgasmic pleasure and intensity when its time to finish.

Large Weighted Cock Ring

Large Weighted Cock Ring

Large Weighted Cock Ring is a totally unique kinky Christmas gift for him. Adding weight around the dick while you masturbate is a highly erotic sensation. Adding this weight in the form of a swinging ball provides a substantial boost of unexpected pleasure. This is the large ball banger on steroids, a heavy ribbed swinging pendulum he's absolutely going to notice. During sex, the swinging ball hits his lover's thighs, adding an external tap that moves in rhythm with sex.

gun oil

Gun Oil Masturbation Lube

Gun Oil Masturbation Lube is a water based lubrication meaning it he won't need to take a shower after he's done to rinse it off. It comes in 3 sizes. Perfect for the man on the go, and also a great lube to use when you want to give him a little hand service to “clean out the pipes!” Super attractive masculine packaging makes this an ideal sexy Christmas gift for him.

Silicone Nipple Play Suckers

Silicone Nipple Play Suckers

Silicone Nipple Play Suckers are a superb idea because they introduce a man to the sensual enjoyment of nipple suction. Silky soft cups feel comfortable against the areola. Give it a squeeze and stick one to each of his nipples before mutual masturbation or sex. The best part? At under $11 they are a fun cheap sexy Christmas gift to encourage him to try something new.

Kinky Xmas Sex Toy Ideas for Him:

  • Pegging Toys - Pegging is a wildly kinky trend taking place in bedrooms across the USA. If he's expressed interest, check out our selection of excellent beginner pegging toys & accessories.
  • Penis Rings - Penis rings are no longer just made for men with ED, modern penis rings are made to enhance sexual pleasure during lovemaking & masturbation. Find cock & ball rings, stretchers and vibrating rings here too.
  • Masturbation Sleeves - Masturbators are non-phallic sex toys for men that are an excellent sexy Christmas idea. They do not look like an obvious fake vagina so you won't feel weird giving him this as an erotic adult gift for the holidays.

Sexy Christmas Gifts for Her

These ideas for women are suitable for a girlfriend & wife. Here you'll see a theme of passion, a sprinkle of romance and a good dose of magical sexual fun to create the finest erotic present a lady will adore. These unique Christmas dildos and sexual adult toy gifts are definitely more fun when both of you are playing together!

revitalize kit

Revitalize Clit Pleasure Kit

Revitalize Clit Pleasure Kit is a long time favorite for ladies because it comes with 3 solid yet smooth attachments each lending to a different sensation. The pocket rocket style vibrator and all 3 attachments have a warm velvety coating to add a touch of luxury while the shiny studded silver base has a retro inspired style. This fashionable super classy clitoral stimulator comes complete in a gift ready box set.

Mini Travel Wand

Mini Travel Wand Vibrator

Mini Travel Wand Vibrator is a discreet personal massager available in the most perfectly suited color of the season – Green! It has the most friendly appearance ensuring she won't be embarrassed about unwrapping this little fella. So tuck away together with this budget friendly small clitoral vibrator for women and enjoy a toasty warm encounter for 2.

Petite Satin G Spot Vibrator

Petite Satin G Spot Vibrator

Petite Satin G Spot Vibrator may be small, but even ladies who already own a plethora of vibrators will appreciate this one. I absolutely adore G-Spot vibrators with a large egg shaped tip and super skinny shaft. The egg shaped head contains a strong motor, and the wide swath makes it easy to locate the G-spot. Elegant silky feeling coating completes this wonderfully luxurious G-Spot toy.

remote vibrating panty

Remote Control Vibrating Panty

Remote Control Vibrating Panty is the only truly interactive sexy Christmas lingerie! This sexy lacy thong panty features a sewn in pouch that holds a mini vibrator. A separate remote control activates the motor and cycles through 20 various pulsating patterns. This can be worn in public, but if you use it someplace quiet others may hear. It's best to use in a park or someplace outdoors (like at an outdoor X-mas light festival). Let the kinky fun begin!

clit kisser

Clit Kisser Stimulator

Clit Kisser Stimulator has a sturdy and slippery jelly tongue that feel strikingly realistic, especially when well lubricated. Push the tongue into the vagina and enjoy the feel of those thick, luscious lips as they surround the labia and create a mild sucking sensation. A powerful tool for arousal and a top choice for gals with vaginal dryness or a low libido.

Satisfyer Pro 2

Satisfyer Pro 2

Satisfyer Pro 2, the next generation is one of the worlds most famous sex toys for women. It is a waterproof, USB rechargeable clitoral stimulator toy with a super discreet, non-phallic design. Inside its deep cup is a drum that pulses at hypersonic speeds. The resulting sensation is a brisk air pressure directly on the clitoris. Even though the toy is different compared to a clit sucker, it replicates a similar “sucking” sensation through its air pulsing action.

