Your Guide To Vibrating Strap on Dildos
Last Updated on February 14, 2025
Strap on vibrator sex is an exciting way for couples to add spice to the sex life and enhance sexual pleasure. I don't mean to be cliché, but after you've lived happily married with your husband or wife for the past several years, the sex life becomes stagnant and repetitive.
Precisely, this is where the vibrating strap on dildo can be your sex life savior adding some kink and excitement.
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Dual pleasure vibrating strap ons are a prefect way to add more buzz and powerful stimulation. Many couples have already been enjoying vibrating strap on dildos, vibrators & dildos together and their adult toy box is stocked full of vibrating sex toys, so its no surprise that the strapless strap on or harness they choose should vibrate too.
This guide explains everything you need to know and tells you the correct way to use them, put it on etc. so I'll skip all that and just dive into the best vibrating strap ons for couples, and we'll explore a few different types of small, double sided, hollow, large, strapless & dual vibrating strap on dildos for exciting orgasmic pleasure.
Our Favorite Vibrating Strap On Dildos
If you'd like a recommendation for the best strap on, the products below are our staff picks. Please note that only dildo attachment vibrates, not the strap on harness itself. Typically, the motors are placed near the end of the shaft for deep internal vaginal vibration, so it will feel similar to a typical womens vibrator. If it has a curve, expect G-spot stimulation for a thrilling orgasm.
The majority of strap on harness styles feature vibrating attachments of various sizes, functions and levels of realism. Materials range from rubber to silicone while harnesses come in all waists sizes from small or petite to XL plus size.
American Vibrating Strapon - $68.99
American Vibrating Strapon is the best vibrating strap on for sale, and our most popular in the sex toy category as a whole. For good reason too, thew sturdy non-slip harness is unisex for both men and women to wear making it applicable for everybody seeking a bit more fun in the sack.
The penis shaped vibrator is sturdy yet pliable rubber that inserts easily into the vagina with minimal handiwork required. Extraordinarily powerful vibration complete this amazing sex toy for couples. The personal favorite top-of-the-heap selection you'll love, I promise!
Product Specifications
- Dildo Length: 7 inches
- Dildo Diameter: Ranges between 1 3/8 - 1 1/2 inches
- Dildo Material: PVC
- Latex Free: Yes
- Phthalates Free: Yes
- Strap-on Maximum Waist Size: 66 inches
- Strap-on Harness Material: Polyurethane PU fabric, Metal snaps, Nylon straps, Plastic buckles, Metal O-rings
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Whopper Vibrating Strap On - $68.99
Whopper Vibrating Strap On features a steeply curved vibrating dildo best for G Spot stimulation. There is another reason the upwards curve makes this the best strap on vibrator for couples: It is easy to insert into the body regardless of sexual positions.
The G spot vibrator has an ergonomically friendly angle for hot and heavy active penetrative sex effortlessly stimulating the G spot upon vaginal penetration. Wildly powerful motor completes this fantastic sex toy for kinky nights of orgasmic pleasure.
Product Specifications
- Dildo Length: 6 1/2 inches
- Insertable Length: 5 1/2 inches
- Dildo Diameter: Ranges between 1 1/4 – 1 3/8 inches
- Dildo Material: PVC
- Latex Free: Yes
- Phthalates Free: Yes
- Strap-on Maximum Waist Size: 66 inches
- Strap-on Harness Material: Polyurethane PU fabric, Metal snaps, Nylon straps, Plastic buckles, Metal O-rings
- Batteries: 3 AA, not included
- Motor: 3 speeds
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Vibrating 5 Inch Whopper Strap On - $72.99
Vibrating 5 Inch Whopper Strap On is my best vibrator strapon for pegging sex. Why? It is the smallest of all vibrator strap ons and provides men with intense prostate pleasure during pegging sex. The imitation leather harness has a darkly demure feminine kink factor too.
Turn around to spot the highly erotic detailing, most notably the braided corset inspired tie at the back. Scalloped harness edges contour the body better and create a highly erotic visual appearance when worn.
