June 1, 2020 Mayla Green

Vibrating Strap On Dildos | The Essential Buyers Guide

Last Updated on January 13, 2021

Strap on dildo sex is an exciting way for couples to add spice to the sex life. I don't mean to be cliché, but after you've lived happily married with your husband or wife for the past several years, the sex life becomes stagnant and repetitive.

Vibrating strap ons are a way to add more buzz, extra pleasure and more powerful stimulation. Many couples have already been enjoying vibrators & dildos together and their adult toy box is stocked full of vibrating sex toys, so its no surprise that the best strapon penis they choose should vibrate too.

If you're a total newbie, you might be asking “what is a strap on?” This guide explains everything you need to know and tells you the correct way to use them, put it on etc. so I'll skip all that and just dive into the best vibrating strap ons for couples, and we'll explore a few different types of small, double sided, hollow, large, strapless & dual vibrating strap on dildos for exciting sex.

How to Choose a Vibrating Strapon Dildo?

No two vibrating strapon dildos are created equal, so you should take into consideration the following points before starting your search online:

1. Note the maximum waist size to make sure the harness will fit your body.
2. Double ended and dual vibrating strap ons can only be worn by a woman.
3. Choose a crotchless harness or a style with thigh & waist straps if it will be worn by a man.
4. Should the vibration be felt by the giver, receiver or both partners? Motor placement varies!
5. Note the size of the dildo attachment. Some are small for pegging, others are large for fetish fantasy sex.
6. If the interior of the dildo is hollow, it can be worn by men with erectile dysfunction, there is room for his flaccid penis to rest inside.
7. Wireless motors are hands-free, but corded battery controller units are capable of producing more power.

How to Customize your Vibrating Strap On

Unfortunately, a strap on dildo that vibrates is out of the norm. If I were in charge of the sex toy gods, I would create more with motors because vibration is a great way to enhance sexual pleasure!

Luckily however, I come prepared with the knowledge to customize a vibrating strapon dildo kit to tailor to any couples specific desires. Below you'll find some of my favorite combinations that include a harness belt and a realistic dildo vibrator.

The only feature you'll be missing by combining a separate vibrator with a harness is that the wired battery compartment will lack a clip to connect it to the belt. Now to follow with a question I'm often asked:

Q. How do I attach the battery/speed controller unit to the harness?

A. The easiest workaround is to tuck it inside the waistband or behind the harness backing itself. Alternatively, you can just lay the controller unit on the bed next to you. The cords are long, 2 feet is a typical length so it will keep well out of the way.

Step 1 - Pick Your Strap On

Visit the Sex Harnesses category page to select a harness. Any style with an O ring or circular shaped cut-out will work. Most of them include various interchangeable O ring sizes to accommodate a vast range of dildo girths.

Each product description lists the size of the O ring's interior diameter. When you select a dildo vibrator, make sure the girth (width) is equal or less than the interior diameter of the strap on's ring.

Step 2 – Pick Your Vibrating Dildo

Visit the Suction Cup Vibrator page to select an attachment. What makes suction cup vibrators suitable for this purpose? The circular flared base is ideally shaped to attach to a strap on. There are 2 ways to attach the suction cup toy:

1. Push the cup through the ring.
2. Slide the shaft through the ring.

Mayla's 3 Favorite Vibrating Strap on Dildo Attachments:

1. American Penis Vibrator

All power, all performance. The medium sized American Penis Vibrator is a sturdy rubber penis shaped vibrator and the best vibrating strap on attachment of all time, hands down. It fits better than styles with balls since there is nothing to impede the shaft's support in the O ring. An even girth is perfect for fast, hard sex.

2. Large Curved Dildo Vibrator

The perfect G Spot vibrator for your strapon. Large Curved Dildo Vibrator features an upwards angle that is one of the most ergonomic fits for couples during sexual intercourse. It's easy to insert because the head faces up, so couples who enjoy changing positions frequently really like this attachment. Extra powerful motor places this toy in a solid 2nd place.

3. Knight Vibrator

The most amazing mushroom head I've ever seen. Knight Vibrator is all about pleasure providing an over exaggerated sensation during sex. Long sturdy veined shaft, extremely powerful vibration and of course that wild circumcised penis head is a godsend for a woman's sex life. Yes, I speak from personal experience!

What is The Best Vibrating Strap On?

The best vibrating strap on dildo is one that gives the most pleasure to the receiver. After all, the purpose for using a strap-on dildo in the first place is to please the partner on the receiving end! Of course this is just a general guideline and the one you ultimately choose will be the best suited to your personal erotic desires.

The best vibrating strap on penis for you is not necessarily the same best choice for the next guy. Maybe Joe & Jane are looking specifically for a strap on penis for men. I mustn't forget Tina & Tom who are curious about back door experiences and want to try a first time vibrating pegging kit.

Perhaps Bob & Sue want one that is life like, ultra powerful and feels super realistic. Different strapon types suit different folks! As such, I'll list out my favorites based upon criteria that differs in design, and therefore, differs in usage and function.

5 Most Popular Vibrating Strap On Dildos

This type implies the dildo attachment vibrates, not the harness. Typically, the motors are placed near the end of the shaft for deep internal vibration. The majority of styles feature vibrating attachments of various sizes, functions and levels of realism. Materials range from rubber to silicone while harnesses come in all waists sizes from small or petite to plus size.