Candy Cane Clit Stimulator

Candy Cane Clit Stimulator

Candy Cane Clit Stimulator features long prong ends that separate a little to fit around the clitoris. The tips will press it like a flat clamp. Each tip has a tiny motor that tingles at a furious pace forcing powerful vibration directly into the clit from both sides. It's really silent, in fact one of the most quiet vibrators we've seen in a long time.


Sensuva Chocolate Arousal Oil

Sensuva Arousal Oil is made with a unique blend of pure essential oils & extracts. Does she have a low libido? A little goes a long way to create clitoral tingling which in turn makes the vagina naturally wet. When applied to the clitoris, it creates an exciting sensation that pulsates and vibrates the most sensitive part of her sensual body, and has a delicious chocolaty flavor for her partner to enjoy.

Kinky Xmas Sex Toy Ideas for Her:

  • Vibrators for Women - The most important goodie in any female sex toy collection, the buzzing pleasure of a vibrator is a fantastic sensation that just happens to be a magical addition to your sex life!
  • Dildos for Women - For a real kinky treat, give her a Christmas dildo! You'll find everything from realistic feeling dildos to curved & slippery colorful creations for a dash of fun in the bedroom.
  • Clitoral Stimulator Toys - A godsend for gals with a low libido or vaginal dryness. The ideal budget friendly sexy Christmas gift idea to rejuvenate the sex life. Perfect to enjoy together to enhance foreplay!

Sexy Stocking Stuffers

Here we'll find the best kinky suggestive ideas, cheap, simple & sexy stocking suffers for men, women & couples. Many of these items will generate a good laugh, as they border Christmas gag gift ideas territory, but once behind closed doors in privacy you'll discover they have purpose.

I love leaving funny and hilarious sexy stocking stuffers for my husband hanging on the fireplace mantle. Stockings are for fun anyway so they should be filled with silly things. It's a tradition at my home and hopefully you'll start your own too!

santa secret  coupon

Santa's Sex Position Coupons

Santa's Sex Position Coupons are the first I've seen with a holiday theme incorporating naughty Santa into the picture. It's a fabulous  naughty Christmas gag gift idea with a purpose. We love sex coupons because they know it guarantees several exciting sexual encounters! A tear away book with 20 different sex positions to redeem anytime you're feeling horny.

12 sex games of Christmas

12 Sex Games of Christmas

12 Sex Games of Christmas is a fun and flirty holiday themed spinner sex game for couples, and the ideal sexy stocking stuffer for your boyfriend or girlfriend. It doesn't need any convincing really, a holiday themed kinky sex game for a budget price inspires you to try new positions and activities in the bedroom.

sexy santa says

Sexy Santa Says Game

Sexy Santa Says Game is a kinky Xmas card game for lovers with extra naughty suggestions is a brand new addition for the 2021 holiday season. Featuring a year's worth of cards to keep the fun going all year long. Does your partner have a dirty sense of humor? Cards are hilarious and super naughty Christmas themed word play suggestions such as: “suck his north pole while Ms. Claus might want a finger in her figgy pudding.

Under the Mistletoe Sex Dice

Under the Mistletoe Sex Dice

Under the Mistletoe Sex Dice is the best sexy stocking stuffer with a naughty & kinky twist. Not only is it a hilarious Christmas sex novelty gift idea, but it is actually a playable game too. Roll they grey die to see who gets their turn. Roll the colored dice with naughty suggestions such as “suck dick” & “grind genitals” and get freaky!

Christmas themed sex crackers

Christmas Sex Crackers

Christmas Sex Crackers reveals a surprise collection of erotic novelties, sex games, and sex position cards. They make a great gift for a couple or for you to share with your significant other. A really fun festive adult sex novelty that makes an ideal stocking stuffer (the long yet narrow box shape fits just right inside a stocking, hint, hint!)

Reindeer Nipple Pasties

Reindeer Nipple Pasties

Reindeer Nipple Pasties are the perfect sexy Christmas gift for her! Edible candy pasties in festive cinnamon flavor are designed to stick to the nipples. Adorable and friendly looking reindeer cartoon adds the perfect playful attitude to your sex life!

Snowflake Nipple Pasties

Snowflake Nipple Pasties

Snowflake Nipple Pasties are the perfect sexy Christmas gift for her! Edible candy pasties in wintermint flavor are designed to stick to the nipples. Pretty and intricate snow flake shape covers the nipples just right!

Santa Nipple Pasties

Santa Nipple Pasties

Santa Nipple Pasties are the perfect sexy Christmas gift for her! Edible candy pasties in cherry flavor are designed to stick to the nipples. Cute and colorful cartoon Santa face with blushing cheeks.