Product Specifications
- Dildo Total Length: 5 inches
- Insertable Length: 4 1/2 inches
- Dildo Diameter: 1 inch across the head, 1 1/8 inches mid shaft
- Dildo Material: PVC
- Batteries: 3 AA, not included
- Motor: 3 speeds
- Latex Free: Yes
- Phthalates Free: Yes
- Strap-on Maximum Waist Size: 52 inches
- Strap-on Harness Material: Imitation leather harness, metal O rings
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Betty's Vibrating Strap On Dildo - $52.99
Betty's Vibrating Strap On Dildo seems at first glance to be basic and downright old-fashioned looking, but the sex toy manufacturer got it right the first time and never needed to modify it in any way. Yes, it HAS been around for decades. In fact, your grandma may have enjoyed this in her spry times in the past.
This odd looking couples sex toy is mega powerful. The vibrations pass through the surface right into your body; thanks to the dual motors it is one of the strongest strap on dildo vibrators we've seen.
Product Specifications
- Dildo Length: 9 inches
- Dildo Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
- Dildo Material: PVC
- Latex Free: Yes
- Phthalates Free: Yes
- Strap-on Maximum waist size: 42 inches
- Strap-on Maximum thigh size: 36 inches
- Strap-on Harness Material: Elastic band, Metal snaps, Plastic buckles
- Batteries: 3 AA, not included
- Motor: 2 multi-speed motors, each independently controlled
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Venus Butterfly Dildo Strap On - $59.99
Venus Butterfly Dildo Strap On is hardcore and heavy duty. A stiff, thick and big vibrating butterfly strap on with spiky butterfly body that stimulates the wearer. The butterfly dildo also has its own vibrating motor.
The sturdy shaft has its own motor too and each are independently controlled on the corded battery controller unit. Simple elastic waistband doesn't add visual bulk, although our sex toy testers found the vibrator heavy and a helping hand is required especially in those active fantasy sexual encounters.
Product Specifications
- Dildo Length: 6 inches
- Dildo Diameter: 1 1/2 inches wide by 1 5/8 inches high
- Butterfly Diameter: 3 1/4 inches wide
- Dildo Material: PVC
- Latex Free: Yes
- Phthalates Free: Yes
- Strap-on Maximum waist size: 56 inches
- Strap-on Maximum thigh size: 28 inches
- Strap-on Material:Elastic, metal rivets, plastic buckles
- Batteries: 3 AA, not included
- Motor: Double 5 speed motors, each independently controlled
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Vibrating Double Sided Strap On - $106.99
Vibrating Double Sided Strap On is a highly complex and customizeable dual vibrating strap ons with two separate vibrators. This can only be worn by lesbian couples, the vaginal plug would obviously get in the way if a man tried to wear the harness.
Each dildo connects to the harness with metal snaps assuring they will never stay from their intended spot. The vaginal plug can move back and forth on double thong-style "rails" allowing each woman to get the correct angle for vaginal insertion.
Product Specifications
- Dildo Length: 7 inches
- Dildo Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
- Vaginal Plug Length: 3 1/4 inches
- Vaginal Plug Diameter: 1 1/2 inches
- Material: Firm PVC
- Latex Free: Yes
- Phthalates Free: Yes
- Strap-on Maximum waist size: 60 inches
- Strap-on Harness Material: Hemmed PVC, metal buckles
- Batteries: 3 AA, not included
- Motor: 3 speeds
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Customizing your Vibrating Strap On
Unfortunately, a strap on dildo that vibrates is out of the norm. If I were in charge of the sex toy gods, I would create more with double vibrating motors because one with a motor or two is a great way to enhance sexual pleasure!
Luckily however, I come prepared with the knowledge to customize a strap on vibrator kit to tailor to any couples specific desires. Below you'll find some of my favorite combinations that include a harness belt and a realistic dildo vibrator.
The only feature you'll be missing by combining a separate vibrator with a harness is that the wired battery compartment will lack a clip to connect it to the belt. Now to follow with a question I'm often asked:
How do I attach the corded battery controller unit to the harness?
The easiest workaround for attaching the controller unit to your vibrating strap on harness is to tuck it inside the waistband or behind the harness backing itself. Alternatively, you can just lay the controller unit on the bed next to you. The cords are long, 2 feet is a typical length so it will keep well out of the way during sex play.
Step 1 - Pick Your Strap On Harness
Visit the Strap on Harness category page to select a harness. Any style with an O ring or circular shaped cut-out will work. Most of them include various interchangeable O ring sizes to accommodate a vast range of dildo girths.
Each product description lists the size of the O ring's interior diameter. When you select a dildo vibrator, make sure the girth (width) is equal or less than the interior diameter of the strap on's ring.