1. American Vibrating Strapon

• Sized & detailed to look like a real penis
• Incredibly powerful 3 speed motor
• Adjustable waist straps fit plus size wearers
• Most comfortable harness for men to wear

2. Whopper Vibrating Strap-On

• Curved for female G-Spot & male P-Spot stimulation
• The most powerful 3 speed motor of them all
• Choose from a 7 inch or 9 inch dildo
• Long nylon straps can accommodate plus size bodies

3. Vibro Small Strap On Penis

• The smallest vibrating strapon dildo for sale
• Cheap price ideal for budget minded shoppers
• A popular choice for anal pegging sex
• Removable probe for easy cleaning

4. Curved Vibrating Strap-on

• Steeply curved realistic looking shaft
• Available in brown or black skin tones
• Extra supportive adjustable unisex harness
• Includes 2 metal harness rings for other attachments

5. Penetrix Vibro

• Tiny vibrating pegging probe best for first timers
• Simple, sleek thong style design
• Lightweight yet stiff probe never sags
• Battery controller has a clip to attach to the belt

5 Best Selling Vibrating Hollow Strap Ons

The best choice for men who cannot get a full erection as the dildo is firm enough for penetration on its own. The vibration originates from the filled tip just under the penis shaped head and spreads nicely throughout the shaft. Both partners will enjoy the buzzing sensation simultaneously from a vibrating hollow strap on dildo.

1. Vibrating Hollow Strap On for Men

• Most budget friendly hollow vibrating strapon
• Smallest length & girth of all hollow strapons
• Multi speed vibration settings
• Soft interior supports his flaccid penis

2. Vibrating 7 Inch Hollow Dildo

• Curved shaft for G-Spot contact
• Padded interior supports his flaccid penis
• Measures 7 inches long, 1 ¾ inches wide
• Can be used & worn by both men & women

3. Vibrating 9 Inch Hollow Dildo

• Firm shaft does not require an erection for support
• Wide elastic waistband stays in place
• Motor in the penis head for deep stimulation
• Available in brown or beige color

4. Vibrating Hollow Medium

• Smooth 8 inch long shaft
• Thick 2 inch wide girth, one of the widest
• Multi speed vibration settings
• Available in 3 colors: black, brown & beige

5. Vibrating Hollow XL Penis

• 10 inch long rubber shaft
• Padded interior supports his flaccid penis
• Can be worn & used by both men & women
• Bendable shaft for superior comfort

Most Powerful Double Vibrating Strap Ons

Dual motors combine to spread the buzzing sensation throughout the device. The first motor stimulates the wearer's clitoris or pelvis while a second motor is used for vaginal stimulation during sex. The double sided and double ended vibrating strap on features a smaller probe attached to the harness that inserts like a plug into the wearer's vagina. This style is the best choice for lesbians.

1. Betty's Vibrating Strap-On Dildo

• Flexible, soft dildo
• 2 powerful motors with independent controls
• Removable straps for easy cleaning
• Firm textured bumps stimulate her clitoris

2. Venus Butterfly Strap On

• Powerful independently controlled dual motors
• Butterfly shaped clitoral stimulator for her
• Stretchy elastic waistband fits up to a 56 inch waist
• Sleek & slimline elegant feminine design

3. Vibrating Double Sided Strap On

• Double sided strap on with vaginal plug for women
• Smaller probe can be adjusted along the harness base
• Super sexy thick & durable imitation leather belt
• Dual motors (one in each attachment)

Vibrating Strapless Strap On

Totally unlike any other sex toy for couples, the vibrating strapless strap on features a perpendicular vaginal probe permanently attached to the main penis dildo. Instead of strapping around the waist, the probe inserts into the vagina while the Kegel muscles hold it in place.

Not necessarily a practical option, (they fall out of the vagina quite easily), but for partners seeking something inventive, creative and off the wall, the strapless dildo is a fun choice! Alternatively, it could mean a sleeve that a man wears on his erection. If this is what you're meaning, try using a vibrating cock sleeve for hands free stimulation during intercourse.

1. Simply Strapless Dildo

• Largest vibrating strapless dildo for women
• Wireless & hands-free operation
• Bullet vibe features 3 speeds & 5 pulsating patterns
• Upward curved shaft for easy & fast penetration

2. Strapless Strap On

• Large spiraled vaginal plug is the easiest to hold in
• Unscented, flexible TPE silicone strapless dildo
• Self contained multi speed vibrations
• Motor located in the tip for intense stimulation

The Harness that Vibrates

Some harnesses vibrate, well in actuality, not the actual harness itself, but there is a small pouch hidden in the fabric where a separate bullet vibrator tucks away to add discreet vibration for the wearer. If you choose to add a second vibrating dildo to the mix, both partners now enjoy additional stimulation!

1. Fantasy Vibro Strap On

• Pouch in the harness fabric holds a mini vibrator
• Heavy duty nylon belt adjusts in 4 places
• Extra soft & flexible spiraled attachment
• Unisex design can be worn by both men & women

2. Remote Control Strap On

• Hollow interior supports a man's un-erect penis
• Firm & sturdy shaft for hard thrusting
• Remote control operation with a 10 foot range
• 3 powerful speeds & 7 pulsating patterns / functions

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Mayla Green

Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products. She also coaches clients how to fully enjoy sexual pleasure and can be seen in major publications & magazines online.

Happily married since 2009, she knows firsthand how the sex life eventually becomes repetitive (which truthfully means boring), so if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, Mayla's your gal! Her literary pride & joy is covering topics for established couples needing inspiration to keep lovemaking exciting and fun.

Not in a relationship? Her other focus is teaching women how to properly handle the “little person in the canoe” to experience the best orgasms ever, no partner required! Her creative and innovative tips, techniques and advice is on par with a certified sex therapist or Sexologist, but with an extra advantage from her knowledge of the adult toy business.

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