Christmas Sex Toys for Couples

If you'd like to add a little “play” to your sex life, these fun Christmas sex toys for couples are suitable for gag gifts, but also totally practical and usable. Consider them a little inspiration for your holiday shopping!

frisky finger

Frisky Finger Vibrator

Frisky Finger Vibrator is my favorite suggestion for couples who want to try something new in the bedroom but want to keep it simple. For many partners, this is their first step in the door to sex toys. If you typically skip mutual masturbation and go directly to intercourse, this gem will teach you to slow it down and enjoy the intimate sharing of foreplay.

two finger vibrator

Two Finger Vibrator

Two Finger Vibrator is the best kinky Christmas gift for couples. Insert your fingers into the vagina for G-spot stimulation, and while you're moving your fingers in the “come here” motion, the palm of your hand will naturally press the vibrator against the clit. Woohoo!

Satisfyer Classic Couples Vibrator

Satisfyer Classic Couples Vibrator

Satisfyer Classic Couples Vibrator is the epitome of sexual sharing, both partners experience the same sensations at the same time. How is this possible? This sleek and low profile “U” shaped vibrator inserts partially into the vagina while the wider end rests over the pubic bone. The vibrations stimulate the clitoris and radiate down into the vaginal probe so that he'll feel tingling vibration on his penis too.

Double O Vibrating cock and ball ring

Double O Vibrating Cock Ring

Double O Vibrating Cock Ring  is a powerful, supercharged sexual enhancer for couples seeking a hands free way to add a thrilling buzzing vibration to sex. The vibrator is the longest on any cock ring of this type offering more complete vibration assuring full body to body vibration during intercourse.

Pleasure Tickler Vibrating Penis Ring

Pleasure Tickler Vibrating Ring

Pleasure Tickler Vibrating Ring  is the best sex toy gift for a curious first timer. It's super simple, super discreet and cheaply priced. The jelly soft ring stretches really far to fit any man's penis size. A thin pouch holds the tiny bullet vibrator in place and produces a wonderful tingle to enhance the pleasures of sex.

Ram Rod Vibrating Penis Sleeve

Ram Rod Vibrating Penis Sleeve

Ram Rod Vibrating Penis Sleeve is the first and only option with a vibrator directly on his shaft! This maximizes stimulation for both partners. More vibration = more power & pleasure. He'll enjoy a powerful tingle across the entire length of his cock. She'll enjoy internal vibration that moves in & out matching the rhythm of sex. 

Ribbed Sextender Vibrating Penis Extension

Ribbed Sextender Vibrating Extension

Ribbed Sextender Vibrating Extension is a vibrating penis sleeve that adds a spark into the bedroom for a minimal price. The mega stretchy sleeve has a jelly soft consistency. The natural flared shape fits his erection perfectly and the deeply ribbed surface adds an erotic texture for the receiver during penetrations.

door cuffs

Door Cuffs

Door Cuffs are an original and creative way to add some kink factor to your sex life. Let our your secret S&M fantasies this holiday season. Excellent to use in combination with other sex toys, you can turn your bedroom into an erotic playground of sensual bondage and dominance. Easy to install on any door in your house!

sexy 6

Sexy 6 Foreplay Dice

Sexy 6 Foreplay Dice is sex dice on steroids! They goo far and beyond your typical “kiss here” and “lick there” boring suggestions. Some may think dice are strictly Christmas gag gift ideas, but the reality is they are handy to have around when you're horny and in a frisky mood. This is a complete 6 part sex dice game that encourages a duo to stay a little longer on the foreplay phase before rushing onto sex.

Sex Scenarios

Sex Scenarios Game

Sex Scenarios Game is a role play game with 60 cards each depicting a different scenario. Embrace your adventurous and playful side as you assume out-of-the-ordinary personas and experiment with a wide range of mischievous sexual activities and scenarios. Get into character and act out some of your secret fantasies!

Jo Gelato Edible Lube

Jo Gelato Edible Lube

Jo Gelato Edible Lube is the most delicious edible lube we've ever seen, all 7 flavors have been inspired by chocolaty coffeehouse favorites! If you're bored of the oh-so ordinary and way too common fruit flavored edible lube, we've proud to announce the release of the new line of desert flavored edible lube from System Jo.

peppermint lube

Peppermint Cooling Lube

Peppermint Cooling Lube is one of the finest fluids out there providing a fresh chilly tingle while dosing your body with a vividly wonderful peppermint scent. Peppermint flavored ANYTHING is the most naturally perfect sexy stocking stuffer for Xmas! I personally adore this formula. Condom & sex toy safe.

Erotic & Kinky Adult Christmas Gift Ideas for Couples:

  • Sex Accessories & Novelties - Edible treats, massage oils, arousal creams, silly and funny adult gag gifts, this section is a treasure trove of good times to be had by all. Clever, creative & adventurous gifts for him & her.
  • Strap On Dildos - If kinky is the name of your game, check out our vast collection of strap on dildo kits for sale. You can also buy a harness and make your own kit with one of the compatible attachments.
  • Vibrators - No longer just a sex toy for single women, couples across the USA are getting to know the powerful orgasmic potential of incorporating a vibrator into foreplay and lovemaking.

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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

View all articles published by Mayla Green exclusively for The Adult Toy Shop sex blog and Mayla Green's Pressfolio to follow her newest & trending content published online.

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