Step 2 – Pick Your Vibrating Dildo
Visit the Vibrating Dildo category to select any attachment with a suction cup base. What makes suction cup vibrators suitable for this purpose? The circular flared base is ideally shaped to attach to a strap on. There are 2 ways to attach the suction cup toy:
- Push the cup through the ring.
- Slide the shaft through the ring.
Vibrating Dildo Attachments:
1. American Penis Vibrator Dildo
All power, all performance. These sturdy rubber penis shaped vibrators are the best vibrating strap on attachments of all time, hands down. They fit your harness better than dildos with balls since there is nothing to impede the shaft's support in the O ring. An even, modest girth is perfect for fast, hard sex in your choice of sizes.
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2. Curved Vibrating G Spot Dildo
Both feature an upwards angle that is one of the most ergonomic fits for couples during sexual intercourse. It's easy to insert because the head faces up, so couples who enjoy changing positions frequently really like this attachment. Extra powerful motor makes this a perfect G Spot vibrator for your strapon.
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3. King Cock Vibrating Suction Cup Dildo
King cock is pretty much tailor made for using with a harness O ring. The suction cup base is made of plastic and keeps the shaft securely in place. Unscrew the base to load the batteries, then screw the cup on again to attach it. Tighten it further to activate the motor and let the good times roll!
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4. Knight Realistic Vibrator
Knight Realistic Vibrator has the most amazing mushroom head I've ever seen. It is all about pleasure providing an over exaggerated sensation during sex. Long sturdy veined shaft, extremely powerful vibration and of course that wild circumcised penis head is a godsend for the sex life!
5. Loverboy Realistic Vibrating Dildo
Loverboy Realistic Vibrating Dildo is a fantastic rubbery feeling lifelike looking attachment with the most luscious mushroom head and a stocky medium sized shaft. It's not too big, but with a maximum girth of 1 3/4 inches across, he has enough girth to fulfill your erotic desires... pun certainly intended, of course!
6. Throb Big Vibrating Harness Dildo
Throb Big Vibrating Harness Dildo is a large, long and lusty attachment for your strap on harness. Sure you've probably seen this familiar shape before, but this one is supercharged for your sex life thanks to its vibrating motor! The motor vibrates very quietly so there's never any buzzing distraction during fantasy playtime. It is located about 2 1/2 inches beneath the penis head.
Vibrating Strapless Strap Ons
Totally unlike any other sex toy for couples, the vibrating strapless strap on features a perpendicular vaginal probe permanently attached to the main penis dildo. Instead of strapping around the waist, the probe inserts into the vagina while the Kegel muscles hold it in place.
Not necessarily a practical option, (they fall out of the vagina quite easily), but for partners seeking something inventive, creative and off the wall, the strapless dildo is a fun choice.
Simply Vibrating Strapless Strap On has a perfect ergonomic design that really works. The bulbous vaginal plug stays in the vagina better than other with a slim shape. It's kind of like a butt plug - the large diameter stays inside while the skinny neck stays inside the opening.
- Largest vibrating strapless dildo for women
- Wireless & hands-free operation
- Bullet vibe features 3 speeds & 5 pulsating patterns
- Upward curved shaft for easy & fast penetration
Vibrating Strapless Strap On literally connects two people sharing pleasure in every true sense of the word, your thrust will be her thrust, movements and mood equally felt. An original strapless vibrating strap on with a motor for the receiver (the spiraled and rounded vaginal plug does not vibrate.) Both ends are very flexible for better comfort.
- Large spiraled vaginal plug is the easiest to hold in
- Unscented, flexible TPE silicone strapless dildo
- Self contained multi speed vibrations
- Motor located in the tip for intense stimulation
Vibrating Hollow Strap Ons
The hollow strap on with vibrator is the best choice for men who cannot get a full erection as the dildo is firm enough for penetration on its own. The vibration originates from the filled tip just under the penis shaped head and spreads nicely throughout the shaft. Both partners will enjoy the buzzing sensation simultaneously from a vibrating hollow strap on dildo.
Vibrating Hollow Strap On for Men is a personal top suggestion for men with erectile dysfunction who are looking for a vibrating hollow strap on dildo to really make an impact during lovemaking.
- Most budget friendly hollow vibrating strapon
- Smallest length & girth of all hollow strapons
- Multi speed vibration settings
- Soft interior supports his flaccid penis
Vibrating 7 Inch Hollow Dildo features a hollow core won't collapse on itself, it stays firm enough to retain its shape. It can bend, but we'd mostly describe this dildo as "firm". Inside the hole, a soft rubbery layer holds his un-erect penis comfortably.
- Curved shaft for G-Spot contact
- Padded interior supports his flaccid penis
- Measures 7 inches long, 1 ¾ inches wide
- Can be used & worn by both men & women
Vibrating 9 Inch Hollow Dildo has an elastic waistband that holds the device in place securely, and the elastic that run beneath the legs can be adjusted to modify his fit without pinching the scrotum.
- Firm shaft does not require an erection for support
- Wide elastic waistband stays in place
- Motor in the penis head for deep stimulation
- Available in brown or beige color
Vibrating Hollow Medium has is enough space inside for a semi-eret penis too, but the device is stable enough to be worn if a guy is completely flaccid, it's also suitable for women to wear.
- Smooth 8 inch long shaft
- Thick 2 inch wide girth, one of the widest
- Multi speed vibration settings
- Available in 3 colors: black, brown & beige
Vibrating Hollow XL Penis has a wide elastic waistband that stays in place while the padded backing opens to a hollow center to cradle the penis. The sturdy rubber dildo bends slightly at the tip, but feels mostly firm.
- 10 inch long rubber shaft
- Padded interior supports his flaccid penis
- Can be worn & used by both men & women
- Bendable shaft for superior comfort
Strap On Harnesses that Vibrate
Some harnesses vibrate, well in actuality, not the actual harness itself, but there is a small pouch hidden in the fabric where a separate bullet vibrator tucks away to add discreet vibration for the wearer. If you choose to add a second vibrating dildo to the mix, both partners now enjoy additional stimulation. Voila – a dual pleasure creation of your very own!
Rainbow Silicone Strap On Dildo is a fun fantasy strap on harness kit that comes with the prettiest vividly colored rainbow dildo made of the most sensually soft premium silicone.
- Pouch in the harness fabric holds a mini vibrator
- Heavy duty nylon belt adjusts in 4 places
- Extra soft & flexible silicone rainbow attachment
- Unisex design can be worn by both men & women
Fantasy Vibro Strap On has substantial nylon straps that adjust at each hip and again around the thighs assuring a snug fit no matter your body shape. Extra long straps fit XXL bodies with ease.
- Pouch in the harness fabric holds a mini vibrator
- Heavy duty nylon belt adjusts in 4 places
- Extra soft & flexible spiraled attachment
- Unisex design can be worn by both men & women
Remote Control Strap On is the first remote control, rechargeable wireless vibrating hollow strap on dildo! With only a few hours of charge time via USB cable, (which comes included) you can enjoy intense lovemaking with added vibration that stimulates both partners.
- Hollow interior supports a man's un-erect penis
- Firm & sturdy shaft for hard thrusting
- Remote control operation with a 10 foot range
- 3 powerful speeds & 7 pulsating patterns / functions
How to Choose a Strap On Vibrator
No two strap on vibrators are created equal, so you should take into consideration the following points before starting your search online:
- Note the maximum waist size to make sure the harness will fit your body.
- Double ended and dual vibrating strap ons can only be worn by a woman.
- Choose a crotchless harness or a style with thigh & waist straps if it will be worn by a man.
- Should the vibration be felt by the giver, receiver or both partners? Motor placement varies!
- Vibrating strapless strap ons are made specifically for all female couples.
- Note the size of the dildo attachment. Some are small for pegging sex, others are large for fetish fantasy sex.
- If the interior of the dildo is hollow, it can be worn by men with erectile dysfunction. There is room for his flaccid penis to rest inside.
- Wireless motors are hands-free, but corded battery controller units are capable of producing more power.
Double Vibrating Strap Ons
Some strap on vibrators have two motors. One in the harness (or somewhere near the wearer's pelvic region) ans the second in the vibrator for their partners sexual enjoyment.
Dual pleasure motors combine to spread the buzzing sensation throughout the device. The first motor stimulates the wearer's clitoris or pelvis while a second motor is used for vaginal stimulation during sex.
The double sided and double ended vibrating strap on features a smaller probe attached to the harness that inserts like a plug into the wearer's vagina. This style is the most popular and best choice for lesbian couples.
